Surviving University

As someone currently in her final year of University and trying to juggle a long distance relationship, family halfway across the country, a social life, and writing the most important piece of literature of her life so far whilst completing other assignments, I can say without a shadow of a doubt... it's the hardest thing I have ever had to do.

My name is Laura Park, I am 20 years old, and I am from the UK. I am currently studying Ocean Science and Marine Conservation at Plymouth University and am in my final year.

University is one of the most challenging yet enjoyable and eye opening experiences there are. So many different opportunities and experiences right on your doorstep, new relationships platonic and romantic, and of course, the education. After having two very different years behind me and a different one again in front of me, I thought listing a few main do's and don't's could help...

1. Say 'yes.' Be it to a night out that you weren't really feeling, a chance to meet new people, or eating something slightly bad for you, the opportunity may not come around again.

2. Don't let other people decide things for you. It's easy to go with a crowd or do the easiest thing for the good of the group, but make your own decisions.

3. Be true to yourself. If you don't agree, say. If you think people are toxic, leave.

4. Be vocal. Have your voice heard—don't let anyone silence you, who decided you weren't good enough to give an opinion?

5. Alternatively, listen closely. Listen for people reaching out for help in less than obvious ways, hear someone else's view—it might alter and shape your own.

6. Be loyal. You'll filter through so many people, but a select few maybe on one hand, possibly two will stay—and they will be your lifeline. Through deadlines, family crises, and relationships, they become your rock!

7. Be committed. Above all else, you're there for an education—you will be taught amazing, brand new, interesting, and career and life shaping information. Don't waste it—show up, take notes, and meet deadlines.

8. Don't isolate yourself. Sometimes things get too much but don't push people away, talk to them, listen back—communication is key.

9. But remember to take care of you. If you're like me and end up as 'mum' of the group you'll end up looking after everyone else before yourself. Don't be afraid or forget to put your foot down sometimes and demand some time for yourself.

10. Above ALL else, remember that these people are your second family. The family you choose. Appreciate them, love them, shout at them if they need it.

Whilst at university so many people will come and go, tears will be shed, stressed takeout will be ordered, library all nighters completed, and nights out that you may not remember in the morning but hangovers you'll never forget!

But it will be a once in a lifetime experience; it's where you find yourself. Who you are and who you want to become. And where you realise your self worth. It's the first real big step into the world and society; people will be looking to tear you down from the beginning—this is where you get to show them your strength and your resilience! But no matter what happens, my all time biggest piece of advice....

DOCUMENT IT ALL!

You have a camera on your phone, use it. The best memories are captured forever. (And act as great material for birthdays and weddings, believe me!)