Early childhood growth period, parents cultivate more children these four "abilities"

Early childhood is the period of habit formation, and habit will form character, and ultimately determine a person's ability to show, that is to say, the good growth of children need good behavior to influence, especially in the formative years of young children is the best period of habit formation, the development of good growth habits is also the basis of children independent of society, to a large extent, also determines the quality of learning and life of children.

Many parents want their children to be able to extraordinary ability, but excellent ability must be unconsciously a behavior to show, it is like we walk is the needs of life, but also long-term life gradually formed in the growth of habits, in the long-term habits of life will naturally show a certain behavior in a certain environment, as the saying goes "three years old to see the big, seven years old to see the old "Early childhood growth period is an important period for the development of children's growing abilities, these abilities are also a solid foundation for the child's future success more easily.

So, what "growth skills" do parents need to develop in their children during the formative years? Parents are advised to focus on the following four areas.

1. Life skills

A child's ability to live directly determines their future ability to survive in society, to train the child's ability to live is to lay a good foundation for the child's ability to survive in the future, and the child's ability to live must be reflected in the details of the child's life, life skills are throughout the child's life, these seemingly insignificant ability to live alone, in fact, in the child's future These seemingly insignificant abilities to live alone can actually be used later in life, whether in school or social survival.

The important thing is that children who are able to live independently when they are young must have a strong and struggling mentality when they grow up, and these skills will be used throughout the child's life. Children who have the ability to live independently will be more likely to achieve great things in the future.

How do you train your child to be independent? It is recommended that children do the following things on a daily basis.

-Eating independently

-Throwing away garbage

-Washing face and brushing teeth

-Make the bed and fold the blanket

-Make school bags

-Put away toys

2、Study ability

Learning is the most basic ability to optimize a person, as the saying goes, "live to learn, learn to grow old", even if the learning mode also need to learn often, and people also need to learn in the life of continuous learning to enhance their self-worth, to cultivate children's strong learning ability, will also let them benefit deeply throughout their lives, if the child has a strong learning ability from childhood If children have strong learning ability at an early age, I believe they will be able to solve problems when they grow up.

If parents are concerned about their children's interest in independent learning, it is recommended that parents do the following: - Respect their children's interests and let them learn in a relaxed environment.

-Respect the child's interests and let them do what they like

-Let the child bear the consequences of dawdling and correct the wrong ideas for the next time

-Parents do a good job of teaching by example, even if it is to take a book and pretend to read

3. Social skills

If the child's life skills and learning ability is very good, but their social skills are poor, then once the child out of the family, step into the outside environment, their life skills will be beaten into the grassroots, because social skills are like a portal opened for us in space and time, can send us to the space we want to go to achieve their own value, but excellence is never personal high, excellent personal skills Also need to integrate into the group, in the larger environment shine.

In other words, social skills are an opportunity to show excellence and success in the future, if we are not good at socializing with people, it is difficult to integrate into a variety of large environments, then many opportunities to show their abilities and talents will be blocked tightly, so in the formative years of young children's ability to develop social skills must not be ignored, parents can start to develop their children's social skills from the following four aspects.

-Do not rush to communicate with your child, but listen slowly to what your child has to say.

-Take your child to play with unfamiliar children often

-Parents do a good job of "greeting people" educational example

-Talk with your child about today and plan for tomorrow before bedtime

4. Frustration ability

In the development of early childhood skills, life, learning and social skills are only the basis of children's good growth, the ultimate impact of the ability to frustration is the child's ability, everyone, including children, can not always be favored by the goddess of luck, and the essence of life is the experience of hardship and bitterness and wear and tear, children who can withstand frustration will be able to run to the end of the peak of life.

Parents need to praise their children in every aspect of their lives, so that they can subconsciously develop a frustration-resilient ability to analyze things, such as.

-When your child falls down for the first time, encourage your child to "try again" and praise the details: "Honey, you took a good step this time, but you were too anxious, let's try again."

-When your child throws a tantrum for no reason while stacking blocks, understand your child's "Let me guess why you're throwing a tantrum" and offer advice "You can try the collaborative method of asking for help, maybe the result will be different."

-When your child's exam results are not very good, motivate your child, "You've been studying very hard this time, I believe you'll get better if you keep it up", and suggest to your child, "You can summarize your mistakes in a book and take it out every day to look at it and review it again. "

The formative years of young children are a critical period for the initial formation of children's life skills, children at this stage like to imitate, but also easily influenced, usually parents in the child's independent life, active learning, social communication, and frustration resistance more training, I believe these abilities will accompany the child to break through countless difficulties, more easily to success.