Children fall in love early, how can parents guide?

For puppy love, parents are unwilling to see it, but today's children are relatively precocious, and more capricious and puppy love, the problem of puberty children in adolescence is inevitable for many parents. How can you tell if a child is falling in love? What are the manifestations of children's early love? 1. Will secretly write letters to the opposite sex and make some small gifts, so that parents will not see them. 2. Suddenly interested in literary works, movies, and TV depicting love. The appearance of puppy love has gradually become more common, and the age group of occurrence is getting younger and younger. So, why do children fall in love early? 1. With the continuous development of sexual awareness, boys will become curious about the body, life, psychology and attitude of the opposite sex. This is a psychological phenomenon of adolescents. Adolescent children are prone to sexual impulses, and thus maintain a sensitive attitude towards the opposite sex. In order to satisfy this curiosity, they make friends of the opposite sex. If they develop further, they are likely to become puppy love. 2. The role of adolescents' sense of independence. They blindly yearn and pursue the adult world, thinking that being able to fall in love represents their maturity, but neglect the cultivation, exercise and improvement of their own psychological quality, which is a manifestation of lack of reason. 3. Imitation is too strong. Today's children are actually very smart, especially their imitation skills. There are too many love series now, which makes them fascinated and overwhelmed. They are always looking forward to their own love, and when they meet the opposite sex they like I felt like in the TV series, I imagined that a very romantic love would happen to the two of them, so I tried to do it, which led to puppy love. Do you know the harm and consequences of children's early love? 1. Early love can easily hurt people. Adolescents have unstable attitudes, are prone to conflicts in love, are psychologically immature, fragile and have poor tolerance, and are easily hurt in emotional ups and downs. Some teenagers doubt their life due to the frustration of puppy love, which casts a shadow on their emotional life and even affects their future marriage life. 2. When young boys and girls in adolescence fall in love, most of them are carried out under the condition of immaturity in body and mind. In addition, they have no economic foundation, and most of their economic sources depend on their parents. Therefore, this kind of love has no firm foundation, and it is easy to die in the middle. When they first fall in love, they often swear and even make an oath. But as time goes by, they go from middle school to university, or go to society, their knowledge and experience are gradually enriched, their life experience is continuously accumulated, they really mature, and they have established their own world views and have new standards for mate selection. Some people have conducted follow-up surveys and found that the success rate of marriage for puppy lovers is extremely low, and those who fall in love in high school are not many who can form a family in the end. It's a pity to waste a lot of the best time in life for this "love" that ultimately has more bitter than sweet fruits. What should parents do if they find out that their child is in a puppy love? 1. Talk to the child about the conditions. If you can't control the child, you can choose to reach a consensus with the child, such as agreeing on what academic performance to achieve before falling in love, etc. If you can't stop it, you can urge the child to study in a different way. 2. Enough is enough. Generally speaking, for children, puppy love will end in failure. Even if the matter has passed, the scar cannot be opened. Don't mention the past of their puppy love on other mistakes of the children in the future, and don't use it as an occasional dinner table chat and so on. Letting that past event become the child's own secret and choosing to forget it is the most tolerant love for the child. 3. Strictly criticize and let the children know that puppy love is not good for them. In addition to delaying their own learning, it will also hurt the expectations of their parents and school teachers, etc. Criticism can sometimes play a role. effect. The problem of children's puppy love should not be regarded as "flood beasts" by parents and teachers. We should treat the problem of children's puppy love with a normal heart, guide children, let them learn to deal with immature love, form a correct view of feelings, do not affect learning, and do not cross the line.

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