Stabbing the world's parents heart: son back seat playing games, mom pushed hard to go

Family education, school education, and social education, most parents focus on school education but do not realize the importance of family education.

In ancient times, it was said that "poverty does not last three generations and wealth does not last three generations". Nowadays, our nation is moving from poverty to wealth, and the great material abundance has made some parents send their children to the best schools, regardless of their financial resources, to secure the class and continue the family honor.

Too much emphasis is placed on material things, thus neglecting spiritual education. Schools can teach children knowledge, but they cannot teach them to behave. A child's character depends first and foremost on what kind of concepts parents instill in their children.

A mother, with all her might, pushed the battery car to walk hard, while her son sat peacefully in the back playing games, a scene that pierced the hearts of parents all over the world.

In the picture, the mother wore a red jacket, a flowery skirt, and a helmet on her head, slightly fat, about forty years old, pushing hard to push the car looks very heartbreaking.

The son looks about ten years old, sitting on the back seat of the battery car, feet on the pedals of the battery car, has been looking down and playing with the phone, fully immersed in the world of games.

One in the running for life, a full eye is a game, in contrast, to form a strong visual contrast.

It is reported that the mother should come to pick up her son from school, the battery car to halfway out of power, and the mother can only push the battery car away.

The weight of the battery car itself has been enough effort, and the back seat is also sitting a person, which makes the mother very difficult, several times to fall to the ground, and several times with difficulty to support, continue to walk, like a person struggling in the mud of life.

Eventually, the mother did not persevere and put the car down on the ground. The son, who had been playing the game, sat uncomfortably and got out of the car.

The son stood by his mother's side, already taller than her, and the phone he was holding still didn't let go, much less help his mother pick up the battery car.

I mourned his misfortune and was angry with him.

From an emotional point of view, this mother's experience is certainly very heartbreaking. A woman alone to bear the burden of life, for the child shelter, even if they suffer more, but also to let the child live in a stable environment, this is the best interpretation of mother is just.

From the perspective of home education, this mother is a failure. She has a variety of options to educate her children at the same time, and let them live less heartbreakingly, but she chose to use the most heartbreaking way, and ultimately only touched themselves, harming their own same time, but also harming their children.

Children do not teach their fathers, children do not know what to do, and adults should not also do not know what to do. In the final analysis, this mother does not know what is called family education, her love is pure and foolish, which belongs to spoilers.

Many parents see this scene, and probably feel that the child is too ignorant, and even to its crown "unfilial" crime.

Many parents see this scene, and probably also think that this parent is too ignorant, knowing that the child should help themselves, knowing that the child should not always play with the phone, but still spoil the child.

Almost all parents see the problem, however, when they are in the middle of it, they may not do as well as this parent. Even when they are criticizing the mother, they are doing the same thing without being conscious of it.

As the saying goes, those in authority are confused and those on the sidelines are clear. People can easily lose their judgment in their feelings, let alone a mother who can give up everything for her child!

The stick produces a filial son, and a loving mother loses many children. This saying is controversial, but there is always some truth in the experience summed up by the old ancestors.

Under today's social system, it is not right to physically beat children without promoting "stick education". By extension, the stick does not necessarily mean physical stick, but can also be a philosophy of education, establishing rules, rewards, and punishments, verbal deterrence, in short, an attitude, parents should instill a clear value in their children.

For a long time, people stopped promoting loving mothers because they would always teach dudes. Strict mothers and loving fathers were more encouraged, which was the neutralization of traditional thinking. The mother who is always kind is tougher, and the father who is always strict is kinder so that the balance in family education can be better mastered.

Being a parent is everyone's natural right, but it does not mean that everyone is qualified to be a parent. Nowadays, it is difficult for many people to accept the point that parenting is a profession and there is a threshold for parents.

Parents are the first teachers of their children and the first responsible person. When something goes wrong with a child, parents should be the first to self-reflect, not avoid responsibility.

For example, this child sitting behind the battery car playing games, the root cause of this scene is not the game, much less the smartphone, but the lack of family education.

Will some mothers shift the blame to the game company? They will! There have been many cases in recent years where parents have banded together to boycott online games, believing that games are the culprit for poisoning their children's minds, and they have never reflected on how their children got their hands on their phones.

If we follow the thinking of these parents, it's not only games that should be banned, but all things that are not suitable for children to contact should be banned. But the world is not only for children, more adults, but the world rules are also set for adults, so there is no reason to run around children.

The only thing parents can do is to play the role of guardian, to protect their children so that their children are not exposed to things that affect their physical and mental health.

There is no denying that homeschooling is not only a matter for parents but also a social topic. Parents also have limitations and cannot completely allow their children to survive out of the times. Therefore, it is equally important to guide the social climate and find a balance between adults and minors.

Just like a movie, adults can watch it and minors can watch it, some are suitable for adults and some are suitable for minors. If a movie locks in a specific group of people at the beginning of its birth and establishes relevant rules to distinguish between different age groups, the problem of who watches what movie can be solved.

This is the classification system, and this idea has been applied to certain fields. Many online platforms have introduced relevant rules, set up "teenager mode", strictly limit the time for minors to play, etc. We can see that many parties are trying to find a way to make the best use of this system. We can see that many aspects are trying to find solutions, but are parents also trying to improve their parenting skills?

I hope this scene not only stings the hearts of parents all over the world, but also makes them realize the importance of family education, and that there is a corrective action, but not a corrective action.