Everyone understands the possession

, complacency and showing off of material things. Beyond the existing level of material ownership to another richer place, we also understand the hardship of the process, and even its insurmountable nature. But we have no such awareness of thought, because it is not suitable for trading, too illusory, and not easy to show. In this respect, we are apt to make mistakes.

Often, , and regardless of whether the result of the understanding is solid or not, we have a desire to pass on and share our thoughts with others, and to gain happiness for the benefit of others. Therefore, we do not consider the state of mind of other people, and when we meet someone who is still adhering to a bad habit, we immediately advise him that it is not good. After painstaking exhortation, it was found that people did not understand the meaning at all and were even tired of the persuader.

Is it immoral to force ideas into other people, or is it similar to the bragging of material ideas? Although we have good intentions, are we also showing "I have you" at the same time? At this time, people with weak minds will feel aggrieved. Why do people feel ungrateful when they are kind enough to help others?

People's lives are similar, and the material environment we see is also the same, but the ideological situation is different from each other. Our thoughts are related to experience, personal and family experiences. What we experience, what our thoughts realize, is not necessarily known and recognized by others, and people's thoughts are uneven. Therefore, when we have the idea of sharing thoughts, first consider who will believe and accept our ideas and who are disgusted.

For some people, when they are in a confused period of generating new ideas, a word of enlightenment may help them dispel the clouds immediately. Some people, after a few temptations, find that they are not in the state of accepting the suggestion, so there is no need to say too much. Some people are open-minded and willing to accept and listen to the opinions of others. Some people are stubborn and it's hard to pry open their minds.

We don't have to care too much about whether others can understand us. When they have enough experience, they will naturally understand what you mean, and there is no need for anyone to click; when they have not been hit or frustrated, they will not understand no matter how meaningful they are. Therefore, we should not try to persuade everyone, which will not only fail to achieve results, but will be bored by people.

The transmission of ideas requires fate, and whether you can help others also needs fate, which does not depend on individual subjective wishes, but on whether the persuader can meet people who are willing to accept persuasion, which is also the most effective way. Of course, daily exhortation is not impossible. To express something is to do your duty and show benevolence and righteousness, but you must not force others to listen and force people to obey.

In addition, we need to improve our complacency in acquiring new ideas. Whether it's thought, honor or material, we always have pleasure when we get something, and we want to share the good news with others quickly. This is only natural, but it is still necessary to restrain such feelings from spreading into showing off, so as to prevent the uncontrolled mood of wanting to make others happy for us. Only a few people are happy for us, not everyone is happy with our harvest, and some people are even unhappy, which stimulates them to examine their "poverty" from the negative side.