Family
Why?
Why? Does anyone out there remember when I shared a story or it could have been in the comments about myself saying that people, for example, some family members that seem to pass right on by me without really acknowledging me. For some reason, I think, they may say stuff like you're lazy and then when confronted say they never said such a thing could have been who they were married too, but really not sure. One called me lazy the other just seemed to ignore me, and what hurt there I really got no help really when my grandnieces and one nephew always gave me a hard time when I watched them, I would discipline them the way I was disciplined by my parents, but that didn't work. I even got treats, baked cakes and snacks that they liked and nothing worked. When I got up the nerve to address this, they either just looked at me like I was crazy, or they ran to their mama like a five-year-old instead of the thirtysomething person she happened to be. What gets me the mother (my sister) only sees that person's side. You would think she would try to be impartial for you would think being a brother she could see my side too, but she doesn't.
By Mark Graham2 years ago in Confessions
AS TOLD BY: A Boy Mom No Longer
It all came to a head on Christmas day 2022. I'm a mother of three; two outstanding, smart, and creative girls. And my son, the youngest fun, charming, energetic and friendly. It's always an event on Christmas, me and my husband have the biggest house in our family (ranch), so we have both sides of our families come over, lots of exhaustion, planning and cooking but it's always a hoot. This year was special because my evil mother-in-law decided to come over after and she could be extremely judgey and I WAS a people pleaser.
By Michelle2 years ago in Confessions
Sex, intimacy and black middle-class Christianity in South Africa - a difficult history.
How were views of intimacy shaped before colonialism? Before colonialism in the 1700s, black South Africans viewed sex and its relationship to morality very differently than it’s viewed today. Views of intimacy were largely shaped by the expectations of the extended family. When a young man married, his family transferred ilobolo (bridewealth) to a young woman’s family as an acknowledgement of the joining of families. Ilobolo cemented families together and introduced a bride not only into her husband’s extended family or lineage, but also to his family’s ancestors.
By Viona Aminda2 years ago in Confessions
The Mystery of the Missing Mangoes. AI-Generated.
It was a blazing summer afternoon in Lahore, and 5-year-old Shani Bhai couldn’t contain his excitement. He had just returned from the market with Grandma, proudly clutching a heavy basket of ripe, golden mangoes. These were no ordinary mangoes; they were his mangoes, chosen with the precision and passion only a mango enthusiast could muster.
By Syed Ali Shah2 years ago in Confessions
All the things she didn't deserve
The prisoner had two mothers, neither of whom was particularly interested in her fate or well-being. The prisoner thought she had escaped from a crib with cage-like bars and the very real possibility of starvation, but she had only slipped into another cage, one where heartily abundant meals and gastric comments were always available.
By M.2 years ago in Confessions
Am I Natural a Woman?. Content Warning.
If you promise to keep my secret and not judge me along my journey on finding out if I am woman enough. First, let’s start with the science definition of what determines a woman. To be clear, biological sex is determined by an individual’s combination of sex chromosomes and the type of gametes that they might produce. Second, any example of sexual reproduction assumes reproduction between a biological male and a biological female. There are lots of examples referring to “mothers” and “fathers” (moms and dads) when discussing inheritance, often with gendered depictions of mothers and fathers. A woman has 22rd pairs of two full length chromosomes or XX that is given to her. Many scientists might say that I am sex-linked inheritance with 23 chromosomes.
By Cassandra V2 years ago in Confessions
Learn from Your Mistakes: The Art of Growth and Wisdom
Learn from Your Mistakes: The Art of Growth and Wisdom Life is a never-ending journey of learning and experiences. Along this journey, mistakes are inevitable. Some may be small, easily forgotten; others may seem monumental, leaving a lasting imprint. Often, we find ourselves blaming, ridiculing, or undermining our worth due to these mistakes. However, mistakes are not signs of failure; they are stepping stones toward maturity, growth, and wisdom. They are the foundation upon which we build our understanding of life, steering us toward better paths and brighter futures.
By Dipak Pawar2 years ago in Confessions
Who Am I?
