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A person who can make you feel happy is more important than anything else

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By UdleyPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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What do you like about a person?

Look in line with your aesthetics, body proportion is your dish, personality charm is particularly attractive to you, or just at the right lonely time, met a person who is quite good...

There are many reasons to be attracted to a person, but the reason that allows you to stick with him is, at the end of the day, only one: happiness.

A person who can make you feel happy is more important than anything else

Rita got a new boyfriend some time ago that broke a lot of people's glasses, the man is neither high, nor handsome, nor any gold boy and she is surrounded by those who chased her to chase the rich and handsome exes compared to the 800 Seine, but she seems to enjoy this relationship.

The first time at the party, I really can not help but curiosity asked her a mouth, she froze, smiled and said she also said not clear why, but with him together they are very very very very happy.

He is not the kind of person who will particularly play romantic words, but with him can always somehow feel the emotions slightly sweet, and even can not help but bend their eyebrows into the moon, anyway, to feel very satisfied, especially satisfied.

Not materially ambiguous, nor desire full of wine and rice, like the last bottle of cold Coke in the summer kiosk, was bought by their theft.

The fact is that you will not have to deal with all those messy people, and you don't have to worry about him getting bored one day, just enjoy the feeling of loving and being loved.

It is said that when you get older, you need money to maintain your happiness.

The fact is that you will understand that love is not so complicated, but very simple, is to find the person who makes you feel happy all the time, and can't help but think of him with the corners of his mouth up, it's enough.

I met many boys later, I know they did not like me that much, but always in the name of love and care, picking on me.

I was asked to curb my temper, I was asked not to get angry, I was asked to be obedient, but the boy who liked me the most, as long as I was happy.

A person who can make you feel happy is more important than anything else

There's a saying from Haruki Murakami: The standard for judging whether something is necessary is whether you feel happy when you do it.

In love, it is the same.

The criterion to judge whether a person is worth being with is whether you feel happy when you are with him.

If you are with someone, you will face endless pressure every day, you do love each other, but you have to spend a lot of time arguing, cold war, and each other hurt, then with all due respect, there is no need to torture each other.

The reality will not give you a Happy Ending of keeping the clouds open, only a long illness, the disease is difficult to cure the bad ending.

Even if you can find more excuses for him, the heart has a thousand unrequited, which are not the reason you continue a let yourself hurt feelings.

As Eileen Chang said: "Let you cry to the heart of the person, is the person you love most. Let you laugh to the heartless that person, is the person who loves you the most."

Maybe falling in love will make you cry, but it can also make you laugh.

That single will only laugh, maybe crying a few times is also good, after all, after crying he then lets you laugh, it feels sweet as hell.

If you can, I hope everyone chooses the one who can make them happy to spend the rest of their lives together, not the one you have to work hard to please.

The fact is that you can find someone to live with, you love him, and he loves you, with no reservations, no deception, no unhappiness, no endless tears, and no sleepless nights.

The important thing is that this relationship gives you feedback that is happy, positive, and worthy of hope.

Life is too short to be with people who make you laugh

People who like you will cry with you. Those who love you will try to make you laugh.

This life, with whom to live, how to live, how long to live.

Some people because of love, some because of material things, some because of looks, some because of the future, and some because of pressure. When the day has to go with the person of choice, you will understand that the money is good enough to spend, and the appearance is not scary on the line.

Real happiness, no reason is also very simple, as long as more smiles than tears, you even find the right person.

There is a magnetic field between people and people, there must be a person, and as long as you see him will be a chaotic heart rate, and as long as together do what will be super happy.

Even if you are not in the eyes of the general pair, perhaps there are differences in economic levels or have very different preferences, it does not matter, happiness is first.

He will listen carefully to every word you say, and take it to heart; will remember what you said you like things and things, and at some point suddenly surprise you; will put your joy and sorrow first, and do their best to love you with instinct...

I know that many happy times are fragments, twinkling like stars, each piece is a moment to try to grab, and all the pain and tiredness become the next drink when clinking glasses.

No need to say much, just stay in the moment.

When you have this joy, you know very well in your heart that it is short-lived, and one day it will be away from you again, and this fallout makes you fall into sadness.

Although I am both looking forward to and afraid of the future, if I had to choose, I would choose to savor this short-lived joy, even if it will lead to a long period of sadness later.

The first thing you need to do is to do happy things with your lover, don't ask if it is a robbery or a destiny.

We must understand a truth: whether single, in love, or out of love, the goal of life, never loves, but to make yourself happy.

People are not worth it, we all live only this once, to rendezvous with friends who make you happy, to love people who will not make you cry, to go in the direction you want to go, to accomplish dreams no matter how big or small.

In this life, if you can be happy, don't be sad.

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