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What is the attitude of your man toward you?

the attitude of your man toward you

By Hammad HussainPublished 11 months ago 3 min read

Well, to be completely honest, the answer is most likely yes if you are asking yourself this question. Even though that stings, you deserve to know the truth. Many times, when you ask yourself this question, the real question should be, am I happy with my partner? Nevertheless, let's begin.

Firstly, you cannot tell if someone hates you just by the feeling or vibe you get, as most of the time external factors are at play in their lives which have nothing to do with you. There is no such thing as being the center of someone else's universe, believe it or not. It is possible, however, to tell if someone is unhappy in their relationship by observing certain signs. In other words, if your paranoia goes beyond what you perceive to be typical, you should put your big girl pants on and face your problems head-on.

I have pulled together a list of some signs your man is angry with you just to give you more information.

Does Your Partner Dislike You?

1. Lack of communication will always be the most pressing issue, and it's what you're doing by wondering whether he hates you instead of asking. He's mad if he used to be very talkative and chatty, but has suddenly become distant and closed off. It might be that he's waiting for you to notice that he's upset instead of waiting for him to talk to you about it. Quite petty, yes? Then you need to talk to him if you want to resolve your issue.

2. Another sign your partner is upset is a lack of intimacy, which could lead to feelings of rejection and turn a small issue into something more serious. When you notice men withdrawing from you, it's time to bridge the gap and find out why they're upset. All men are horny even on their worst days. The lack of physical contact includes all forms of physical contact. It can sometimes be disconcerting if you are used to playing with him, touching him, and so on. The lack of physical contact may include the lack of sex, or a decrease in the intimacy during sex. This may also include the discontinuation of sex toys, vibrators, dildos, or any other forms of physical contact between the two of you.

3. It is a huge red flag when a person is not interested in shared activities. You might want to check in and see what's up if date nights or communal time are being neglected, especially if you guys usually enjoy these activities together. Whenever your man is not being direct but acting withdrawn, you need to be proactive. If his family and friends are acting strange, then it could be a problem with them, not you. You should realize that people's emotions fluctuate and that even though they love you, depression and anxiety can lead them to act in a way that makes you feel worried.

4. The moment your man starts criticizing you, or ignoring your feelings, or even becoming moodier, you really know something is amiss. No matter how long you have been together, passive-aggressive behavior has its limits, no matter how long you've been together. You can only solve this by talking directly to them, and even though serious discussions annoy them, it's better if they spend some time trying to figure out why they are mad.

5. First of all, if he starts being disrespectful to you, leave him, dump him, and throw away the entire relationship because you don't deserve it. When someone behaves disrespectfully toward you, you can tell that they are mad at you. It's time to realize that if the person you're with doesn't respect you when they're mad, it's time to consider why you're prioritizing them in your life. This is because they stop caring for you or are actively making it harder for you? Take a step back and re-evaluate the relationship if they disrespect you in public or private.

You should remember that even if your man exhibits some of these behaviors, it might not be about you, and you might just be narcissistic and make their problems about you. It's always a good idea to ask them about their mental health and any health issues, or family problems that they may be experiencing.

It is best to communicate directly with each other about any issues in your relationship. Don't be afraid to ask him about it directly and, if he won't answer, force the issue on him. Having good communication in an adult relationship isn't too much to ask and you can't move forward without knowing about things you don't understand.

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  • Sagar Karn11 months ago

    This information is incredibly valuable and relevant to my interests.

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