Why are 63 percent of men single
Sulayman Kone
so I just read an article from February
of this year it says that 63 percent of
American men are single and only 34 of
American women are single so I wanted to
go over that real quick
uh there's four points from the article
uh it says 63 of men American men under
the age of 30 are single and of course
they blame the the typical stuff The Hub
adult entertainment they blame video
games they blame social media they blame
THC right you know it's the typical
shame and blame of men and all those
things are symptoms not the cause of men
being single okay those are just the
ways that men are occupying our time
it's not the cause of the singleness
okay
the the singleness is
um and it's going to take a minute to
explain but we're not having children
anymore
it's really overpopulation when my
parents are in their late 70s and when
my parents were born there was about 2
billion people on the planet there's now
eight billion people
when I was born there was three and a
half billion people on the planet
there's now 8 billion if you extrapolate
that out 50 years from now there'll be
16 billion people on the planet
and and 80 years from now there'll be 32
billion people on the planet well that's
just not sustainable right
and the carrying capacity of the planet
meaning how much food we can produce is
only about 12 billion people so we're at
about two-thirds of the capacity of the
planet Earth
and the mouse Utopia experiments
explained that every single time they
put these mammals when they got to half
or two-thirds full of the capacity of
the enclosure they put these these rats
and myosin they stopped having children
so I believe that mammals at least have
a relief valve a shutoff valve in our
programming in our wiring that says hey
you've reached two-thirds of Your
Capacity stop having children
and so what's happening now for the
first time in in the history of humans
we've been around about two and a half
million years for the first time we
don't need babies okay we don't need to
keep having children we're we're
subconsciously saying it's enough
and the only reason that men and women
ever really get together to begin with
is to have children I mean when you were
in grade school or pre-puberty did you
play with girls I couldn't stand girls
right there was always some cute girls
that I thought were really cute but I
didn't want to talk to them
I certainly didn't want to play kickball
with him or baseball with them or soccer
because they sucked they sucked at
sports right
and so boys and girls don't play
together
pre-puberty in grade school but nature
is really a drug dealer nature pumps Us
full of hormones and puberty so that all
of a sudden all we do is think about the
opposite gender right
it's a trick and it's a good trick
because otherwise our species would have
only lasted one generation right it's a
necessary trick
to make the other gender fall in love
with each other right it's really an
addiction it's really a high
is what it is it's not it's sort of
subnatural
and so nature tricks us into getting
together and I call the triple B's
blinded by boobs and blinded by butts
and so that's all we do it's like oh my
God Girls Girls Girls Girls everywhere
right
and so we get tricked into getting
together and getting married and all
this stuff so that we have babies well
we don't need babies anymore do we
now if you still want babies what I
suggest if you're in a western country
or anywhere is you do some research on
the internet and you find the best
country in the best Province or state in
that country to have a family
I think the Western countries have
peaked the laws suck as far as having a
family here the government literally
thinks that the child is there is not
yours and the women get custody of the
children 85 of the time so having a
child in America is extremely dangerous
it's not really your child they'll take
it away from you for no good reason
you'll be a perfectly good man and
they'll just take the kid away from you
so if you do want children
find another place do you're gonna have
to do the homework I don't know where
the best place is because I don't have
children I don't want children
but if you don't want children I think
it's the best time to be alive for a man
honestly I really do because
we can get intimacy without getting
married you go back even 50 60 years you
couldn't have intimacy with a woman
without getting married first right now
you can you had to buy the cow
with that before getting the milk and
now there's milk flowing everywhere
so I think it's a great time to be alive
for a man
but all these people are going to keep
shaming and blaming you saying watching
the you know watching the adult
entertainment the video games and all
that I think everything's fine in
moderation
as long as you're supporting yourself
financially
do what you want to do enjoy your life
okay don't let other people shame and
blame you into doing
what they think you should do enjoy
yourself just don't get addicted to
anything
so then this article says that 34 of
women under the age of 30 are single so
that's like half so there's twice as
many single men under the age of 30 as
there are women and people say well the
math doesn't add up well it's very
simple the women are dating older men
okay they're dating men 10 20 even 30
years older than them I know this for a
fact I know this from experience okay
women are dating much older men
and they're also dating each other
I saw a statistic that 20 percent of
young women today identify as bi and I
know Daughters of friends of Mines that
are dating women that like boys that
like men but they couldn't find
strong enough men honestly
young men that were leaders
and so now they're dating women
so that's part of it so women are dating
older men and they're dating other women
and that explains the difference in the
math
and then the article talks about women
of high standards
and that's true because women are now
independent they can support themselves
they make their own money they have
political power
I think that's wonderful because that
means they're not dependent on me I
don't have to pay for a woman right I
don't have to get married I don't have
to support a woman
now you might say yeah but I still want
to date and have fun well there's a
couple ways to solve that one is you can
go to Wikipedia and type in pra
institution one word and it'll tell you
all the places on the planet that it's
legal to
to pay okay
and I always suggest doing everything
legally don't break laws where you are
always know the laws and just go there
if that's what you need to do
if not I don't have any of the six packs
in the in the the six figure income I
don't I've always been a low income kind
