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Family, Faith, and Health: My Journey to Becoming a Surrogate

Written by: Marci Hughes Published: May 31, 2024 Updated: August 19, 2026

By ConceiveAbilities Egg Donor and Surrogacy AgencyPublished 15 days ago • 4 min read

As told by Jocelyn Winnett, ConceiveAbilities surrogate

After becoming an egg donor to help another family grow, Jocelyn Winnett knew she wasn’t finished giving back. Her experiences in healthcare, strong family values, and faith ultimately inspired her to become a surrogate — giving her another opportunity to help intended parents achieve their dream of becoming parents.

From Egg Donor to Surrogate

I became an egg donor because I have a strong desire to help others. By donating my eggs, I can assist a family in fulfilling their dream of having a child.

After donating my eggs, I felt like there was something more I could do to contribute to family building. I decided to continue my giving journey as a surrogate because I believe in the power of helping others and making a difference in their lives.

I did some thorough research and filled out an online application to become a surrogate to see if I was a good candidate.

After learning that I met the criteria, I was absolutely thrilled to embark on my surrogate journey.

Finding Purpose Through Surrogacy

Knowing that I am helping someone build a family is an incredible feeling. It’s a privilege to be able to play a role in such an important and life-changing journey for intended parents.

Every step of the surrogate process, from the initial decision to become a surrogate to the pregnancy itself, is filled with a sense of purpose and fulfillment.

I feel honored to be able to help bring a new life into the world and to witness the joy and happiness it brings to the intended parents. It’s a deeply rewarding experience, and I am grateful for the opportunity to be a part of it.

How Her Healthcare Background Prepared Her for Surrogacy

My background as a medical assistant definitely made me feel more prepared to be a surrogate. My understanding of medical procedures, patient care, and the importance of clear communication with healthcare providers helped me navigate the surrogacy journey with confidence.

As a medical assistant, I gained valuable experience in patient care, compassion, and understanding the complexities of medical treatment. My experience in the medical field has given me an understanding of the importance of health and wellness, which has been invaluable in ensuring a healthy pregnancy for the intended parents.

It has also helped me feel more prepared and empathetic towards intended parents and the entire surrogacy process.

How Faith Inspired Jocelyn’s Journey

My faith has played a significant role in my decision to be a surrogate. It has taught me the importance of compassion, kindness, and helping others in need. My faith has also taught me the value of family and the joy that comes from bringing new life into the world.

These beliefs have guided me in my decision to become a surrogate, as I feel that it is a way for me to live out my faith and make a positive impact on the world around me.

My faith has given me strength and courage throughout this journey, and I am grateful for the opportunity to be able to use my faith to help others in such a meaningful way.

Growing Up With a Family That Values Giving Back

My family background played a significant role in my decision to become a surrogate. Growing up in a family that values compassion and helping others, I was inspired to extend that care.

This upbringing instilled in me a strong desire to support others in their journey to parenthood, which led me to my surrogate journey.

The Most Rewarding Part of Her Journey

The most rewarding part of my surrogacy journey so far has been seeing the joy and gratitude of the intended parents as they progress towards parenthood.

Knowing that I have played a role in helping them achieve their dream of having a child is incredibly fulfilling and has brought me a sense of purpose and happiness.

Finding the Right Intended Parent Match

Matching with my intended parents was a wonderful experience. After going through the application process and meeting with the agency, I was matched with a couple who I felt an immediate connection with. We shared similar values and had a great rapport right from the start.

Our relationship has grown stronger over time as we’ve gone through the surrogacy journey together. We communicate regularly and they have been incredibly supportive and involved every step of the way. We’ve developed a deep mutual respect and admiration for each other, and I have felt truly blessed to be able to help them fulfill their dream of becoming parents.

How Surrogacy Empowered Jocelyn

Becoming a surrogate has empowered me in many ways. It has allowed me to use my body to help others in a profound and meaningful way, which has been incredibly empowering. It has also given me a greater sense of purpose and fulfillment, knowing that I am making a positive impact on someone else’s life.

My surrogacy journey has also taught me a lot about myself and what I am capable of. It has strengthened my resilience, patience, and compassion, and has deepened my understanding of the importance of empathy and kindness.

Overall, surrogacy has been a truly empowering experience that has enriched my life in ways I never could have imagined.

Jocelyn’s Advice for Women Considering Surrogacy

I want others in my community to know that becoming a surrogate is a deeply rewarding and life-changing experience. It’s a chance to make a difference in someone’s life and to help create families. It’s a journey that requires commitment, compassion, and understanding, but the rewards are immeasurable.

I want others to know that there is a supportive community of surrogates, intended parents, and professionals who are there to provide guidance, support, and encouragement every step of the way.

If anyone is considering becoming a surrogate, I would encourage them to learn more about the process, connect with others who have gone through it, and consider the profound impact they can have on someone else’s life.

Inspired by Jocelyn, learn more about becoming a surrogate.

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ConceiveAbilities Egg Donor and Surrogacy Agency

ConceiveAbilities is a leading egg donor and surrogacy agency that has helped build families for over 30 years. Learn more about becoming a surrogate, egg donation, the surrogacy process and modern family building.

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