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Once the bird of faith flies away from life, then it does not return for the rest of its life.

By Abubakar AliPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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If the feeling inside a person dies, then the fine fragments of these broken, shattered relationships are given such wounds which are full of bitterness in some relationships in the world along the way. In which a negative thought often arises in the mind as soon as we hear the name of the relationship but sometimes we fill this bitterness for our own reasons and sometimes others play an important role in filling the bitterness in this relationship. Then there are the delicate relationships such as mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, Nand, brother-in-law, Deorani, Jethani and most of all, the couple's relationship which is filled with bitterness due to our slightest mistake.

If you look, all these relationships are very sweet. If we show wisdom and prudence in every matter, there is no reason why these relationships should not be even closer to our bloody relationships. The message is spread and then these loves are helpful in strengthening the relationships which increase the respect and esteem in the society. No matter how serious it may be, if it is presented with regular arguments, it will certainly turn into a big and worrying thing. There used to be attributes and distinctions, but in today's age of machines, all this has become a dream. Or we can say that now this work of ours has also been taken over by Agyar. The fact is that the foundation of a sincere relationship is like the first brick which, if laid crookedly, the wall is built crookedly. Relationships, whether strong or weak, take a person to the stage of completion, but at the same time, the most delicate temporary unreliable thing of man is human relationships. Of course, time, friends and relationships are all given to us, but we do not value them. Their value is known only when they are away from us. In fact, relationships are connected to feelings. If the feeling inside a person dies, then the fine fragments of these broken, shattered relationships are given such wounds that keep on reaching their breath and then there is no one to cure these wounds. It has also been observed that in some families, small talk can lead to big relationships. The slightest thing is turned into a mountain of rye, that is, trivial things make such holes of suspicion in relationships that man keeps putting bricks of explanations all his life and still cannot save these beautiful and beautiful relationships.

This is because the relationship and relationships only need respect and attention and importance. Therefore, the more they are valued, the deeper and stronger they become, but we all get entangled in the problems, sufferings and scatters of our lives and lose the service of these relationships and other important blood relationships. They carry the debt of this service on their shoulders and then they leave this mortal world. The reality of relationships is that the beauty of relationships is in tolerating each other's words but unfortunately the blessing of endurance in all of us has now departed. ۔

The beauty of life is due to relationships. Withdrawal from relationships is not only an abuse of oneself but also an abuse of others because the greatest need of man is man. Man is incomplete without relationships. Where he suffers from these relationships, these relationships also support him. Just as a person needs oxygen, so does a person need relationships, so building and maintaining relationships is a sign of a wise person. Relationships are not broken by being far away, nor are they connected by being close, but they are bound by a solid thread of feeling. Relationships get stronger with attention, sacrifice and time. Perhaps this is the time when every new relationship has the potential to be nurtured and then the fragility is so great that if it is broken then all the relationships are broken and shattered.

It is said that a person's life is like a tenacious tree with which all the relationships connected are like green twigs. If the twigs wither, the whole tree withers. Then to keep this tree of life green, it is necessary to keep these branches green. If the slightest misunderstanding arises in these relationships, then all these twigs gradually dry up and break and then begin to disintegrate. The only person who bows down to save these twigs from breaking and scattering is the one who knows how to value relationships and who knows how to nurture relationships. The scale of the container also has to be raised for the happiness of one's family. Only humility, submission and sincerity can make a place in the heart of the one in front. One should never compete in any relationship but always give equal status to the relationship. Relationships do not need necessity but want respect and attention.

If the feeling disappears from the human heart, then the sting of these broken relationships does not allow the person to live. Perhaps this is the reason why the death of the relationship occurs due to our wrong attitudes. If someone's mistakes have to be forgiven, they should be forgiven immediately. Forgiveness keeps a person's heart clean. If the bird of faith flies away from our lives once, then it does not return for the rest of its life. With great diligence and confidence, we water this plant of sincerity with our love and desire so that it becomes a strong and green tree. But alas, tolerance, understanding, feeling has disappeared in this day and age. One should also carry in one's life those relationships without which one cannot live. Our lives are incomplete without these relationships. May Allah help us to maintain the relationship.

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