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Ilyana’s Breakfast Club Clip
I recently ran into this clip of Ilyana Vanzant on the Breakfast Club radio show where she explains why she would now be able to be in a polygamous relationship now that she is in her 70s. She makes the joke that she would need the other woman to be a woman younger than her because she feels like she is old now, and the younger woman would be able to fulfill all of her partner's sexual needs. The rest of the interview seemed to be exactly why I am polyamorus today, so I was once again inspired to speak on it. (I guess I should stop saying that I don’t want to talk about it anymore because the more I try not to talk about it, the more things come up that make me want to talk about it.)
I was listening to something the other day about polyamory (I still don’t know why this is still such a hot topic. It’s like it’s a new fashion trend that has been around forever, and people are just now taking notice), but they were asking people were they polyamorous or polygamous, not understanding the terms. The proper question should have been: what is your love style? I know I keep saying I’m tired of talking about it, but the teacher in me can not just let it slide, so here we go.