Children are always half a step behind others?

Some parents say their child is a "chronic" person. The teacher asks the same question, other children have already raised their hands and started to answer, but their child is still thinking slowly and does not know what to do.

This is when parents get anxious, not knowing where their child's problems lie and where they should start to help correct them.

Parents who encounter such children should not panic, it may be a sign of their children's high IQ.

And I once had such a child around me, he is my high school classmate. A veritable bully.

My classmate is very good at studying and doing well in schoolwork, and his grades are first in his grade, and he even left second place not knowing how far. It can be said that my classmate is a novel or movie that will appear in the kind of smart people.

However, his ability to react in daily life is even slower than normal, usually talking to him, he replied most often a word is "ah? The most common word he replies to is "huh?".

Once in gym class, the soccer ball from the next class flew over and the other students dodged it, but he just watched the ball hit him and ended up with a "black eye".

But no one used the words "stupid" and "low IQ" on him.

We can see from him that a slow reaction does not mean a low IQ. It can be due to other reasons.

Why do children always do things half a beat slower than others?

1. Lack of interest in what they are learning

Everyone has an interest, and you can't expect your child to have an interest in everything. When faced with something you don't like, it's understandable that you have little interest and are slow to respond.

2. Lack of self-confidence in life

If the child has very strong parents in the family, the child can not build up enough self-confidence, to avoid embarrassment in front of their parents and being criticized, the mind will no longer be on this, and the reflection will naturally be half a beat slower than others.

3. The child's concentration is on something else

If the child is writing homework or watching anime, the child will not be able to hear the call or ask the child to do something else, which is not because the child is slow or slow, but because the child's attention is on something else.

Therefore, many times if the child shows a slow reaction or is slow to some things, parents should not prematurely judge the child's sentence. And psychology shows that "chronic" and "slow" people have higher IQs.

The first time I saw the movie, I was able to see it.

▲ Slow

The first thing you need to do is to think twice before you act. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Do take one step, think ten steps.

This will not only avoid doing the wrong thing and saying the wrong thing but more able avoid many risks. I have to say, such a "chronic" is the performance of high IQ.

▼Sluggishness

I don't know if you have heard of "great wisdom is foolishness". A truly wise person, on the surface of the cloud, is light and even "slow", but how the people around, how things have long been done in mind. The mind never stops, the brain is always thinking.

It is clear that "chronic" and "slow" can never be determined by the appearance on the surface of the manifestation. More often than not, we even more esteem "chronic" and "sluggish", after all, only high IQ wise people can do so.

How can parents improve their children's "attention span"?

We also understand that if you want your child to be a wise person, the most important thing that a high IQ person can't lack is excellent concentration. Parents can start to develop their children's concentration in the following ways.

★ Trust your child and encourage him/her to do it by himself/herself

A child will pay more attention to what he likes. Parents should not interfere with the child to do what they like, in the process, the child's ability to focus is being effectively exercised.

★★★ Curb your temper and develop your child's self-confidence

When faced with a child's faults, parents should accept them more openly and communicate and communicate with their children in a more friendly way. Improve your child's self-confidence and experience the feeling of success. Make your child more willing to take the initiative to integrate into learning life.

★★★★★ A good home environment helps to develop children's concentration

A quiet and clean environment helps children to concentrate more when studying and reading and reduces toys that can distract children's concentration.

Conclusion

To sum up, "sluggish" and "chronic" are lacking in reaction ability, but there is no positive relationship with IQ, so if you want your child to have a high IQ, you should help your child improve his or her concentration.