Baby mother the latest birth "last train" is how old? More than this age, it is not good for both mother and child

The other day to attend the wedding of a girlfriend, at the wedding, her mother-in-law's blessing to them was.

"I have no other requirements, just hope that you two quickly give birth to a baby, to complete this big event, I can also help, you also relax."

The best friend laughed at this and said.

"We are still young, let's play for a few years before we have a baby."

After hearing her daughter-in-law's words, her mother-in-law said in a serious voice.

"When you are 20 years old, you are young and strong, you can wait.

At the age of 30, although the skin is well maintained and young, but the body is gradually going downhill.

While you still have enough physical strength and energy to have a child, the mother does not want to see the helplessness and regret when you are preparing for pregnancy."

★Whether to conceive or not, mind

Young couples, the first problem they face after marriage, is often not the firewood, but in the end Mr. child or wait a few years before considering.

Some couples feel that there is no hurry to have children, and it is not too late to wait for 30 years old.

Some think that their current career has not taken off, the economy is not stable, do not want too early to have children, afraid of not being able to raise, etc..

And in the disbelief, entanglement and contradiction, gradually missed their best childbearing age.

Just like one of my cousins, who just became a mother at the age of 38 this year, her road to having a daughter was exceptionally difficult.

She risked her life to have a caesarean section at 37 weeks, and due to high blood sugar and hypertension during pregnancy, she was particularly weak after delivery and had no energy to take care of her child.

She said with some regret, "When I first got married, I only thought about playing, working and earning money, thinking that I could give birth sooner or later, but now that I've really experienced it, I realize that the aging of the body cannot be resisted."

Although many elderly women have successfully given birth to their children, there are even more than 60 years old is already a grandmother's age and conceive a baby, but due to the different physical conditions of each woman, facing the risks and difficulties of childbirth are not the same, so we should not comfort themselves with an example or take a chance, but try to make their own smoother through the pregnancy, so that the child is born more healthy.

The actual fact that you have a good idea of what you're doing will make your life a lot smoother.

The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.

In fact, this has something to do with the body's constitution and age.

When you're young, you have a lot of energy, you're in good shape, you stay up late or work overtime, and you can get over it after a good night's sleep.

After a certain age, the overloaded body will send out the signal "I'm tired and can't carry it".

Especially when a woman conceives at an advanced age, the quality of the uterus and ovaries decreases, which reduces the chances of conception and increases the risk of pregnancy.

The best age for women to give birth is between 25 and 29 years old, preferably not more than 35 years old, if you want to have a child or a mother wants to have a second child, try to catch the last train to reduce the risk of pregnancy and childbirth.

★ Over this age, it is not good for both mother and child

If you are over 35 years old, you will be defined as an "advanced maternal age". Regardless of whether you look young or not, your body and fertility will decrease as you age, and this can be harmful to both the mother and the fetus.

Decreased chances of natural conception

The older a woman gets, the more her uterus contracts and becomes less functional; her endometrium may become thinner and less suitable for the fertilized egg.

This increases the chance of miscarriage and reduces the chance of natural conception.

● Poor egg quality

One of the main reasons for decreased fertility involves the quality of the eggs.

The later you have children, the more your body is affected by the environment, pollution, poor diet, and irregular work habits, and the older your eggs are, the worse their quality will be.

Increased rate of fetal malformations

If the quality of the eggs is poor, the chromosomal abnormalities of the eggs will increase the rate of fetal malformations and congenital diseases, and the probability of difficult births and miscarriages will also increase.

●Limited parenting energy

Even if the baby is born healthy, it is a great challenge to the mother's energy, strength and ability after giving birth to the baby at an advanced age.

Even with the help of elderly people or nannies, it is not easy for a mother to take care of each child's feelings.

Not only do you have to take care of your eldest child's schooling and diet, but you also have to consider the mental health of your two children and other issues, and a mother's energy is limited, so this can be a great challenge for a mother.

Hot mom quotes.

It is true that middle age and even old age do happen, but for the sake of your health, the health of your children and the happiness of your family, it is easier and less risky to prepare for pregnancy at your optimal childbearing age.

It is a sign of responsibility for yourself, your family and your child to plan ahead in your life.

How old were you when you had your baby, moms?