I want my girlfriend to help pay the mortgage and support the family after marriage, but the property certificate does not want to add her name

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Li Hongtao and his girlfriend Lan Qing fell in love for three years, looking at their own immediately thirty years old, home parents are always urging him to get married, early to the child, said while they can still move can help them take the child, will not delay their work, Li Hongtao also have the idea of marriage, but marriage is not more than a relationship, a relationship is two people who love each other together happy, marriage is to take responsibility for, consider He still proposed to his girlfriend Lan Qing.

Lan Qing was an independent new era of women, considered more than Li Hongtao consider some, to get married, first of all, there must be a place to live, then you have to buy a house, where to buy a house? About how big to buy? How much does it cost? Do you want to live with your in-laws after the wedding? When do you plan to have children after marriage? If you have a child, you have to consider the child's life and education.

But Lan Qing also knows that no matter what things have to be step by step, the first thing to solve is to buy a house, she and Li Hongtao home in the same city, although it is a city but is a fourth-tier city, to have better development in the future two people discuss to buy a house in the provincial capital, the price of the capital city than their home prices are much higher.

Li Hongtao is the only son of the family, Lan Qing family in addition to his parents and a brother in college, Li Hongtao's mother has been worried about Lan Qing is a "help brother devil", at the beginning of their love is not much like Lan Qing, if not because Lan Qing has a good income job, may have already spoken out against it.

Now that her son is getting married to Lan Qing, her mother must keep an eye on it, never let her soft-hearted son be coaxed by Lan Qing to go, this is a big deal to buy a house, Lan Qing's family certainly can't get much money, then it's still their own family to pay the bulk, so the property certificate can't add Lan Qing's name so that in case the young couple can't get along in the future, their own hard-earned money to buy the house still The house bought with our own hard-earned money will have to be given to Lanqing.

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The future mother-in-law's small calculations Lan Qing is not at all know, these years she worked to earn money is her savings, her parents are an ordinary ordeal, the family's economic conditions than the boyfriend Li Hongtao family is to be worse, parents work hard to earn money to support her to go to college, she can appreciate the parents are not easy, although the family is not rich, parents also did not say patriarchal, from childhood to growing up also did their best to give her The parents did not say that they were patriarchal, but did their best to give her a stable life and a warm home.

After she came out to work, she wanted to help her parents share her brother's tuition, but her parents refused, her mother said: "Although your father and I do not earn much, your brother's tuition and living expenses can still afford, your money will be saved, when you get married, Mom and Dad may not be able to get much money for your dowry, the money you save can be a dowry, with a dowry after pregnancy and childbirth The money you save can be used as a dowry, and it will be convenient to use it when you get pregnant and have a baby."

Lan Qing has worked for several years, her salary is quite high, plus she does not like to dress up and do makeup, there is nothing bad hobby, really saved a sum of money, now this money is the dowry money, then buy a house she may not be able to get much money, thinking about this matter she asked Li Hongtao out, and he said this matter, the two together for several years, each other are sincere want to live together, so in the bride price aspect The Lanqing family also only symbolically asked for 88,000.

Now discuss to buy a house, Lan Qing thought it was an easy thing, did not expect Li Hongtao in hearing her say to buy a house she can not get much money when her face is a bit unsightly, he knows Lan Qing's high wages, also know Lan Qing more or less some savings, listen to Lan Qing said this means that she a little money is not, obviously she has money in her hands, clearly she does not want to pay, which makes him can not help but think of his mother said when he was leaving the house A remark.

It turns out, Li Hongtao's mother in know son today to go and Lan Qing discusses house matters, on the son stopped at the door to son said: "you discuss the matter of buying a wedding house, if Lan Qing can come up with more than 300,000 yuan, the property certificate can add her name, if 300,000 yuan or less to say with her we buy a house let her pay for decoration, so there is no need to add her name if She does not have a penny with no need to be polite, directly and she said that the future mortgage she has to help pay, as her rent."

Li Hongtao listened to his mother's words and did not think, he felt that Lan Qing certainly is not the kind of person who does not pluck, to listen to his mother's words, and said his mother is thinking too much but did not expect Lan Qing's statement let him instantly feel the face was slapped, he could not help but a little annoyed, asked Lan Qing: "Your salary is not always your savings? Now is the time for us to buy a house and settle down, it is the time to take it out."

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Lan Qing see Li Hongtao annoyed, also know buy a house own not taking money out is a bit unjust, and Li Hongtao said patiently: "My family what condition kind you also know, my brother is still studying, so my parents said the dowry may not give me much, I save that money and dowry put together, so my dowry is decent a little, my parents face also look a little This dowry and bride price together with the future is not the two of us, when we have a child, pregnant with a child without a job when the hands also have some live money, what happened is not in a hurry is not."

