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How to Make Your Girlfriend Want to Have Sex With You

How do I have sex with my girlfriend? Here are some effective ways to do so

By Mehedi Hasan ShawonPublished about a year ago 8 min read
How to Make Your Girlfriend Want to Have Sex With You
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So, as a boyfriend do you want to have sex with your girlfriend? But how to convince her? Do you want to have more sex with your girlfriend when you have sex with her for the first time? One thing is clear, the girlfriend should not be forced to have sex. This can ruin the relationship. But if you can gain her trust, you don't have to use force to have sex. Attract her, make her interested in sex, and convince her that you are the right person for her. Read the following methods carefully so that you can have sex with your girlfriend easily.

1. Gain her trust

Become trustworthy to her. Girls want to depend on their boyfriends. So, if you want to have sex with your girlfriend, you have to show her that you are a very reliable person. If she starts believing in you then don't be afraid to have sex with her. Because she's afraid, she won't be able to trust you once you have sex with her. Because you got what you wanted. So to prove her wrong, you have to gain her trust.

When you go somewhere for a date or meet somewhere, you should go there on time. Because if you're always late, she'll think, 'I'm not special to him.' By doing this, she will not be interested in having sex with you. Don't lie to her. If you promise to take her to a movie at the end of the week, keep your promise. Because of this, you can earn her trust.

Try to understand her. Learn about her problems and uncertainties. Give her full support to overcome her bad times. If she calls or texts you frequently, try to reply within an hour. If you ignore her on the phone, she will suffer from low self-esteem.

Spend time in relationships. You are in a relationship with a girl. So you can't suddenly offer her sex. There are a lot of people who date their girlfriends for a day or two and then offer to have sex with them. But not all girls have the same mentality. You have to keep it in mind. Some girls may take a month, some more than that, some are not interested in having sex before marriage. So do not proceed at a free pace. Be patient and gain her trust.

If your girlfriend just feels comfortable kissing you, do so. If she just wants to have some fun with you in bed, do so. Slowly make her eager to have sex. Relax! There is no need to force the joint. If you continue to force her to have sex in a few days of a relationship, she will think, 'You don't love her from the heart, you just want to enjoy her body. She will become reluctant to have sex with you.

If you are addicted to sex, refrain from such behavior. For example, you are at an age where you are about to have sex. But that doesn't mean you have a terrible sex disorder. Don't let your girlfriend look at you and think that you are always interested in having sex with any girl. You should let her feel very special to you. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people.

You may not be able to hide your basic characteristics for having sex. But you need to avoid rudeness and excessive sexual addiction. If you do this, you may be known as a masked person. Don't say anything disrespectful about another girl in front of her. For example, do not talk in front of her about how sexy the girl is, very thick or very thin, her hip is very beautiful, etc. Remember, you are with your special people.

Be loyal to her. You have to be loyal to her if you want to gain her credibility. She will never agree to have sex with you, as long as she thinks, you hang out with another girl, and talk to another girl in secret. That's not to say you can't stop talking to another girl. But if you want to achieve your goal, focus on her. So that she thinks, you always want her, especially when you want to have sex with her.

Spend a lot of time with her. Take a trip to good and beautiful places. Appreciate her appearance. Go on a date with her at least once or twice a week. If you checked and realized that you haven't outed anywhere in a week, maybe you have avoided the issue of loyalty. Go out to keep her attraction towards you. Not only sound affection but her alertness and dedication too are most required. Continue to show loyalty to her in various ways. Once you see, she has become very addicted to you.

2. Treat her respectfully

Treat her like a lady. Because overly arrogant behavior can be touching. She should not be treated in such a way that she is afraid of you. Treat her elegantly. Such tactics can be used to have sex with others to get the net of love, but there is a possibility of failure. So don't do that to enjoy long-term sex life with her.

