A well-intentioned couple in Taipei, China, left a privileged life and job in Taipei to emigrate to the United States so that their 17-year-old son could have a good future. Although the child's study has been well placed, but in the face of fierce competition, the couple has to do twice as much work as others, only in this way to provide for the entire family's expenses, otherwise they will face the danger of unemployment. At first, they often encounter the boss's picky and the burden of work, but also able to withstand, later, the heavy work pressure they are out of breath, they began to vent to the child. Therefore, the couple often scolded their son with "we are all so difficult for you." They thought that there was nothing to vent like this, what they did not think was that it was such a sentence that allowed their son, who had strong self-esteem, to attempt suicide six times, and the last time, the son had walked to the side of the rail, fortunately, the mother found in time to avoid the tragedy! Later, the child, who grew up under the pressure of his parents for a long time, developed serious psychological problems and had to return to China for treatment, and his studies became half finished.
This is a true story. The couple in the story was originally out of a cavity of the original intention of love, but because of ignoring the son's feelings, just because of a word in the invisible seriously crushed the child's spiritual bridge, so that the original good love has become counterproductive. From this point of view, we really shouldn't put our family under too much pressure.
Not to let the family bear too much pressure, is to study hard, in school to let parents rest assured; Is to work hard, in the career to reassure parents; Is to be friendly to others, in life to let parents worry; Is to pay attention to exercise, in health to let parents comfort; Is to spend more time with parents, in the care of parents comfort.
Not to let the family bear too much pressure, is to emotionally, love into the wife's "patent", the ambiguity into the husband's "private"; That is, in the aspect of housework, more scrambling, less frivolous; It is to get along with the beautiful wife "like glue" in the soul, and turn the husband into the tenderness of "within one inch".
Not to let the family bear too much pressure, is to help them answer questions and solve difficulties on the road of children's growth, so that love becomes a paving brick, rather than a stumbling block; It is in the journey of children's life, to help them reduce the burden, light, so that love becomes the driving force forward, rather than lagging pressure; That is, in all aspects of children's lives, scatter the sunshine of love, plant the flowers of love, and harvest the fruits of love!
Don't let your family bear too much pressure, because home is a place for our hearts to rest, not a punching bag for us to vent. Because our families are the ones we share our joys and sorrows with, not the ones we fight against. Love our family, we should let them relaxed and happy, rather than physical and mental exhaustion, mental exhaustion!
The famous translator Fu Lei once made the following interpretation of "home" in his works: The so-called "family", that is, Father (And) mother (Mather), I (I) Love (You)! It can be seen that the warm pronoun of "home" should be an emotional call from the bottom of my heart, rather than a heavy burden weighing on my body and mind; An expression of uncontrollable love, not a pit of bitter hatred; It is the peach blossom that everyone yearns for, rather than the disaster circle that avoids it!
Home is a relaxed and pleasant soul turntable, in this turntable, let us say goodbye to the pressure, taking the notes of love to travel to the country of happiness; In this turntable, let us feel relieved, along with the cheerful melody all the way to sing; On this turntable, let us shed the burden, follow the light rondo, sing beautiful eulogies, pray for a happy family life!
Dear friends, if you love your family, don't forget to give "love" at the same time, but also to reduce your "love"!
(Everyone present applauded such a romantic expression, while his eyes filled with tears, no one knew that he was deeply sorry for her.)
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