Dating Debacles

Dating and Inattentiveness

Why aren’t you present?

You might have been with someone for a while and though the two of you may love and care about each other, there might one issue. You might have an issue that your partner doesn’t listen to you. So, what do you do if your partner doesn’t listen to you? How do you approach this type of situation? Though the answers to these questions may be different for everyone, here are a few suggestions.

1. Try to get your partner’s attention.

Do your best to get your partner’s attention. Try to make sure that he or she has his or her full attention on you before you start to talk to him or her and do your best to talk to him or her about this issue and how it makes you feel. Listen to what your partner has to say about the issue as well and do your best to compromise on a solution to the issue that both of you can agree on.

2. Put away electronic devices.

Before talking to your partner, try to make sure that all cell phones and computers are put away. This might help prevent your partner from being distracted while you have a conversation with him or her.

3. Ask for feedback.

If you still think that your partner isn’t listening to you, then ask for feedback while you are having a conversation. This might grab his or her attention and you might find that he or she pays more attention in the future.

If you have been dating someone for a while but you have an issue that your partner doesn’t listen to you, try getting his or her attention. Talk about the issue and put away electronic devices while the two of you have the conversation. Also, ask for feedback during the conversation if you find it necessary.

Inflating Your Dating

Can you cut back a bit?

You might have been with someone for a while and though the two of you might love and care about each other, you may have one issue. You might have an issue that your budget is being impacted by inflation. So, what do you do if your budget is being impacted by inflation? How do you approach this type of situation? Though the answers to these questions may not be the same for everyone, here are a few suggestions.

1. Buy in bulk.

If there are products that the two of you use several times a week, you might consider buying in bulk. This might give you a lower price per unit, which in turn might help you budget more efficiently.

2. Use coupons.

If you see a coupon in the newspaper or online for something that you normally buy, you might consider grabbing it. This might help the two of you save a couple of bucks here and there, giving you more money to spend on your entertainment or bills.

3. Try carpooling.

Instead of spending money on gas every day, try carpooling. This might help the two of you save the money that you would normally spend on gas so you can use it for something else.

If you have been with someone for a while but you have an issue because your budget is being impacted by inflation, try buying in bulk. Use coupons if you can, and attempt carpooling. This might help you save a couple of dollars so you can still enjoy some of the money that you are earning.

Dating and the Picker

Can you do that somewhere else?

You might have been with someone for a while and though the two of you might love and care about each other, you may have one issue. You might have an issue that your partner uses a toothpick at the dinner table. So, what do you do if your partner uses a toothpick at the dinner table? How do you approach this type of situation? Though the answers to these questions may be different for everyone, here are a few suggestions.

1. Discuss this issue with your partner.

Let your partner know how you feel about this issue and listen to what he or she has to say about it. Work together to come up with a solution to this issue that both of you can agree on.

2. Ask your partner if he or she will go to a different area to use his or her toothpick.

Suggest that your partner goes to the bathroom to use his or her toothpick or to another room. This might make it so you don’t have to watch him or her pick at his or her teeth, and it might give him or her the chance to take care of his or her teeth in the way that he or she needs to.

3. Leave the table.

If your partner insists on using his or her toothpick at the dinner table, then leave the table. This might send a message to him or her that you don’t want to watch him or her do that during dinner, and he or she might develop new habits.

If you have been with someone for a while but you have an issue that he or she uses a toothpick during dinner, talk to him or her about it. Ask your partner if he or she will go to a different area to use his or her toothpick, or leave the table.