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Are you a terrible person?

The most important thing to do is to correct our own understanding.

By amy dancyPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Each of us often have a lot of good people around us, to help, hurt us, but few people know. Because nobody knows what they're doing.

You are not lacking in intelligence and calculation, and you are currently going through a major transition in your life, where the old has been swept away and the new has not been built. To do this, you need to forgive your mistakes and gaffes and learn to love yourself.

The Water of The Blue Waves by Yan Zhen, a writer from Shaanxi province, helps you to truly understand Chinese society and Chinese people. Look with your heart and see the protagonist as yourself. I'm going to try to build on that, because he described it well but he didn't solve it.

One of the main reasons you're not in shape, apart from a series of setbacks that have hurt your psyche, is that you haven't been able to keep your feet on the ground. How to keep your feet on the ground? "The water of blue waves" characters encounter will be a reminder, a man without demanding the passionless, for your relatives and friends that you try to consider, considering their vital interests, such as someone with high blood pressure, if you really care about her, you can go to understand what is high blood pressure, how to prevent, how to diet, potential hazards, etc., for them to do something even the smallest depth.

"Nothing in the world is difficult if you put your heart into it." If you put your heart into it, a lot of problems will be solved. If you put your heart into it, you will persist in asking, learning and doing.

Everyone is not independent, people need people. We all make mistakes. Some of us are just good at hiding them. Don't judge and don't be influenced by them.

Jesus said to the believers, "Take up your cross and follow me." Carrying the cross refers to the process of constantly letting the old self die and the new self be born, so no one is a bad person. Everyone can do wrong things. We can choose to improve ourselves, to separate ourselves from the wrong. The truth is not that we are inferior people, but that memory and concentration are affected during this transition in life. This is a normal phenomenon that happens to everyone.

There are many important factors in a person's life, among which confidence and direction are crucial. I believe that I am good, and I believe that I am good through continuous improvement, so as to find the direction of my life that makes me happy and work hard.

To clear away the fog of thoughts and emotions, the most important thing to do is to correct our own understanding. We should learn how to correctly and objectively understand people and things, and understand each person's state of mind, motivation or level. Maybe it is ok to read The Lun Yu or the interesting version of dialectical method.

Cry if you want to, but don't let self-pity and emotion control you. Learn to use the power of your own choice. The leader asks you not to cry with full salary, bright see is a good thing, in fact is not a good thing, I would rather suggest you leave at home, nothing to find fun friends to play, or find kindergarten children to play, also strong like in this stage to suppress their emotions in exchange for money.

So,are you a terrible person? Do you have the answer?

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