"Besides, now you put a down payment after we get married, the mortgage I help to pay together is not the same? This money backward and forwards in addition to the face is different is not the same in our hands."

Li Hongtao listened to Lan Qing's words and, directly decided that Lan Qing is looking for excuses and not willing to take money out, he felt his mother has foresight, so he said: "buy a house down payment all I can, but the property certificate can only write my name, the house is mine, of course, the mortgage is also my repayment when the other expenses of the family will have to you all-inclusive. "

"I have calculated, we buy a 90-square-foot two-room apartment, the down payment to 900,000, after the monthly payment of 6,000 yuan, my monthly salary is 6,500 yuan, after paying the mortgage I only have 500 yuan, are not enough for my monthly pocket money, then the two of us living expenses, the family's utility bills, gas bills, property costs have to rely on you, of course, if you can pay the down payment out of 300,000 will add your name to it."

Li Hongtao's words and Qing some stunned, she looked at the man in front of her, and suddenly felt very strange, she never knew Li Hongtao to be so calculating, according to his words if she does not come up with 300,000, the property certificate does not add her name, the house is Li Hongtao a person, and she Lan Qing has nothing to do, and the two after the marriage Li Hongtao money to pay for the house, she has to be responsible for all the expenses of the family, including raising Li Hongtao, raising children, and even in-laws. Even the parents-in-law.

Is she crazy? To such a marriage has what meaning, she more than 10,000 yuan a month salary, how to live uncomfortable days, to toil and dedication of their labor, and in the end, what is not empty, she is not stupid, before the marriage even so clear, the days after the marriage can be good to where? In this case, it is better to buy your own house and pay for it. The final result is that the two people fell apart, not happy, Lan Qing began to reflect on her promise to Li Hongtao's proposal is not too rash.

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Li Hongtao returned home sullenly, Li's mother saw her son's expression and knew that things did not talk well, and indeed just sat down not a moment later Li Hongtao Lan Qing is not prepared to take money to buy a house and his parents said, his heart vaguely a little uneasy, think is his own impulsive, Lan Qing's character is the type of love-hate type, today he and Lan Qing said so if Lan Qing is not willing to marry him how?

Li's father listened to his son after today's incident, immediately said: "You hurry to go and Lanqing apologize, you today so Lanqing will certainly determine that you are a calculating person, you say you a big man so small-minded, so small pattern, why do not you think about how much Lanqing will pay for your family after marrying here? The couple is so clearly calculated, how to live in the future? Since ancient times, marriage and children are prepared by the man's house, the birds in the sky courting still know they have to build a nest to settle, how do you still have the nerve to let her pay for it? She also said she would help pay the mortgage, not that she doesn't care, if you are not enlightened you will miss such a good girl, don't regret it later."

Listen to the father's words, Li Hongtao is a little anxious, honestly, he is really like Lan Qing, afraid of losing Lan Qing, Li Hongtao did not have time to say anything heard his mother said: "What anxious, I do not believe that leaving our Hongtao, Lan Qing can still find a better, although she earns more than Hongtao, her family conditions than our family, besides, she is 29 years old young woman She still has many years of youth to spend, with our family's conditions and our son's handsome appearance, to find a better than she is not easy?"

"So! Her parents can't even take out her dowry, let alone buy a house for her brother, and then they'll have to look for you. So you can't make concessions in this area at the beginning, or there will be no end to it."

Li's father heard his wife's words and some disgust, he said to his son: "Do not listen to your mother, if you listen to her words you and Lanqing certainly can not get married, a man will go to Lanqing, explain properly, and then apologize when I married your mother, your mother also did not ask for less, marriage is a new beginning of two people together, only two people understand each other, mutual tolerance marriage Only long-lasting."

Li Hongtao is a little dilemma they're a father's words are very reasonable, but to pull down his face to go to Lan Qing to apologize, he is a little reluctant, mother's words although hard to hear but not all unreasonable, drag the consideration for three days, finally, he decided to go to Lan Qing to apologize, really his heart can not let go of Lan Qing, who knows he went to Lan Qing company downstairs to ask the security guard, only to know that Lan Qing went on a business trip early this morning. As for when to come back security is not clear.

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Li Hongtao returned home listlessly, Li's father learned that Lan Qing went on a business trip, can only sigh, but Li's mother played their little calculations, she made several phone calls and called a group of sisters to help introduce their son to a blind date, if Lan Qing and son broke up, then these spare parts can come in handy.

