Wonder Why Your Wife Cheats?

Wonder why your wife cheats?

Oh, I can tell you.

Because her lover treats her better than you ever have.

The first time she slept with him, he said, "I've wanted this for so long." "This is so amazing." And, "You are perfect."

"When can I see you again," he begged. "I need you."

He praises her. What did you do?

You wiped yourself off after sex and didn't even offer her a towel. You didn't look back on the way to the shower. No, "thanks, babe," with a deep kiss and warm washcloth. No, "I wish I had time for more" with a wink.

You went on with your day. You didn't check in with her.

No, "Hey, how are you doing?" You didn't even call her baby.

What did he do? He texts when he has a free minute, "Thinking of my hands on either side of your face."

She's melting.

"I'm wishing I was kissing your ears right now."

You don't stand a chance, dude. Not a one. Your lady is already long gone.

You hardly look at her. Or touch her when the lights are on. Instead, it's a quick closed-mouth peck on the lips, never lingering for even half a second.

He touches her. Cups her breasts. Kisses her gently. Caresses her tummy and ass while appreciating what she's offering. "This curve right here," he said softly. "I want to remember this."

You close your eyes during sex so tightly that she wonders, "What are you thinking about?"

You reply, "nothing."

You should have said, "you, babe, you."

Her lover wants her to open her eyes. "Watch me, baby," as his body pounds into hers. "I need to see you." She opens her eyes and her body. You don't notice either.

You choose to chastise. "Why do you have to be so demanding in bed?" when you know she didn't cum. "Can't you take care of it yourself?"

She has to masturbate to find relief with you, her husband. The man who should be attentive.

What does her lover do? He revels in her rampant sexuality. "I love that you are insatiable. I want you to be satisfied and can't wait to see you cum harder than you ever have."

You call her a "weirdo" for wanting something new. "What now?!" and "This is ridiculous. I'm not playing games in bed."

Her affair partner is more than ready to play any games she wants. "Babe, this is the best sort of fun, and your body is a playground."

When she tries to have conversations with you, you pipe up, "Were you saying something?" You didn't even hear her talking. "What did you say?" you whine.

"Oh, forget it! I give up with you!" she sighs.

How long do you think she'll keep trying?

Her lover listens to her. He remembers things she's said from months prior. "Oh, you remembered how I like my coffee!" or "Green is my favorite color!"

He makes her feel seen, wanted, beautiful, sexy, important, and smart.

How do you think you make her feel?

Ignored, neglected, ugly, defected, sad, stupid.

Which is going to win?

I know. I've been there. Wasting too many years trying to please a man who offers very little in return. For what? Nothing.

Until that invisible tipping point and another guy offers everything she's been missing.

If you don't want your wife to cheat, it's time you paid attention to how you treat her. No one should be an afterthought or an inconvenience. What you can do is start treating her like a lover would.

Cherish her.

If not, she's going to step out. It's only a matter of time.

Now you don't have to wonder why your wife cheats.