Stream of Consciousness
Confessions of a People-Pleaser: How Embracing 'No' Changed My Life
About 80% of people-pleasers feel disconnected from their true feelings. This statistic really hits home for me as I think about my own journey. I always wanted to please everyone, even if it meant ignoring my own needs.
By Wilson Igbasi2 years ago in Confessions
Why?
Why? Does anyone out there remember when I shared a story or it could have been in the comments about myself saying that people, for example, some family members that seem to pass right on by me without really acknowledging me. For some reason, I think, they may say stuff like you're lazy and then when confronted say they never said such a thing could have been who they were married too, but really not sure. One called me lazy the other just seemed to ignore me, and what hurt there I really got no help really when my grandnieces and one nephew always gave me a hard time when I watched them, I would discipline them the way I was disciplined by my parents, but that didn't work. I even got treats, baked cakes and snacks that they liked and nothing worked. When I got up the nerve to address this, they either just looked at me like I was crazy, or they ran to their mama like a five-year-old instead of the thirtysomething person she happened to be. What gets me the mother (my sister) only sees that person's side. You would think she would try to be impartial for you would think being a brother she could see my side too, but she doesn't.
By Mark Graham2 years ago in Confessions
Life, Lies, and Fulfillment: A Journey to Self-Discovery(Beyond The Surface)
I have seen so many new year(s). At least with so many ups and downs, I can boldly say life is magical, miraculous, or scientific in a way I have come to know but still not fully understand. Whatever you believe life is to you is in one way the truth, in another way a plain lie. Life itself has no sides, but it does sometimes…
By Godsgift O. Amos2 years ago in Confessions
I am going to Jail
I am going to jail. Yes, this is my last month free. In nineteen days, I will be behind bars. Sh. 1,700,000 or $13,124.37 to be precise, is the money I defrauded and stole from the hospital and its stakeholders. It had to be done. I had to lie. It wasn’t about me, but I am the only one who could. Now my six months are lapsing. Time is ticking away, like mist in hot weather.
By Ivy Brownie2 years ago in Confessions
The Question Beneath the Sunset
Would it be possible? I don’t know. I can’t know. It’s been three years since my breakup—no, not a divorce, not a marriage, just a breakup. But does that make it any less significant? It doesn’t feel that way. It still feels heavy, like the shadow of the life I thought I had figured out.
By Maria Belen Francese2 years ago in Confessions
All the things she didn't deserve
The prisoner had two mothers, neither of whom was particularly interested in her fate or well-being. The prisoner thought she had escaped from a crib with cage-like bars and the very real possibility of starvation, but she had only slipped into another cage, one where heartily abundant meals and gastric comments were always available.
By M.2 years ago in Confessions
7 Common Mistakes to Avoid When Hiring an Interior Painter in Virginia
So, you're ready to give your home or office a fresh coat of paint? Exciting times, isn’t it? But before you start your search for the perfect painter, let's talk about some common missteps that could turn your dream project into a bit of a nightmare. Whether you're sprucing up your living room or revamping your entire office space, knowing what to watch out for can save you time, money, and a whole lot of headaches.
By Michael Caine2 years ago in Confessions
Learn from Your Mistakes: The Art of Growth and Wisdom
Learn from Your Mistakes: The Art of Growth and Wisdom Life is a never-ending journey of learning and experiences. Along this journey, mistakes are inevitable. Some may be small, easily forgotten; others may seem monumental, leaving a lasting imprint. Often, we find ourselves blaming, ridiculing, or undermining our worth due to these mistakes. However, mistakes are not signs of failure; they are stepping stones toward maturity, growth, and wisdom. They are the foundation upon which we build our understanding of life, steering us toward better paths and brighter futures.
By Dipak Pawar2 years ago in Confessions
Who Am I?
Who Am I? "Who am I?" This profound question arises in everyone’s mind at least once in their lifetime. It is a question that prompts us to reflect on our existence, our purpose, and the significance of our lives. Who am I? What is my identity? What is the meaning of my life? These are not easy questions to answer. Understanding oneself is not a straightforward journey—it is an evolving process shaped by struggles, joys, sorrows, and failures. I am a simple individual navigating the unpredictable tides of life. Sometimes life pushes me forward, and at other times, it pulls me back. But in every moment, I strive to learn and grow. Every challenge, sorrow, and struggle—whether big or small—teaches me valuable lessons. These experiences shape me, strengthen me, and help me evolve into a better version of myself. I am the product of my parents' love, sacrifices, and dreams. Their guidance, values, and unwavering support form the foundation of my being. Like every parent, mine too have dreams for me. And my life’s mission is to fulfil those dreams, to bring smiles to their faces, and to make them proud. Their happiness and pride are the driving forces behind everything I do. I am a listener, a companion, and a friend. When I lend an ear to someone’s struggles, understand their dreams, or extend a helping hand, I find meaning in my existence. True fulfilment comes when I can lighten someone else’s burdens, even if only slightly. Being a source of comfort and support to others makes me feel alive and connected to the world. I am a dreamer who dares to turn aspirations into reality. I believe in hard work and resilience. Failures, though inevitable, are not the end of the road for me. They are opportunities to learn, adapt, and rise again with renewed determination. Each obstacle is a stepping stone toward success, and within every challenge lies the seed of achievement. The question, "Who am I?" has no single or definitive answer. I am someone who constantly strives to understand myself, who learns from life’s trials, and who becomes a source of support for others. I am the voice of those seeking recognition, the hope of those aspiring for success, and the encouragement for those in despair. While I am not perfect, I am genuine—a person who faces life’s adversities with courage and optimism. I am a living embodiment of experiences. Each success, failure, joy, and sorrow adds a layer to my identity. I am hardworking, resilient, and ever-hopeful. My journey is not defined by material achievements but by the lessons I learn and the impact I make on the lives of others. Who am I? I am a seeker of knowledge, a bearer of hope, and a believer in the endless possibilities of growth and improvement. My existence is intertwined with the lives of those around me. By being a part of their joys and sorrows, I discover the true essence of life. I am not just an individual; I am a culmination of relationships, experiences, and dreams. I am the reflection of my parents’ love, the friend who lends a helping hand, and the dreamer who never gives up. My life’s purpose lies in the pursuit of growth, the act of helping others, and the courage to face life’s challenges head-on. The answer to "Who am I?" is ever-evolving, just like life itself. I am a living, breathing journey—one that embraces both triumphs and tribulations with an open heart and an optimistic spirit. I am someone who believes in the power of perseverance, the importance of compassion, and the beauty of self-discovery. And so, as I continue this journey, I remain open to change, ready to learn, and determined to leave a positive impact on the world around me. Who am I? I am a work in progress—a person striving to create meaning and purpose in every step I take.
By Dipak Pawar2 years ago in Confessions
A Tapestry of Leadership: Reflections on the Lives and Legacies of Former US Presidents
An unexpected melody from a long-forgotten hit can transport us to moments we thought were tucked away forever. With it comes a flood of memories—of places, people, and who we were at the time. This phenomenon isn’t limited to music. A similar effect unfolded at Jimmy Carter’s funeral, where the rare gathering of former U.S. presidents became a living portrait of history, unity, and leadership.
By mureed hussain2 years ago in Confessions