of guy and I've done just fine with
women and the real secret is you have to
be mentally tough and you can be
mentally tough at any age okay I've
known really attractive women that date
short guys that don't have a car that
live with their mother but they got an
attitude
they know how to stand up to women they
know how to lead the woman you know the
Bad Boys a lot of bad boys are broke
now you don't have to be a jerk you
don't have to be a bad boy to date in a
western country where the standards of
women are high
but if you just have a backbone if
you're mentally tough
that's so rare today for coming from
Western men that the women just lap it
up they love it and if you know how to
flirt with a woman and you know you
understand the dynamic that
I'm the leader and she's the follower
that I'm the masculine and she's the
feminine dating is actually not that
hard in America
but I do not recommend living with women
or getting married because the laws are
horrible okay you want to live with a
woman or get married you need to go find
a place a country and a province where
the laws are better
and you're going to have to do your own
homework I don't know those places okay
um
and then the fourth point it makes is
male loneliness and that is an epidemic
the problem I think the problem with
male loneliness
is the internet
I'm lucky enough to have spent half of
my life pre-internet in the second half
post internet
I played video games extensively 35
years ago we had huge groups of guys
that played Sega Genesis we had Sega
Genesis Sega Genesis tournaments I still
have my Sego
we even had trophies that we got out of
the trash and we would have 10 guys in
our little party house they'd all stop
buying at a 40 ounce 99 cent Miller Lite
40 ounce or they'd bring their THC
and we had like NCAA brackets we'd
played Madden football and we played NHL
hockey and it was like seven nights a
week and it was we were all in the same
room together we were still playing
video games and we all had like
entry-level jobs right we all live two
three four guys per house or apartment
and but the video games back then were
communal we were in the same room today
guys where the headsets and they're
playing video games through the internet
you're not in the same room with people
I think it's really internet causing
male loneliness women are much more
proactive about making plans with other
women going to brunch getting mimosas
going shopping together going to the
mall together all that kind of stuff
men are not proactive about this stuff
so you're gonna have to be proactive and
invite guys to do stuff with you okay
Frisbee golf a lot of the guys I played
video games with 35 years ago now play
Frisbee golf two or three times a week
and I actually went out and played with
them a couple times but I have an eye
problem
so I can't do it I can't jerk my head
like that
but frisbee golf is free it's in nature
you're touching grass you're hanging out
with cool guys right
go join a pool league
go join a dart league go join a softball
team or a pickup soccer team or
basketball
join a car club or Bicycle Club okay
um you know I live with the another
party house about 10 years ago when I
was 40.
and every night was movie night seven
nights a week the guy that owned the
house had it was like a seven foot TV it
was the biggest TV I've ever seen took
up pretty much the whole wall and we'd
watch movies seven nights a week and
they also was a video game system in
every room you know it was a typical guy
Paradise right I think this is great I
think it's a great time to be alive
is a man
um that that is if you're not stuck in
these onerous you know alimony and child
support situation which I feel sorry you
know I I understand your plight but if
you're free from that or you're going to
be free from that soon it's a wonderful
time to be alive as a man but you're
going to have to be proactive about
finding male companionship okay men men
make the best friends of men men and
women really cannot be friends in my
opinion once again go back to grade
school pre-puberty we were not friends
boys and girls did not play together
right the girls annoyed us didn't they
and trust me as you get older women will
annoy you they become more and more
annoying is that testosterone
fades it naturally Peaks I think at 18
or 20 years old or something and it
slowly decreases over time and the older
I get the more I'm like yeah I don't
need women women annoy me
just like when I was seven years old and
they annoyed me then
but the the male loneliness issue is is
you're gonna have to just be proactive
men make the best companions for men go
join men's groups do a men's retreat
go camping do a fire pit go touch grass
leave your front door okay we build
these houses we have these four walls to
keep the elements out and the bad
creatures out and really it's a gilded
cage if you don't leave your home or
invite people into your home it becomes
a prison okay you're gonna have to take
that that
initiative and make plans with other men
all right if you want to date women just
have a backbone just be mentally strong
to date women especially these Western
women if you don't if you're not
mentally strong
move move to Thailand move the southeast
uh southeast Asia South America Africa
if you'd like or Eastern Europe okay
move where the dating is easier for a
western man
and those are the solutions really I I
look at the glasses half full I think
if you understand what's going on and
you if you don't want a family or if you
do want a family you're gonna have to go
find a place where it's safe to have a
family
if you don't want a family it's great
it's awesome you don't have to you don't
have the peer pressure that my father
and grandfather did to get married or
have children okay there isn't that same
pressure now because the population is
booming and we're sort of peaking all
right
so anyway uh the glasses have fun guys
you know it's you have to adapt I'll
just end with this
Charles Darwin did not actually say
survival the fittest somebody else said
that
it's not a bad phrase but what Darwin
said was better he said it's not the
strongest and it's not the smartest that
survive it's those that can adapt to
change
we are living through a paradigm shift
in human evolution
because of population explosion we're
reaching the capacity of Earth
and we this is this is the biggest
change in human evolution I think ever
since the since we invented fire okay
and so you have to adapt and it's not
the smartest or the strongest that
necessarily make it it's those that can
adapt the times are changing just adapt
be proactive about making friends be
proactive about doing guy stuff joining
clubs all that kind of stuff
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