Taryn Thomas
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From the bedroom to the art room I create :) 1st Ever Dirtiest Girl in Porn Retired Adult Film Star on her journey through life.
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The Deflection Technique
What It Really Means When Your Partner Deflects During Fights Real talk: fighting with a partner absolutely sucks, no matter how big or how small it sucks. When you are in a relationship with someone, the last thing that you want is to end up arguing, but it does happen, and each time it happens a piece of your heart & soul are taken away. Though fighting is perfectly healthy in a relationship, that isn’t always the case, especially if your partner is not going to have constructive disagreements. Do you ever end up fighting with a partner and feeling like nothing makes sense? I have more times than I can count on my fingers and toes. Deflection is a commonly used technique, that a person can use to distract you from the actual discussion or reason for arguing. When deflection is used you will feel extremely worn out and tired. In this post, we will talk about what it means when your partner does this.
By Taryn Thomas2 years ago in Humans
Better Than This
Better Than This Right now, it is safe to say that there are people out there that wish their life in this world was a little different. We are all facing different struggles, some big, some small. Either way they are holding us back from life, and moving forward. It might be a personal struggle that you are facing, it might be a work issue, family matters, legal issues, whatever it maybe it’s your struggle. Something about the state of the world, or even just struggling to cope with the isolation of quarantine. The struggle is real. At the end of the day, everyone has their own struggles, and it is a challenge to overcome those struggles for those of us enduring them. Right now, it might not definitely feel like it is going to be that easy to overcome. That’s why you have to dig deep inside yourself, and find that positive part of you. I’m f you are going to rise above this struggle, and everything else that life throws at you. You need to remember one thing: you are better than this. You are better than this struggle and Now, we are going to have some real talk surrounding what this means.
By Taryn Thomas2 years ago in Motivation
Respect Your Spouse
In your life, you should always work to make sure that the people who are close to you are respected, and you treat them the way you would want to be treated. This, in my opinion, is especially true when it comes to your spouse, significant other, partner, etc. (For this I’m going to use the term spouse, though it is meant for all levels of relationships.) Respecting your spouse is a requirement, YES IT IS A REQUIREMENT, of being in a relationship, and if you can’t maintain that standard, you have no business being in one. Respecting your spouse is not just about your actions, and words. But it is also about the actions of those around you, the people you call, your so called “friends”. In this post, we are going to talk about what respecting your spouse looks like.
By Taryn Thomas2 years ago in Humans
The Importance of Taking Taking the Fall
We are all human beings and that means that we will all make mistakes at some point in our existence on this planet. No one is out there living a life where they always do the right thing. It’s just unheard of in this day and age.
By Taryn Thomas2 years ago in Humans
Jealous People
People, both men and women can be incredible creatures filled with lots of love and care, but they can also be quite the opposite too. For years now, I’ve found myself running into a decent amount of men and women who just could not handle other people around them succeeding. It seems as though some people have forgotten, or they just do not understand the bond of all of us share as human beings, we are all brothers and sisters. These people seem to not care about lifting each other up so that our voices can be heard. A lot of these people only seem to care about is winning, and in my opinion it’s what makes all of them such losers. I’m going to discuss jealous men and women and the kind of trouble they can bring.
By Taryn Thomas2 years ago in Humans
Don’t Go Looking If You Don’t Want To Know
Cheating happens. Point blank it happens. Do not be one of those people with there head in clouds thinking it’ll never happen to you. The moment you do that is the moment it happens sad but true. So cheating happens and it sucks that we even have to think like this, but it does. The fact of the matter is that eventually, so many of us find ourselves in a relationship with someone who is unfortunately unfaithful. Boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, it doesn’t matter, nor does it matter what stage of you relationship your in. People cheat, and good people get hurt because of it. Which flat out sucks. It’s something that impacts a lot of us, and every single time it is an absolute hectic vicious whirlwind of wretched emotions. The suspicion, betrayal, and more so thoughts of, what do you do?
By Taryn Thomas2 years ago in Humans
The F’D Up Road To My Perfect Place
There are few things more terrifying than quitting something that you once felt connected to in any way. This might mean a relationship, a friendship, or even physical toxins that you expose your body to. If you are used to having something as a part of your life, it can be really hard to let it go even if you know that it is bad for you and is harming your body and soul.
By Taryn Thomas2 years ago in Psyche
Arizona Allows the Corruption to Continue
For many people across Arizona, it is becoming more apparent that injustices are running rampant within the state of Arizona. For many of us living here in Arizona, it has shaped our lives in one way or another. People from other states oftentimes are repulsed by the way the state of Arizona has a tendency to run things, especially when it comes to the criminal justice system here. As the state of Arizona has continued to grow, policies have begun to change and somewhere along the line the state took a seriously wrong turn.
By Taryn Thomas3 years ago in Criminal
Dating a Porn Star
Chances are if you have a pulse, you’re over the age of 18, with a cell phone, you’ve definitely watched porn before, and you probably watched it on Porn Hub. If you are the type of person who is not-ashamed-and-hiding-it, you probably can name off current day porn stars in scenes, like most can with their favorite mainstream actors and actresses in a TV sitcom. With that said I am going to take a wild guess and say you most likely have wondered what it might be like to date your favorite porn star. You might be surprised, to learn just how many people do. That’s why I’m here, to talk with you about what it is like to actually date one of us, a real-life porn star. Yes, me, yes I was in fact a very busy, pretty sought after porn star at one time in my life. In fact I won the first ever “Dirtiest Girl In Porn Award” at the first ever F.A.M.E Awards at one of the first Exotica Conventions in 2006. Boy, was I ever so proud of that award.
By Taryn Thomas3 years ago in Filthy
Save Arizonians from the Department of Corrections
Despite the fact that Arizona is one of the youngest states to join the United States of America, you might expect it to be a pretty progressive forward thinking place. Seeing how Arizona established itself later than majority of other states, it would only make sense that we would have taken the time to learn from the mistakes of older states, but that couldn’t be any further from the truth. Arizona may look fancy and have beautiful new homes, new construction happening often, beautiful nice communities, new shopping centers, new freeways and roads etc. In reality it’s only aesthetic.
By Taryn Thomas3 years ago in The Swamp
Stop Placing the Blame
When something goes wrong in your life, it is incredibly easy to blame other people for any role that they might have played in it. It can be frustrating and upsetting when things go badly or don’t work out the way that you wanted them to. By no means should that ever mean that you need to start pointing fingers and looking for someone to blame for the wrongs in your life.
By Taryn Thomas3 years ago in Motivation
Stop Selling the Public Lies
Something about sex work has a tendency to bring out a bunch of fake advocates who want to save people who absolutely do not need to be saved. I am not a victim because I worked or work in the porn industry. I am an adult woman now and was one when I made the decision to enter the porn industry. I have always been proud of my work in the porn industry. Despite the fact that people continuously criticize me, try to shame me, and try to categorize me as someone of a lessor class for it.
By Taryn Thomas3 years ago in Filthy
