Get your ex back: Just three steps to make him fall in love with you again!

Nine times out of ten, not every relationship can always be sweet. How many people have been wandering in the shadow of love, how many people have wanted to finally grasp the happiness that slipped away.

How can we recover the beauty that was accidentally lost? How do you get someone to love you back again?

The first thing you need to figure out is this: Is it a real breakup or a fake breakup?

Recovery can not be generalized, different situations need different measures, just like seeing a doctor, to the right medicine. Some girls, when they get broken up, they just snap out of it.

In fact, recovery is not the earlier the better, to find out whether you are true or false break up, and then use the corresponding method, in order to be effective.

Under normal circumstances, if the other party does not completely cut off contact with you, such as deleting your wechat and QQ.

You can still call each other on the phone, and the other person still shows anger or blame you when talking to you, or posts some songs, articles, and feelings about emotions on social networks, then this is a fake breakup.

On the contrary, if the other party completely deleted all of your contact information, and your phone is also pulled into the blacklist, even if you go to him, he will not ignore you at all, treat you as air, and even the social network is a Dead Sea, without any waves.

That means they really want to break up with you. That's what we call a true breakup.

Compared with false breakup, true breakup is more difficult to recover. So today we're going to talk about how to recover from a real breakup.

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As I said, the first characteristic of a true breakup is a complete disconnection, so the first step we have to take to get the other person back is to find a way to re-establish contact with the other person.

When doing this step, do not rush. If the other party has just screened you, then at this time, you must not try to use a trick to let the other party add you back.

The right thing to do is to wait for a while, wait until the other person is calm and stable, and then slowly try. This time should take at least half a month, because real breakups need more time to settle than fake breakups.

You can send a friend request to each other again half a month later, I believe that the effect will be much better.

If that doesn't work, then you can write a long message to reflect on the inadequacy of your previous behavior, and then express that you want to add the other person's wechat as a reminder.

Just need to know whether the other person is doing well is enough, never disturb him, and then find a way to contact him, such as email or SMS, it is OK.

I believe that at this time, the other party has been calm in the case, how much will remember your direct old feelings, and agree to your request.

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Use the anchor to bring back good memories with you.

In doing this step, you need to test his reaction to you through the help of friends, if the reaction is good, you can implement, if not, you have to postpone.

How do you test it? First ask your friend to mention you in front of him and say that he has seen you recently. If the other party does not show special dislike at this time, then you can let your friend deliberately reveal that you did not put him down, feel sorry for the intention.

And then you can use the anchor to bring back good memories of you.

For example, you can post a picture of you eating at a restaurant that you usually go to, or put a picture of you cleaning up your house, and then pretend to inadvertently display a gift that he has given you, or share some songs that you used to love in the circle of friends.

In short, it is to use the good bits of you have been together, to awaken his good memories of you. This way the other person will miss you, and then slowly accept you again.

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In addition, you also need to recognize the root cause of your last breakup problem, and then correct it, let the other person see that you have changed, and the relationship between you can have a substantial reversal.

I have met a lot of girls, every time to ask her boyfriend to get back together with them, in order to express their sincerity, they will correct their shortcomings in a short time, and then say it to the boys like a work report. But the effect of this is not very good.

The reason is that such behavior will make the boy feel that you are just trying to deceive him, and when this time passes, you will be revealed again.

In addition, this kind of behavior, when the guy is not fully ready to accept you back, it will cause him a great deal of psychological stress.

So the right thing to do is, in your future relationship with boys, or in your circle of friends, and through the insinuation of friends, slowly infiltrate the changes you make bit by bit, so that he can see that you are no longer the person you were before.

When he gradually changes to you, then slowly try to contact him a little more, show your charm in front of him, and attract him twice.

This way, you guys will get back together.

True breakups are more difficult to recover than fake breakups.

But I believe that as long as you are willing to spend enough time and energy in this process, in the right way, slowly and step by step, you will have a great chance to get back together and return to the past.

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~This is Antoine, and I hope you find pleasure in each of my articles~