Is puppy love a bad boy?

Maybe what you think is beautiful, but fragile in the face of real life. It is recommended that if you are really in a puppy love, you should not have an intimate relationship in the past. If the parent is enlightened, you can tell the parent. If you feel that your parents don't understand anything, are not enlightened, and follow the old ways, then forget it. Because such parents can't help you. The road ahead is still very long, and the oaths, sweet words, eternity and passion and romance in front of me are all short-lived. It is the most correct to take your own study, life and friends and family around you seriously. In fact, the mature love you are in occurs during the 18-30 years of your life. At that time, after you have graduated from university and entered the society, you will look at all this more objectively. Right now, you are not enough to bear a lot of things. I don't know if you understand what I'm talking about.

A friend asked me: If I don't consider other factors (study, etc.), how should I choose the "better people" I will meet in the future compared to the people I have now? My answer is: Oops, this is too hard to answer. If you will meet a better person after rushing, then keep your emotions, spend your energy on things that you think are more valuable, keep the beauty in your heart, and don’t take a substantial step. After all, we mortals, with limited energy, tend to take care of one thing and lose the other. Moreover, the matter of love cannot be left uncontrolled like a wild horse. Frankly speaking, in front of real life and personal future and future, everyone's little emotion of first love is too artificial. I say this, not to think that each individual's emotions are unimportant, don't misunderstand me. I respect everyone's emotions and hearts, and everyone's emotions and feelings should be understood and accepted by others and society (provided the ministry does not endanger others and society). This is a basic human right! However, life (life) is a series of trade-offs, choices and compromises. Children will gradually understand this. You can't say that I want romantic love and top grades. No, No, No, it is almost impossible. Only a small part lucky dogs can acheive that. To take a step back, what if you were just like you and me when you were young? Think rationally, do you guys really have future? However, dialectically speaking, if feelings can be controlled at will, then this person is too rational and not cute. It also lacks the "human in temperament" aspect of human nature. In conclusion: If you think you can do a good job in love and study at the same time, walk in them, and do it with ease, then you can stock the little rabbit in your heart. If you think you don't have this ability, you should keep the beauty in your heart and focus on studying or doing other things that can improve your ability and career. It seems that my answer is off topic. Sorry about whether I will meet someone better? Well, my experience (myself and those around me) tell me that this is almost certain. This is a high probability of at least 80% (this is an estimated value based on personal feelings, without any social statistical adjustment. If you don't like it, don't spray it. Everyone expresses their opinions.). So, in this case, you should firmly believe that you are too young, too simple. Your beautiful world and life picture have not been unfolded at all. Don't be fooled by the illusions and ignorance in front of you. Boldly move forward, keep learning, improve your abilities, broaden your horizons, and you will meet the right people at the right time, at the right place, and in the future. There is not a saying: the flowers in the corner, when you admire yourself, the world becomes smaller. Can this poem be considered: Poor man, when you sink into your own world and emotions, the (vision) world becomes smaller. (Of course, some people say that Lao Tzu is going to be immersed in his own world, the outside world is none of my business, and the outside world must be okay? Such an attitude is fine. This is another life, another realm, another way of life.)