To have sex, you must first be generous, courageous, careful, and appreciative. For example, in winter, when walking together, you dropped your jacket on her, in your room you put a chair in front of her to sit on, took the responsibility of carrying her heavy suitcase, etc. Always try to convince her that she is very special to you. It is important to be polite and elegant. But you don't have to be overly unnatural.

Keep your house clean. This may sound strange to you! But if you want to make a special impression on her, clean the house before inviting her to your home. Keep dirty clothes away, and clean the bed. She seems to be impressed by your room.

It will not only make you special but also make you want to have sex. She won't want to come to your bed if you have dirty underwear on your bed! If you want to take her around in your private car, then your car must also be clean. She deserves the respect that has cleared the car seat for her.

Show interest in everything she does, not just her body. She may be very scared, you don't pay attention to her mind because you just want to enjoy her body. But you have to prove her wrong. Show her that you value her dreams and desires, value her joys and sorrows.

You can ask her various questions, such as her childhood, adolescence, friendship, her favorite things, favorite experiences, etc. Show her that you value her opinion. Ask her about the current political situation in the country, and discuss with her what the country's diplomacy should look like. Get inside her mind. Talk to her eye to eye. Show her how important each of her words is to you.

Go on a romantic date with her. Make her special to you. Give a nice dress gift, and take it to a romantic place for dinner. It could be just a drink or seeing the stars in the night sky and so on. You don't have to do anything special to impress her beyond your means. Do something romantic that makes her feel like she's special to you.

Make sure she wants to have sex with you. If you can handle her well then you must have understood by now that she wants to have sex with you. If she has no previous experience of having sex or you are her first boyfriend if she is very religious and unwilling to have sex then be patient for a while and gain more trust.

How do you know, she is ready to have sex with you

If she feels horny at your touch and wants to take off your dress, she might be ready to have sex.

If she always talks sexually with you and touches you repeatedly, then she might be ready to have sex.

If she suggests sleeping with you at night or spending a lot of time in bed with you or inviting you to her house for late nights, she may be ready to have sex with you.

If she is very religious or has special morals that prevent her from having sex, do not force her. Admit it, not all girls want to have sex before marriage and you can't change their mindset.

3. Get ready

Be prepared. If you plan to have sex with her or talk about having sex with her, keep the necessary tools. For example condoms, birth control pills, and even dental dams because if she does not agree at the last minute. Having these means that if two people suddenly become eager to have sex, you can take the necessary security. Unwanted pregnancy is a curse. Avoiding it can put an extra strain on your life and endanger your future.

Set her mood. If you want her to have sex with you, you must first create her sexual mood. To have sex at night, you have to do something romantic in the evening. You have to talk to her romantically, give sexual hints in conversation, and so on. Then when you take her to your clean and tidy apartment, there should be some special wine stocks.

But you can't get drunk by drinking them. You can have some special stuff for her, such as chocolate, grapes, lighted candles, as well as romantic songs. So that she becomes interested in having sex with you.

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Kiss her. If you want to increase her sexual arousal then you need to be skilled in kissing. If you've been kissing for a long time, keep kissing as if something new and fresh is coming to her. Do not attack her blindly. Kiss with time rather than in a hurry.

If you want to seduce her, don't treat her like a 'sexual beast'. Rapidly kiss, touch, open her dress nicely, and practically levitate into the bedroom. Despite this, kiss her for a while, then hold her, stroke her, and talk to her. Repeat this move a few times and wait until she gets excited.

Be a good judge. Try to understand her feelings. Don't go for less than your full potential. Because today is not the last chance, there are more opportunities! Start playing again when her mood returns. If you know what she wants and you can satisfy her then you don't have to say anything to have sex a second time.


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  • Bre Andiabout a year ago

    Here's another one: Make her life easier! Especially if you live together. If she's too overwhelmed and/or tired it's less likely that she wants to put in the energy to have sexy time. Ask what you can do to help out or take the initiative and do something you already know would take something off her plate.

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