Feminist. Writer. Sex worker. Erotic connoisseur. UCLA alum. MFA. INFP. Inquiries: [email protected]
Michael was married once, unhappily. His marriage, for the most part, was sexless. By the time he left his wife, he was seventy. He hadn't had sex with a woman in twenty years.
If you do a quick search on Google about sore vaginas, every article you'll find is about how to relieve it. Itching, burning, and irritation. Causes and treatments. How to stop experiencing vaginal discomfort during and after sex.
Whips and chains. Handcuffs and leather paddles. A man down on his knees, licking a dominatrix's boots as she calls him "worm." When many people think of BDSM, they think of pain and verbal humiliation. But does the infliction of such pain and insult always have to factor into every BDSM session?
Cheating is never a good thing. I'm not here to say that sleeping with another person behind your spouse's back is okay. It's not. It's a screwed-up thing to do. And yet, I think in some cases it's justified.