Female student suspended from school due to pregnancy

If you found out that you were pregnant while you were in college, would you choose to have the baby?

It's not uncommon for many people to get pregnant while in college because they are dating someone of the opposite sex, but they lack security when they are close to each other.

In this regard, most students will solve this "problem" through surgery for academic reasons, but there are a few who will choose to leave the child, that is, get married and have children during college, and become a mother.

Not long ago, at a university in Hangzhou, Jiangsu Province, a sophomore girl made a surprising decision after finding out she was pregnant.

It is understood that the girl received a marriage license with her boyfriend before going to college, the two are a legal couple, during school, the girl found herself pregnant with a small baby, after careful thought and discussion with her family, the girl decided to give birth to the child.

This decision meant that she would interrupt her studies and return to her family, but since the pregnancy was after marriage, the girl's situation did not violate the relevant school regulations, so the surrounding students did not agree but also gave their blessing, and the school also approved her application for suspension.

In this way, the girl completed the life event of marriage and childbirth before her peers. After the baby was born, the girl also became busy, not only providing breast milk to the child but also taking care of the child all the time, so she could only continue to take a break from school.

The good thing is that the girl is optimistic and cheerful, in the process of taking care of the child, she shared her daily routine with the baby by taking videos to the citizens, but it is also precisely these videos that pushed her to the forefront of public opinion.

Many citizens believe that college girls become baby mothers, which is not something worth showing off, early marriage and early childbirth are not honorable.

Some people also said that the marriage of girls is legal, and now many universities also allow college students to get married and have children, so girls off student children is not a matter of shame, they also have the right to share their daily life online.

So far, the topic of early marriage and early childbirth of college students has also sparked hot debate online.

Citizens commented.

"I don't think there's anything wrong with it, I'm old enough to meet the right person, and both parents agree, there's nothing wrong with it. After giving birth to a child go back to school. After graduation, the child is also older, out to find work is not more competitive?"

"Having a baby is not the end of the story, it's just the beginning, who will take care of it? Who will raise it? Who will pay for the expenses? Who is going to pay for it? It is irresponsible for two people who are still children to become parents before they are mature."

"The state law provides that college students can get married and have children, it is not against the law, and in the current situation of the low fertility rate, the state is encouraging childbirth."

"The key is to be able to keep living in love, the most afraid of people to divorce in middle age, a woman who has not finished college, how to go live?"

How to rationally look at college students getting married and having children?

From the point of view of personal development, the purpose of going to university is to better learn professional knowledge and find suitable employment opportunities after getting out of school in the future.

However, when college students get married and have children early before they finish their studies, it will inevitably have a significant impact on their careers for women, as raising children is a very difficult process.

Wait until the mother feels that the child can be taken off before going out to work, the lack of work experience will make them repeatedly hit the wall when they are employed.

But from the perspective of fertility, it is not useless for college students to get married and have children. College students are adults, and in a fertility environment where the country's fertility rate is at record lows, young women who have children at their prime age will not only increase their fertility rate but will also recover much faster in their bodies than older mothers.

Of course, we do not encourage college students to get married and have children during school, relatively speaking, in this case, the risks that both men and women have to bear are still relatively large.

But for some examples around the university "early marriage and early childbirth", we should also respect the choice of others, do not use malicious words to mess up the lives of others.

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