Divorce is A Game. Do You Know How to Play It?

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When I got divorced 10 years ago, I thought it was going to be really easy. It turned out to be extremely litigious. I didn't know what I was doing for many, many years.

I thought he was going to go his way and I’ll go my way where we each go our separate ways and everybody goes on and lives life.

I was sadly, sadly mistaken. A few years after my separation, I ended up starting a business with an uncle, who a few years later literally stole the entire business from me. He literally took everything from under my feet and threw me out like a stray dog into the woods. And I had no idea what to do with my life anymore.

I dipped. I went through depression, I had no idea what I was going to do in my life, and I was questioning everything. I questioned God, I questioned myself, I questioned life, I questioned the Universe. And I said, "Why me? Why me? Why did I have to go through this? What did I do wrong? Did I do something? Am I a bad person? I questioned everything. I couldn't understand how on earth it's possible that I could have gone through one saga after another, and so many things were happening all at the same time.

At the time I was journaling, and one of my employees said to me, "What are you doing lately? You seem to be like really good lately. What are you doing?" And I said, "I don't know, I'm just journaling. I'm just writing all my thoughts and purging them onto a piece of paper. He said "Let me read it!" and I'm like, "No that's trash talk. Nobody wants to read that stuff. No one wants to see that. Besides that, you're going to quit your job and I don't want you to quit." So, he said, "Come on. Let me just read it." And I let him read it and when he came back to me he said, "Ravit my dear, you've got yourself a book. You've got a story to tell and the world needs to hear what you've figured out."

So, fast forward many years later, I published my book, Unwanted Nasty Divorces. And the purpose of that book at the beginning was just to purge it all out. Just to show people and explain to people that divorce is a nasty game. And if you don't know how to play the game, you're at an odd. You are in the deficits and the minuses if you don't understand how to play. And the problem is that we don't know how to marry and we certainly don't know how to divorce either. So, a lot of us end up going through that difficulty, end up going through a nasty divorce because we just don't know how else to do it. We just don't know where else to go. We don't know how to do this. We don't know where to start. We don't know how to create a strategy. We don't know how to do anything, so we kind of just go with our emotions, and whatever emotions tell us to do is what we do.

The Divorce by Rose Community App was inspired by Ravit Rose: Divorce Coach & Mentor | Author of "Unwanted Nasty Divorces" | Founder of the Divorce by Rose Community App designed for parents who are either contemplating divorce or newly separated and wondering "Should I stay married or should I get divorced"?

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