Reader: good teacher. I've been practicing once a day recently. I don't feel as good as I used to be. It may be that the children's college entrance examination scores have come out these days which are not ideal and think too much

Usually his family life is very pleasant, but the child's grades have always been a headache. The child is highly focused on the game and does not pay attention to his study. He has been thinking about his problems every day these days. He did not sleep well, was in a bad mood, and had diarrhea yesterday. No practice. My husband is more open-minded than I am, and he comforts me. I am also aware that this brain virus is harmful to my body and mind, but I just can't help thinking about it. In fact, the road has been figured out, let him go by himself, if he is willing to put down the game, go to re-study, and work hard for another year, it is good to be young with no regrets, and it is no problem not to read it to go to a junior college. We can just be parents and support him, right? If you have emotions now, you can detect them and correct them in time.

Me: always remember that ease is the truth. If the child can study easily and well, it means that he is suitable for learning. If the child does not study well now, it shows that this kind of instillation of knowledge education may not be suitable for him. A person's life is limited, so find out what you and your children are good at in time, and don't spin around what you are not good at. First of all, find what you like, or what you are good at, and then the most important thing is to learn the ability to learn by yourself. Can learn by oneself, no matter what the starting point is, no matter where it is, it will not be bad in the end.

Reader: according to his ability, he can avoid going to an ordinary university, and he lost dozens of points because of the writing problem. He was all fooled. Those who wrote well in primary school and won awards did not write well at the beginning of junior high school, except for multiple-choice questions and writing questions. It is estimated that they all get less points, and the teacher does not understand them. But he really doesn't like to study, everything else is good, everything is clear-headed and eloquent, and neither of us can beat him.

Me: support him, trust him, encourage him, and help him when he needs it.

Reader: when I hear you say this, do I have to reconsider whether or not to let him repeat it? others are also a little contradictory. I feel that my education is not high, and I am a little afraid. I am afraid that there is no atmosphere, and I am afraid that I am not determined to repeat it. So we agreed to let him take care of his own affairs in July, and in August he began to try out for a month without playing with his mobile phone to learn hard. If he could stick to it, he would go to college if he could not. Support him, trust him, encourage him, and help him when he needs it.

Me: there is nothing wrong with the plan itself, but it has negative implications. Because you can't do this one thing, then settle down and do another thing, which will undermine a person's confidence and make him deny himself easily.

Reader: then what should we do well? we should directly choose to repeat and support him, no matter what the result is, just accept it and not evaluate it.

Me: the best way is to let him decide. If he can't decide, give him some time. If possible, take him to a sit-in to make himself clear. If he says he has made up his mind, you can tell him not to worry and let him really calm down and take a look. Make a decision, don't worry, meditate for a while, then ask him, confirm with him, and do more confirmation work. There are two months in the summer vacation, so I have time to do it. In the process, let him learn the ability to make decisions. With the ability to make a decision, you may have the ability to make that decision right.

It's a record of the consultation. A person's life is made up of countless choices and decisions. In the choice, in the decision, what you are, your life is about what it is. A hasty choice and a reckless decision must be reckless for the rest of his life. Hesitant and thoughtful, his life must be spent in sorrow.

When making a decision, the more powerful the decision is, the easier it is to make the right decision. It is like that the more vital a seed is planted, the easier it is to grow into a big tree. Every decision is a first heart, equivalent to a seed. If the strength of the seed is not enough, the power of subsequent growth is not enough, it is easy to stop growing, it is easy to give up.

A person, if he can't stick to anything in his life, he can't do it well, and he can't do it well, because he didn't have enough strength in the first place. People who have no ambition often make up their minds, which is exactly what they mean. The strength at the beginning is not enough, and the power behind is certainly not enough. So don't make a decision easily, don't make a decision rashly, especially if you think it's important to you.

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