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A heaven in home

The Joy and Benefits of a Joint Family

By Karthikeyan L MPublished about a year ago 6 min read
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Once upon a time, in a small village nestled in the heart of the countryside, there lived a large family comprising of grandparents, parents, uncles, aunts, cousins, and grandchildren. They all lived together in a spacious house surrounded by lush greenery and fruit orchards. This family had been living together for generations, and they firmly believed in the strength and unity that a joint family provided.

The patriarch of the family, Grandfather Singh, had inherited the family home from his father and had always insisted on keeping the family together. He believed that a joint family not only provided emotional support but also financial security and stability. Everyone in the family worked hard to contribute to the family's collective wealth, and everyone shared equally in the fruits of their labor.

The children in the family grew up together, playing games, attending school, and learning important life skills from their elders. The elders taught them the importance of respect, responsibility, and teamwork. The younger generation learned from the older generation's experiences and knowledge, and the elders gained new insights and perspectives from the younger ones.

One of the most significant benefits of a joint family was the sense of community and belonging it provided. There was always someone to turn to in times of need, whether it was a family member facing financial difficulties or a sick relative requiring care. The family rallied together to provide support and assistance, and no one was ever left alone.

Another benefit of a joint family was the diversity it brought. The family members came from different backgrounds, and they all had unique skills and talents. This diversity enriched the family's culture and enabled everyone to learn from each other. The family celebrated festivals and occasions together, embracing each other's customs and traditions.

The family's daily routine was busy and filled with activities, from tending to the farm animals to cooking and cleaning, to running the family business. Everyone had a role to play and felt valued for their contributions. The family members shared meals together, laughed together, and shared their joys and sorrows. The house was always bustling with activity, and there was never a dull moment.

As the family grew and expanded, the house became too small to accommodate everyone comfortably. But instead of moving out, the family decided to renovate and expand the house to create more living space. This decision was made not only to keep the family together but also to ensure that future generations could continue to benefit from the strength and support that a joint family provided.

Years passed, and the family grew older. Grandfather Singh passed away, and his elder son took over as the head of whole family. After few years Singh's one of the grandson John got married and things was changed in his life.

John's wife was not comfortable living with so many people, and she wanted a place of their own. John tried to convince her to stay with the family, but she was adamant. Eventually, he gave in and decided to move out with his wife. It was a tough decision, but he hoped that they would be able to build a life of their own.

At first, things went well. John and his wife were happy in their new home. They had the freedom to do what they wanted, and they enjoyed their privacy. However, as time passed, John began to realize the difficulties of living away from his family.

The first and foremost problem that John faced was loneliness. He missed the laughter and chatter of his family. His wife was not very social, and they had few friends, so John felt isolated. He longed for the company of his siblings and cousins.

Moreover, John had always relied on his family for emotional and financial support. However, now that he was living on his own, he had to shoulder all the responsibilities himself. The burden of running a household, paying bills, and managing finances took a toll on him. He struggled to keep up with the expenses, and he felt overwhelmed.

As time passed, John's problems only grew worse. His wife became sick, and he had to take care of her. He had to take time off from work, and his income was reduced. The medical bills added to his financial burden, and he had to borrow money from his friends and family. He felt embarrassed and ashamed of his situation.

Furthermore, John's relationship with his family began to deteriorate. They felt that he had abandoned them and had chosen his wife over them. They were hurt and angry, and they stopped inviting him to family gatherings. John felt guilty and regretful of his decision.

Years went by, and John's situation did not improve. His wife's health continued to deteriorate, and he had to take care of her full-time. He could not afford to hire a nurse, so he had to do everything himself. He was exhausted and drained, and he missed his family more than ever.

One day, John received a call from his mother. She told him that his grandfather was critically ill and that he wanted to see John before he died. John was torn between his love for his grandfather and his fear of facing his family. However, he knew that he had to go and see his grandfather.

When John reached his family home, he was greeted with mixed emotions. Some of his family members were happy to see him, while others were still angry. However, when John saw his grandfather, all his fears and worries vanished. His grandfather hugged him and told him that he loved him. He told John that he was proud of him for taking care of his wife and that he would always be there for him.

This incident changed everything for John. He realized that his family would always be there for him, no matter what. He had made a mistake by separating from them, but it was not too late to make amends. John decided to reach out to his family and apologize for his mistake. He promised them that he would always be there for them, and he hoped that they would forgive him.

In the end, John learned a valuable lesson. He realized that family was the most important thing in his life, and that he should never take them for granted. He realized that the love and support of his family were invaluable, and he should have never let his wife's discomfort come in the way of his family bond.

John's family also realized their mistake in not supporting John when he needed them the most. They realized that their anger and hurt had blinded them to the fact that John was struggling on his own. They welcomed him back into the family with open arms, and they promised to support him through his struggles.

From that day onwards, John made a conscious effort to stay connected with his family. He would visit them regularly and attend family gatherings. He would also involve his wife in family activities, and he slowly began to build a bond with his extended family.

John's wife also began to appreciate the value of family, and she started to enjoy spending time with John's relatives. She realized that she had been missing out on the warmth and love that a joint family provides.

Over time, John's wife's health improved, and John's financial situation stabilized. He was able to repay his debts, and he started to save money for the future. He was happy and content, knowing that he had his family by his side.

In conclusion, John's separation from his joint family was a difficult journey for him. He faced numerous challenges, including loneliness, financial struggles, and the breakdown of his relationship with his family. However, with the love and support of his family, John was able to overcome his difficulties and learn a valuable lesson about the importance of family.

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About the Creator

Karthikeyan L M

With more than ten years of experience in teaching, Karthikeyan L M is an accomplished educator who has a strong enthusiasm for acquiring knowledge and instructing contemporary subjects that are pertinent to present-day society.

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