After a few days, Li's mother could still see her son's wilted look, and scolded him for being a loser, because there were more girls out there than Lan Qing, and he still had to hang himself on Lan Qing's tree, so she decided to take her son on a blind date so that he could get to know a few more beautiful women, and let him know that Lan Qing was not the only woman in the world.

Li's mother said to her son: "Hongtao, see your recently bad mood, why not go out with mom, your aunt Li and I today together to a new Western restaurant to eat, but we have never been to a Western restaurant, afraid to make a joke, you and I go together! When Mom does not understand anything, you can remind us on the side, OK?"

Li Hongtao at home is also very boring, listen to the mother said so and agreed, the mother also said to go to the western restaurant to wear a good bit, told Li Hongtao to clean up well, not a while, Li Hongtao new and mother went out together, to the restaurant only after Li Hongtao found Li aunt also brought a beautiful young girl, introduced to each other only to know Li aunt's idea and Li mother's idea, afraid of jokes reluctantly pull The niece who has just returned from abroad to do with.

Li Hongtao again slow to react to what is going on, he had the impulse to get up and go, but looking at his mother full of smiles, he did not want his mother to lose face, can only be distracted to sit here to listen to his mother and Aunt Li chat happy, Aunt Li's niece named Zhao Ling, just returned from abroad not long ago, looking at Zhao Ling and his same dry sitting with a bored look, knowing that Zhao Ling may be the same as he was fooled over.

So he and his mother said to take Zhao Ling to the vicinity around familiar with the environment, Li's mother and Aunt Li listened very happily, and without saying anything let them both go, Zhao Ling and Li Hongtao out of the restaurant door after the two people are a long breath of relief, Zhao Ling said time is still early called Li Hongtao to introduce her to a fun place, she wants to see, Li Hongtao remembered that he and Lan Qing dating often go to the place, beautiful environment, the landscape is very The scenery is very good, he took Zhao Ling and went.

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After arriving at the attraction and looking at the familiar place, Li Hongtao remembered Lan Qing again, as a result, once he turned around he saw Lan Qing, she was looking at him, Lan Qing approached and asked Li Hongtao: "What a coincidence, introduce this beauty around you!" Li Hongtao knew that Lan Qing was a premonition of anger.

Lan Qing is indeed a little angry, that day after the two did not happy, she has been waiting for Li Hongtao's phone, the result is three days, in her hesitation to call him, the company sent her on a business trip, this a week's time Li Hongtao still did not call her, which makes her very disappointed, last night she returned home, thinking about him today to come out to talk properly, early in the morning go out unknowingly walked to the previous they often The place where they used to come together.

The coincidence of meeting Li Hongtao at that moment Lan Qing was very happy, but in seeing him not alone, his heart is a little cold, he was standing next to a beautiful young girl, but she still walked over, no matter what also to give this relationship a result, play dumb to escape is not her style.

Li Hongtao in the introduction to the two girls, said to Lan Qing: "This is my mother's good friend's niece Zhao Ling"

Zhao Ling said, "This is my girlfriend Lan Qing."

Just as his words fell, Zhao Ling said, "Why are you out on a blind date when you have a girlfriend?"

A sentence fell, the three people have changed their faces, Zhao Ling was immediately shocked since the leak, Li Hongtao's face black, red, red, black, Lan Qing is a look so, Li Hongtao brain a mess, he did not know how he left, Lan Qing looked at him when the disappointed eyes, kept replaying in his mind.

Back home he received a message from Lan Qing, three words "break up", Li Hongtao lost his soul and sat on the sofa dazed, Li's father looked at his son this way, it is known and Lan Qing related matters, the son grew up obedient and understanding, perhaps because his wife's character is a too strong reason, the son's nature is a little indecisive, some cowardly, and Such a character makes him lose the best time to win back Lan Qing.

He knows that his wife does not like Lan Qing, even if his son and Lan Qing got married smoothly, with his wife's character, the two of them will not have a peaceful life, Lan Qing is a good girl, sensible and calm with personality, and the character of his wife who stirred up trouble will get along to come, break up is good, not to squander the good girl, but also to let his son remember, or he does not know where his shortcomings are

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Li's mother is happy to come back but sees her son this way, can't help but be shocked, to ask about the original story after she was a little weak, want to say what in the husband's warning eyes shut up.

Li Hongtao dared to go to Lanqing, explaining to her that he and Zhao Ling went out together, and assured Lanqing that even if Lanqing did not pay for the house, her name would be added, and he only hoped that Lanqing would not break up with him.

Lan Qing's heart is very complicated she knows Li Hongtao and Zhao Ling have nothing to do, she just from the recent events found Li Hongtao's character flaws, and this flaw is her least favorite, not to mention Li Hongtao's mother is a bad one, for various considerations, Lan Qing refused Li