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How to guide the child in early love?

What should parents do if they find out that their child is in a puppy love?

By Jacqueline M CohenPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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I think parents don't need to be overly nervous. If the children are sincere, and both children are more motivated and able to make progress together, they can guide them: if they want to truly build their own family and live a good life in the future, Study hard now! Because the construction of a happy family is not just about love, but also financial support, and there will be conflicts and disputes~ If it is a girl, you should also remind the child to protect yourself~ Protect yourself and work hard to enrich yourself. Leave the choice to yourself, and you will live up to any good time!

First ask him why he likes each other, and be sure not to slander it or it will backfire. Regardless of whether the other party is excellent or not, tell him that he must not drag others down and must make progress together. He must be patient, properly teach him about the emotions he may encounter, and teach him to be careful. Love must be discussed carefully, and no one should be delayed. But also tell him that he is also excellent and worthy of love.

First of all, you must protect the child's self-esteem and stand by the child's side, otherwise he will not listen to any reason you say. Tell him that this is something that everyone will encounter, and then tell him that this is not true love. There are so many people in this world, and few people have results in early love. If it is true love, then study hard together and live a good life. If you can't even stick to this plan, you don't need to talk about the result of this relationship.

First of all, you must protect the child's self-esteem and stand by the child's side, otherwise he will not listen to any reason you say. Tell him that this is something that everyone will encounter, and then tell him that this is not true love. There are so many people in this world, and few people have results in early love. If it is true love, then study hard together and live a good life. If you can't even stick to this plan, you don't need to talk about the result of this relationship.

Analyze the pros and cons for him, and then let him make his own choice. If his choice is to break up, then it is over (remind the child to say that he does not want him to break up), if it is not divided, then talk to him about the conditions: Love is okay, but first of all, the grades cannot be dropped. If the grades are not dropped, the progress will be rewarded, but if they are dropped, then they are not allowed to be together, unless the grades are restored. representative divided)

1. Do not do regrets. We need to educate our children that we need to walk our own way in the future. Therefore, the days ahead are very long, let them know that they should study hard at the learning stage, and when they need to fall in love, naturally parents will not stop them, otherwise it will be too early. Love will regret in the future. 2. The child's puppy love indicates that the child has grown up. Parents should give guidance to the child's growth, and turn the guidance of the child into a kind of love education. 3. Timely communication. Parents should not be blindly angry after finding out that their children are in puppy love, let alone beat and scold their children. They should communicate with their children carefully without hurting their self-esteem, so that the children can realize the drawbacks of puppy love. The problem of children's puppy love should not be regarded as "flood beasts" by parents and teachers. We should treat the problem of children's puppy love with a normal heart, guide children, let them learn to deal with immature love, form a correct view of feelings, do not affect learning, and do not cross the line.

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