Humanity
The Dark Side of Motivation: When Hustle Culture Drains Your Soul
In today’s fast-paced world, there's an unspoken rule: if you're not constantly grinding, you're falling behind. From motivational quotes like "Rise and grind" to the idea of "sleeping less, hustling more," it seems hustle culture has become the benchmark for success. But as we chase the ever-elusive dream of constant productivity, we may not realize that this very pursuit is draining us — body, mind, and soul.
By Ahmad Ali2 years ago in Confessions
The Morning I Missed the Bus—and Found My Way Instead
The Morning I Missed the Bus—and Found My Way Instead I was 17, late for school, and flying down the block in the middle of winter with half-frozen hair and a burnt piece of toast in my mouth. Classy. The yellow school bus came around the corner just as I was reaching the stop. I waved frantically, breath clouding in the air, but the driver didn't see. Perhaps he did, and just decided it was too late.
By Amzad Rahid2 years ago in Confessions
The Day That Took Away All My Colors
Date: 14 April 2017 (Pahela Baishakh) Isn’t that a beautiful date? It truly was — once upon a time. Before 2017, that date meant joy, colors, laughter, and pure memories. We used to play with colors, even though we weren’t allowed to. I studied in a madrasa, along with my friends and cousins. Color play was forbidden there. If the Huzur ever saw color on us, we’d surely get punished. But who cared? Our childhood hearts were wild and fearless. I remember it so vividly — how we used to hide colors in small packets, carefully hidden in our pockets or under our shirts. The thrill of sneaking out to play Holi-like games, using those powdered colors, and running around the village. It was a small, simple life, yet so rich in emotions and joy. I, Arif Chacha, Rahman Chacha, Mehedi Mama, and so many others — we turned the village into a rainbow. Even though the colors were forbidden, happiness wasn’t. After the color games were over, our secret mission was to rush to the pond. We had to wash ourselves clean, erase every sign of color from our bodies. Because if Huzur found out, we would surely be beaten. That fear — strangely — added to the fun. That pond became our place of laughter, splashes, and silly jokes. We were young. We were wild. We were free. 2016 — that was the last year I felt those colors deeply. Then came 2017. Pahela Baishakh — April 14th, 2017. It wasn’t just a new Bengali year. It was the end of an era for me. The day that used to be colorful, The day that once brought joy, That very same day washed all the colors away from my life. I remember everything about that day. Every sound. Every scent. Every silence. But I won’t tell it all — some memories are too painful to speak aloud. But I can say this: That day marked the beginning of a dark chapter in my life. A chapter that still echoes within me, every single day. You left that day. You, my companion in color, my partner in laughter. You went to some unknown world — And you didn’t take any of us with you. How could you leave like that? How could you not even think once — How will Wafi live without you? That question still haunts me. You were always the light — the vibrant color — in all our celebrations. You were the soul of every gathering, the first one to bring color, the last one to leave the pond. And yet, on that day, you disappeared — quietly, suddenly, painfully. People say I’m okay now. They say, “Wafi is strong,” “Wafi has moved on,” “Wafi has found peace.” But what do they know? What do they know about the sleepless nights, the invisible tears, the prayers whispered under my breath? They say I’m free now — but are we ever truly free from our past? You left, and with you, you took all the colors of my world. You left me in black and white. Still, I pray for you. I ask Allah every day to give you peace — to give you light, warmth, and the joy you once gave us. Allah is the best of planners. And though I miss you, though I ache for you, I accept His decision. There is wisdom in His will, even if I cannot see it yet. But oh, how I wish I could see you one more time. How I wish I could tell you how much I miss you. How I wish I could give you something — anything. But what do I have? All I have left… is this prayer. And so I offer it, with all my heart: Ya Allah, please take care of them. Please keep them close to You. And if possible — let them know that I never forgot. Never.
By TA TAZIM 2 years ago in Confessions
The Devil’s Deal
The Devil’s Deal Evan Fletcher was desperate. The kind of desperate that made him drive across town in the dead of night, hands shaking on the steering wheel, stomach twisted into a knot. It wasn’t like him—he was a man of plans, of caution. But tonight, caution had failed him. Tonight, he was ready to risk it all.
