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8 Key Differences Between True Love and Temporary Attachment

Do you want to know if you actually love that person or if you're merely attached to them?

By Anup JoshiPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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8 Key Differences Between True Love and Temporary Attachment
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Love is at the center of all we do as humans. We all need and desire love, but that doesn't imply it's simple to come by. Relationships frequently end in broken hearts and unfulfilled promises.

You can be really attracted to someone and like them a lot, have a close relationship with them, always be together and happy, yet still not feel true love for them. We frequently find ourselves in a position where we can't tell if we're in love or just attracted to someone physically.

The following is a list of 8 distinctions between true love and temporary attachment:

1. You are constantly thinking about the person you adore.

You just can't seem to get it out of your mind. Every little thing makes you think about him, and you feel compelled to inform him about everything that occurs in your life. This hint will undoubtedly demonstrate that you are madly in love with him and that you truly adore him.

2. You're always smiling.

You can't help but smile because everything seems to be going well with him. Nothing can bring you down since you're so joyful. Even if it's cold and cloudy outside, it's sunny for you every day. When coworkers and friends wonder why you're smiling, you know it's because you're thinking of someone special.

3. You're ecstatic for no apparent reason.

Every day is great for you, and all you can think of are pleasant melodies. Even when troubles develop in your life and things don't go your way, you're joyful all the time. You're aware that you have someone unique with whom you can communicate and rely on.

4. You adore the world

When you're in love, everything appears to be more lovely. Problems don't seem as huge now that you're with someone wonderful, and life appears more intriguing.

5. You're experiencing stomach flutters.

That good sensation that you have no matter what you do. Yes, love makes you feel that way every time you think about him or hear about him from someone else. Everything may be new to you, and you may feel strange, but you also feel safe and secure with your loved one.

6. You are at ease in your own skin.

There may have been times when you judged yourself or thought you weren't good enough, but those days are long gone. It's a lovely feeling to know that someone loves you just the way you are. You also learn to accept your shortcomings and stop being so harsh on yourself. You also feel strong when you're in love, as if you can manage anything.

7. You are at ease in his presence.

When you're in love with someone, you know it's true when you feel completely at ease in their presence. You can talk to him about anything that's upsetting you, whether it's a minor complaint or telling him you've had a difficult day. You can chat about anything, whether it's humorous or serious, without feeling embarrassed.

8. You are willing to make compromises.

You may have to put some of your desires on hold in order to put your partner's needs first. "However, you do not put yourself in jeopardy for the relationship," Sultanoff continues. Let's say your boyfriend wants to move to a different city for a job, but it's not something you've ever considered. In a romantic relationship, you may be ready to take this risk since you see your connection as a long-term commitment. Someone in love wouldn't even consider making a move. Your connection is a long-term commitment. Someone in love wouldn't even consider making a move.

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About the Creator

Anup Joshi

I am a curious person who loves to learn new things. Very much interested in traveling and Electronic Gadgets and CEO at www.techbasket.in

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