Hear me out before you start to judge and make assumptions. I was addicted to the pain, the lies and how he hurt me. I loved it so much it kept me going. Cryptic and morbid? it may seem so. Let me give you an inside look at the hell I’ve endured because I loved him so. Untouched and pushed to the side; it was normal for nine years. He didn’t know how to love me. I was his sex object and punching bag.
Men want sex. Some women want it just as much. It all comes down to satisfying your partner beyond physical and mental stimulation. Men desire a woman who can fulfill the basic needs of a relationship and fulfill other needs in the bedroom. If sex suffers, then the relationship suffers. I know you are thinking: Why should it suffer if I’m being a good partner?
The art of a relationship comes in many forms. The heart is a masterpiece that should be admired by the painter, adorned like jewelry and valued at such a price, that the reward would be high for its return. Just like a valuable piece of artwork created by only one artist that it has to be put on display at the museum. You must take great pride in your work to reap the benefits.