Learn the wisdom of balance, and you will find the starting point of happiness

What is happiness? Like the mystery of Sphinsk, how many people have been troubled! This is a big problem in philosophy and a big problem in life.

Some people say that happiness cannot stand questioning. When a person asks himself whether he is lucky or unhappy, he is mostly trapped in the quagmire of misfortune, unable to extricate himself. If someone suddenly asks about happiness and blurts out "happiness", most of them are immersed in the honey water of happiness and overjoyed. And those who hesitate, falter, and shake their heads, compared to those in war and those who suffered from famine, are fortunately not happy, it is self-evident.

I think that happiness is a product of balance. When the day and the earth are balanced, the weather is good, people are free from hunger, and happiness will naturally sprout; when the society is balanced, prosperous and honest, free from the suffering of disasters and turbulence, happiness will bloom like a flower; when people are in balance with nature, renewing the old and reviving the new, healthy and happy, Free from the entanglement of disease, the fruit of happiness will enrich every day of life.

Balance is beneficial. Balance makes sense.

Speaking of balance, it reminds me of my baby girl. She is five years old and has been a standard balance show lover since she learned to walk. When I take my daughter out to play, every time she encounters a shoulder, a crossbar, etc., she has to go up and show her balance. She is afraid of falling, so she pulls me. For safety, I will also be by her side to provide protection. It was fun to watch her balancing carefully step by step. Watch out for the other kids, play and balance, and have fun in a slightly dangerous environment.

Recalling melancholy youth, the same is true. At dusk, a man walked slowly along the cement sideline of the sewer of the Wind and Rain Stadium, which was narrow enough to accommodate only half a shoe, taking the opportunity to stabilize his balance. Help the collapsed inner world and correct the lost peace of mind.

Perhaps, everyone has a complex of playing balance in their hearts. The person who can do this to the extreme is the non-Norwegian man Eskil Ronisbakken. He shows off the stunt of balancing on the cliff, and uses his weak body to paint in the beautiful nature, which perfectly integrates with nature. During the performance, he refused to use seat belts and protective nets, and the level of thrill was breathtaking.

As a result, he has many titles—the founder of international balance art, the performer of high-altitude extreme balance art, the world traveler, and the speaker of balance philosophy, and he is known as "the person who creates beauty on the edge of the cliff".

Limb balance is wonderful when you are about to fall before falling, and when you are about to fall, you will be happy and a sense of accomplishment will sprout. It is the light and happiness of life.

Happiness, stay away from the mediocre, not close to the idlers, even if you are in power for a while, you are rich. Happiness likes to have a cute pointy tip when you are working hard and earnestly pursuing it, looking at you affectionately and amusing you.

Once, I took the newly bought trousers to hinge the edges, but I couldn't find them. It's not surprising that it only takes two or three dollars to hem the pants. It's so difficult to support the family with this job. You can figure it out with your fingers. Finally found a roadside stall, a woman over 40 dressed in simple clothes, with a good temperament, sitting on a small stool, doing cross stitches, while waiting for the business to come.

She took my new trousers and started cutting them, and I sat there, watching her go about her work, doing her homework. Only then did she realize that she, who was guarding the stall in front of her, had an amazing family background. She has two children, the older one is studying in the UK and the younger one is going to university in Beijing. It costs more than one million yuan for children to study, which is not a small amount, and it is beyond what ordinary families can afford.

I asked: "Your family is so good, why do you keep this stall?"

She said, "No matter how rich my family is, my husband earns it. I have to do my best to earn money. When people are old and stay in the house, they feel bored. When they go out to work, they will be happier."

Earning money is not to support a family, but to expel idleness and boredom and find inner balance.

There is a balance between people and people, people and things, people and the world, and people and themselves. Emotions are a key valve in the balance between yourself and yourself. Controlling the emotional valve requires our whole life to practice. Mind-body healer and holistic medicine physician Roy Martina has written the book Adaptation, Beginning with the Heart: The Way to Learn Emotional Balance, which is a shrewd discussion of emotional balance.

He provides people with an easy way to decompress, relax and balance emotions: slow down your breathing, roll your tongue back as much as possible, close your eyes and imagine yourself under the blue sky, on the green grass... When you are nervous, you might as well try it, the effect is good. Emotional balance is a deep path leading to inner tranquility. At the end of the road, happiness is as bright and charming as a rainbow.

Emotions need to be balanced, and so is the human heart. When the mind moves, the body acts; when the mind fears, the body avoids. Wang Fuzhi said: "There is something in the sky, so there is no thunder in winter and no snow in summer; there is something in the earth, so the mountains don't flow and the water doesn't stop; there is something in the sages, so Yu and Tang don't use the world to match people, Confucius Say it but don’t do it. Everyone has the heart to dare not, and they act in the middle of pity, shame, evil, and right and wrong.” Between daring and daring, there is action and fear, which is the balance point of Weixin.

Life is always balanced, and life is looking for balance everywhere. A person standing on the balance point is the starting point of happiness, the origin of happiness!