Being in a small city, it can still get better and better

In life, there is no same script, no rehearsal, laugh or cry, no matter what, we always have to play well.

To live this life well, to live up to this life on earth.

Although born and raised in a small city, it still does not stop us from being positive and trying to get better.

I. Do not overspend yourself

Nowadays, people are paying more and more attention to health issues and know not to trade their health for extraneous things.

I have such a woman around me, she is in the morning market to sell some small department stores, and then goes home at one or two o'clock in the afternoon to plant, and occasionally takes advantage of the time when not in the market, playing odd jobs, the accumulation of months under the body began to go downhill, small illnesses and pains she also endured a little medicine, and cope with the matter.

Until once she fainted and was sent to the hospital and found to have advanced cancer. For her limited time, after she had endured mental torture, she also wanted to open up.

What struggle to make money to save money is not important, health problems are the big problem, and money and housing are not as important as having a good body.

In the post-90s, we are now also a member of the army for staying up late, is not also with junk food? Such a life deserves our reflection.

All the arbitrary overspending is undoubtedly a bomb planted in the future.

In this life, we have dreams that need to be realized, family members that need to be guarded, and only with a healthy body, everything is guaranteed.

Don't overspend your body, have time for more health.

II. No self-denial

Have you ever hated yourself, will not self-denial?

I am such a person, I often do because I do not have a high degree and low self-esteem, but also because there is no good job and anxiety, also because they can only be in small city life and crazy.

I've wanted to do self-publishing countless times, and naturally, I've given up countless times because of self-denial.

Life is long, you are the only one to rely on, and confidence will help you cut through the thorns, all the way forward.

I lack self-confidence, I want to change, I want to try to become better.

Although life is sometimes not as it should be, he never fails a person who is serious about his efforts.

III. Timely to do "subtraction"

The current trend of "break, give up, leave" is not only applicable to material things but also to our lives.

When there is nothing you can do, cut off.

If something is insignificant, let it go.

Those who are unfeeling and unrighteous should be separated.

The first thing you need to do is to learn to subtract to be lighter.

The future is only feasible with addition if you are stable and steady.

IV. Take action

To have a good plan, we must first take action. Otherwise, the idea is good, but also empty talk, the results are poor, and the effort will be rewarded.

I've had a dream of being a writer since I was a child, but many times, I think about it and then put it aside.

Sometimes what prevents us from moving forward is not that the goal is too far away, not that our abilities are too weak, but that we hesitate inside and end up not taking action.

Fear of failure and fear of ridicule ......

The difference between a question and an answer is that one is thinking and one is doing.

Strive to make yourself better, as long as you are willing to act, it is never too late, just like me now, do it, it is not so difficult.

V. Positive and self-discipline

Positive and self-discipline are particularly important things.

Many people joined when self-media was just emerging but gave up because they had no income for a long time, but those who persevered now have a good income.

The more difficult things are, the positive and self-disciplined people, often they are the winners in life.

Lay flat days, although easy, but more waste; self-discipline days, although bitter, the sweeter.

Active self-discipline is the day in our efforts to become better and better.

VI. Active learning

Whether a person can take the initiative to learn determines what kind of life she can have.

My research found that those particularly successful V, are in active and uninterrupted learning slowly grow up.

I want to learn from them and grow up step by step. More skills will provide invisible help when we need it instead.

For people who continue to learn, the road will get wider and wider, and life will be constantly refreshed.

VII. Manage time well

I sometimes feel that the whole day will be very busy, and very tiring, but do not know what they are busy with, time is always not enough.

Everyone has 24 hours in a day, the key is how to manage time.

Things in life, there are big and small, and there are also priorities, and not everything is important, we need to learn to trade-offs, and know how to classify and sort so that it is standardized and orderly.

Although we are in a small city, less pressure to live, naturally, we also have to give up the advantages of high income.

Being in a big city and small cities have their advantages and disadvantages, we also have to give and take, live in the moment, cherish what we have, and not compare, they are happy.

Nowadays, the information age is so developed that although we are in a small city, there are many ways to learn, as long as they are willing to learn, willing to do, it will not be bad.

People who work hard will never have bad luck.