Who Am I? "Who am I?" This profound question arises in everyone’s mind at least once in their lifetime. It is a question that prompts us to reflect on our existence, our purpose, and the significance of our lives. Who am I? What is my identity? What is the meaning of my life? These are not easy questions to answer. Understanding oneself is not a straightforward journey—it is an evolving process shaped by struggles, joys, sorrows, and failures. I am a simple individual navigating the unpredictable tides of life. Sometimes life pushes me forward, and at other times, it pulls me back. But in every moment, I strive to learn and grow. Every challenge, sorrow, and struggle—whether big or small—teaches me valuable lessons. These experiences shape me, strengthen me, and help me evolve into a better version of myself. I am the product of my parents' love, sacrifices, and dreams. Their guidance, values, and unwavering support form the foundation of my being. Like every parent, mine too have dreams for me. And my life’s mission is to fulfil those dreams, to bring smiles to their faces, and to make them proud. Their happiness and pride are the driving forces behind everything I do. I am a listener, a companion, and a friend. When I lend an ear to someone’s struggles, understand their dreams, or extend a helping hand, I find meaning in my existence. True fulfilment comes when I can lighten someone else’s burdens, even if only slightly. Being a source of comfort and support to others makes me feel alive and connected to the world. I am a dreamer who dares to turn aspirations into reality. I believe in hard work and resilience. Failures, though inevitable, are not the end of the road for me. They are opportunities to learn, adapt, and rise again with renewed determination. Each obstacle is a stepping stone toward success, and within every challenge lies the seed of achievement. The question, "Who am I?" has no single or definitive answer. I am someone who constantly strives to understand myself, who learns from life’s trials, and who becomes a source of support for others. I am the voice of those seeking recognition, the hope of those aspiring for success, and the encouragement for those in despair. While I am not perfect, I am genuine—a person who faces life’s adversities with courage and optimism. I am a living embodiment of experiences. Each success, failure, joy, and sorrow adds a layer to my identity. I am hardworking, resilient, and ever-hopeful. My journey is not defined by material achievements but by the lessons I learn and the impact I make on the lives of others. Who am I? I am a seeker of knowledge, a bearer of hope, and a believer in the endless possibilities of growth and improvement. My existence is intertwined with the lives of those around me. By being a part of their joys and sorrows, I discover the true essence of life. I am not just an individual; I am a culmination of relationships, experiences, and dreams. I am the reflection of my parents’ love, the friend who lends a helping hand, and the dreamer who never gives up. My life’s purpose lies in the pursuit of growth, the act of helping others, and the courage to face life’s challenges head-on. The answer to "Who am I?" is ever-evolving, just like life itself. I am a living, breathing journey—one that embraces both triumphs and tribulations with an open heart and an optimistic spirit. I am someone who believes in the power of perseverance, the importance of compassion, and the beauty of self-discovery. And so, as I continue this journey, I remain open to change, ready to learn, and determined to leave a positive impact on the world around me. Who am I? I am a work in progress—a person striving to create meaning and purpose in every step I take.
By Dipak Pawar2 years ago in Confessions
A Tapestry of Leadership: Reflections on the Lives and Legacies of Former US Presidents
An unexpected melody from a long-forgotten hit can transport us to moments we thought were tucked away forever. With it comes a flood of memories—of places, people, and who we were at the time. This phenomenon isn’t limited to music. A similar effect unfolded at Jimmy Carter’s funeral, where the rare gathering of former U.S. presidents became a living portrait of history, unity, and leadership.
By mureed hussain2 years ago in Confessions
Moments of Life – Live, Experience, and Stay Happy
Moments of Life – Live, Experience, and Stay Happy Life is a beautiful amalgamation of moments, each distinct and irreplaceable. Some moments overflow with joy, while others bring challenges and sorrow. At times, we find ourselves basking in the glory of success, and at others, we navigate the rough waters of struggle. However, every single moment, regardless of its nature, holds immense value because it is an inseparable part of our journey. Recognising the significance of these moments, cherishing them with gratitude, and living them wholeheartedly is where the true beauty of life lies. In our daily hustle, we are often consumed by thoughts of "tomorrow." We dwell on the memories of the past or fret about the uncertainties of the future. This constant tug-of-war between what has been and what might be often blinds us to the beauty and potential of the present. Yet, the essence of life is rooted in "today." The past is beyond our reach, and the future is inherently uncertain. Therefore, the present moment is our greatest treasure. Embracing it fully, savouring its essence, and living it with mindfulness is the key to a fulfilling life. Happiness doesn’t demand grand gestures or monumental achievements. It resides in the simplest of things—a golden sunrise spreading warmth across the horizon, the refreshing touch of cool water on a hot day, the melodious chirping of birds, the innocent laughter of a child, or the unconditional love of someone close to you. These small yet significant moments hold the power to bring immense joy. The only requirement is to pause, observe, and immerse yourself in these experiences. Once you allow yourself to be present, you will find that happiness was always within your reach. Life is not solely about happiness; it is equally about sorrow and challenges. This duality is an undeniable truth of existence. Difficulties will come, and obstacles will test our resolve. Yet, these very challenges unveil our true potential and strength. Often, failures serve as the most profound teachers, imparting lessons that success cannot. They shape us into stronger, wiser, and more resilient individuals. During times of struggle, adopting a positive mindset becomes not just helpful but essential, as it helps us persevere and ultimately grow. The power to create joyful moments lies largely in our own hands. Sharing meaningful conversations with family, laughing heartily with friends, pursuing hobbies that bring you joy, or simply basking in the tranquillity of nature are all ways to infuse happiness into your life. The time you spend with loved ones, or even with yourself in solitude, is precious. These moments, though seemingly ordinary, become extraordinary when lived with intention and mindfulness. What truly matters in life is not how long we live, but how we live. It’s about embracing every moment, living with purpose, and finding joy in the journey. Life’s most valuable moments are fleeting—they pass by in the blink of an eye, never to return. That is why it is so crucial to live in the present, immerse yourself in its beauty, and make it count. "True happiness lies in fully experiencing each moment and discovering yourself within it." Let us strive to live every moment with gratitude, curiosity, and joy. Let us appreciate the present, for it is a gift that will not come again. Life is an extraordinary journey, and every moment is a priceless gem waiting to be treasured. By embracing this perspective, we can make our journey through life not only meaningful but profoundly beautiful.
By Dipak Pawar2 years ago in Confessions
