Cherish the present people, treat the people who endure hardships together, and don't let details defeat love!

Cherish the present people, treat the people who endure hardships together, and don't let details defeat love! Many people don't know what love is until they lose it.

Because, when people are loved, there will be a sense of entitlement. Enjoy your partner's good for you, but your eyes will only focus on the other person's bad things.

A partner who is considerate, gentle, on call, and goes out of his way to provide you with emotional value may be perceived as not motivated, career-minded, hard-working, or assertive.

He wants to take the initiative to care about you, when you are under the pressure of the problem to give you advice, want to share for you, but you will feel that he is reasonable, suppress your emotions, you scold him not to speak is better than not to say.

He expects you to be good, and every mistake he makes is a point deduction.

It gets easier and easier to see where he's letting you down, and even start to wonder if he's being so nice to you, is that proof that you're worthy of love? Is leaving him, will find a more suitable, more excellent object? The more he treats you, the more you want to treat him badly.

However, he still continues to pay for you, because he loves you. When you ask for something, he will try his best to meet it and make you feel his love for you. You show a little unhappy, he will come to coax you, can see that he put you in the heart; Every time you argue, he goes along with you, and eventually he gives in to you.

Under his accommodation, you finally have the feeling of being loved, you feel that he is the true love of life.

But one day, suddenly found that he no longer have the patience, you are not willing to follow you, you began to quarrel, the cold war, frequently accused each other, he is not willing to step backwards after a contradiction, he began to take the initiative to share everything with you no longer, also slowly back to your emotional expectation, when accumulated to a certain point of the disappointment, he would suddenly filed for divorce.

After losing him, you look back, began to examine their own behavior, can find their missed a deep love for their own people, and also love each other very much, actually just accustomed to wait for the other party to pay, but ignored his requirements, he has been in a relationship is to accommodate you, for you compromise, and he will also have injustice, also want to be loved, finally tired didn't want to leave.

The reason why many couples and lovers break down is because of the "different frequency of love". One party is trying to love, and the other party is waiting to draw love. The one who produces love will always get no response, he will lose power, and the love in the marriage will slowly wither.

At this time, pay a party will have a feeling: two people's marriage, loneliness is more intense than a person.

Basis for this kind of have a love of marriage, more important is to adjust the pay - giving back to the balance of love, always enjoy a party to know the active production of love, know partner's real expectation, relieving point heart discontent, adjust with the model, need to love each other, benign let oneself have the ability to love, let each other have feelings flow relationship building, This kind of love will last forever, and finally lead a happy life.