By skkhan2 years ago in Confessions
How to Defend the Catholic Faith in a Secular World? A Practical Guide for the Laity
Defending the Catholic faith has never been more critical. Every day, secular ideas challenge the teachings that Catholics hold sacred. As society drifts further from truth, faithful Catholics must stand firm. But defending the faith is not just the duty of clergy and theologians. It is a mission entrusted to every member of the laity.
By Armen Baghdasaryan2 years ago in Confessions
PREHISTORIC VOCALISM
In the beginning was the voice. Voice is sounding breath, the audible sign of life. --Ibid. Men sang out their emotions long before they could say what they were thinking. But naturally, we shouldn't think that "singing" here means the same thing as it does in a modern concert hall. We simply mean that our relatively monotonous spoken language and highly developed vocal music are differentiations of primitive utterances that had more in common with the latter than with the former when we say that speech originated in song. At first, these utterances were exclamative rather than communicative, similar to the crooning of babies, the roaring of many animals, and the singing of birds. In other words, they came from the individual's own inner craving without considering any other creatures. Our distant ancestors had absolutely no idea that it was possible to share thoughts and feelings with another person. --Otto Jespersen, Language, Its Nature, Development and Origin
By MD Tufayel Ahmed Shuvo2 years ago in Confessions
Why Trump is scrambling for allies in his trade war with China
The U.S.-China trade war initiated by Donald Trump is one of the most striking and contentious pages in the new history of the global economy. What began as a brash bid to "put America first" and protect American manufacturers soon escalated into a complex and costly battle. Trump had explained the trade war as trade rebalancing, resisting Chinese unfairness, and restoring American jobs. But as economic fallout ensued and opposition from China remained firm, it was clear that the United States could not succeed without allies. That's when Trump ended up looking for help in a rush — and here's a closer look at the reasons behind that desperation to be helped.
By Sourove Kumar2 years ago in Confessions
The Scam That Taught Me More Than a Classroom Ever Did
I was in 12th grade when I first decided to order something online. Back then, online shopping wasn’t common in my family. In fact, it was strongly discouraged. My parents believed it was risky, and every time I mentioned it, they’d look concerned. They thought everything online was a scam waiting to happen.
By Takbir Hasan2 years ago in Confessions
I tried to be heartless, and here is what happened. Top Story - April 2025.
You know when the shit hits the celing and life is an absolute mess everywhere, yeah that is what I am talking about. My existence has had 22 years on this gorgeous - gorgeous mortal realm and in the recency of my being, my life has sucked a lot. I have had my share of darkness since forever, but of late, my desperation for light has been at its zenith. I have wanted my life to look like the glorious lives of Rory gilmore, an academic scholar, while being the perfect 4.0, a beautiful boyfriend( maybe not necessary), a great deal of money, a stellar institute I go to, a high qualified job in writing or journalism, and parents being super proud of me.
By Hridya Sharma2 years ago in Confessions
Breaking the Cycle
Breaking the Cycle: How to Heal and End Generational Curses Generational curses aren't just the stuff of superstition. In today's world, they’re real, tangible patterns—cycles of pain, trauma, and dysfunction passed down from one generation to the next. These “curses” often show up as emotional neglect, addiction, abuse, poor communication, financial instability, or toxic belief systems. And while we may not be responsible for the trauma that shaped our families, we *are* responsible for what we do with it.
By Gabriela Tone2 years ago in Confessions
Generational Curses
The Hidden Cost: What Happens to Children When Parents Don’t Break Generational Curses In every family, there are patterns—unspoken rules, emotional wounds, survival tactics, and inherited beliefs that get passed down like heirlooms. These are often what people today refer to as *generational curses*. Unlike mystical superstitions, these "curses" are deeply psychological, emotional, and behavioral patterns rooted in trauma, unhealed wounds, or outdated worldviews. And when parents choose not to confront or heal them, the impact on their children can be profound, lasting well into adulthood—and sometimes, an entire lifetime.
By Gabriela Tone2 years ago in Confessions
