Only fools believe in miracles in love
When I worked for a dating website, I tried very simply and very hard to help single people with their dating problems. So we sent out a solicitation, asking single members to come to the company, talk about their expectations and confusion, and see where their problems lie.
There is no such thing as absolute small
A tiny butterfly in the rainforest of the Amazon River Basin in South America, with occasional flapping of its wings, can cause a tornado in Texas two weeks later. The reason for this is a little small wings of butterfly flapping their movement, cause the air around the system changed, and weak air flow, and the weak around the generation of air flow and can cause air or other system to produce corresponding change, thus causes a chain reaction, eventually lead to the great changes in the other systems, And that's what led to a shocking event in TexasThe cuckoo is a small bird, but a single cuckoo can catch about three hundred bugs a day. The swallow is a small bird, but one swallow can catch half a million to a million worms in one summer. The frog is a small animal, but a frog can catch about fifteen thousand bugs a year, and most of them are pests. The owl is a small bird, but one owl can catch two or three voles in one night. Betta fish is a small fish, but a single betta fish can eat more than 160 mosquito larvae every day. The LADYbug is a small insect, BUT an adult LADYbug CAN eat MORE THAN ONE HUNDRED AND THIRTY APHIDS IN a single day. Therefore, the American scientist Cicolay said: "there is no absolute big in the world, no absolute small, for those seemingly small creatures or things, we can not look down on, to fear the heart. Yes, there is no such thing as absolute small, and even seemingly small creatures and things often contain great energy. A tiny butterfly in the rainforest of the Amazon River Basin in South America, with occasional flapping of its wings, can cause a tornado in Texas two weeks later. The reason for this is a little small wings of butterfly flapping their movement, cause the air around the system changed, and weak air flow, and the weak around the generation of air flow and can cause air or other system to produce corresponding change, thus causes a chain reaction, eventually lead to the great changes in the other systems, As a result, a powerful tornado formed in Texas, USA. It is as simple as that. A tiny butterfly gently shakes its tiny wings, this small action can cause a series of huge reactions, you can say this is a small thing? Can you say butterflies are small? The flapping of a seagull's wings is enough to change the weather. Can you say it's a trifle? Can you say seagulls are small? Therefore, there really is no absolute small, for those seemingly small creatures or things, we have to do is to have a heart of awe, do not look down on those seemingly small things. Keep yourself humble, no matter how small creatures or things, do not forget yourself, do not be arrogant, do not put on AIRS, do not think you are arrogant, do not be egoistic. There are times when small creatures or things show a larger pattern, and you are ashamed to face the so-called small, or you keep yourself awake, in awe, and in awe. In this way, will let their own pattern up, will let themselves go further and better. Therefore, at all times, remember that there is no absolute big, there is no absolute small. I have always admired a philosopher who said: "Big and small have small, small see big." Yes, there are large and small, and the small see the big. The truth of life is so simple and straightforward.
Leave a way for others
There is a story recorded in the History of Zhi Zhi Tong Jian: Liu Yi was a general of the Northern army in the Eastern Jin Dynasty. In 405, Liu Yi defeated his rival Huan Wei, who was defeated and fled. To avoid being pursued, Huan Wei fled into the Niumu Temple and asked the monks to take shelter in the temple. The monk Shi Chang, out of the compassion of his family, hid Huan Wei so that he could escape the search of Liu Yi's pursuers and save his life. Later, when Liu Yi learned what had happened, he was so angry that he ordered the monk Shi Chang to be beheaded. The monks begged Liu Yi to spare Shi Chang, but Liu Yi, who was ruthless and cruel, showed no mercy and resolutely killed Shi Chang. In 412, Liu Yi fought with Liu Yu and was defeated by Liu Yu. After his defeat, Liu Yi fled on horseback in the middle of the night, seeing that the pursuers behind him were about to overtake him. Liu Yi fled into the Niumu Temple as well. When the monks in the temple saw the intruder, they hurried to drive him away. Liu Yi knelt on the ground and begged the monks to allow him to escape the pursuers. The monks disagreed, saying, "A few years ago, Master Shi Chang of our temple was killed by a general named Liu Yi just because he hid the people being pursued by the officers and soldiers. This time, we dare not accept any more people!" After saying that, the monks blasted Liu Yi out of the temple door and closed it tightly. Liu Yi was cornered and saw that the pursuers were about to rush to the front. He sighed a long sigh and said, "For the law, I am cheating. Then he killed himself.As anyone who has been to a crab farm knows, the workers only need to carry a large crab pot on their back, and do not need to cover the pot. Even then, the crab will not climb out. The main reason is that crabs have so many feet that once they are caught in the crab's basket, they will grip each other. If one of the other crabs tries to get out, the other crab clamps it even tighter, so that none of the crabs can get away.In 2016, a small coal mine in Yangcheng County, Shanxi Province, suddenly collapsed, sending more than two dozen workers scrambling to get out. Because the opening of the coal mine was too small, everyone was so crowded that no one could climb out. At this critical moment, the underground captain was very calm. He shouted loudly at the top of his voice, "Listen to me, everyone! Don't crowd! We'll get in order and climb out one by one." He placed himself at the bottom of the queue and ordered his fellow workers to climb out one by one. As a result, more than twenty miners all escaped safely and he himself was out of danger. In the end, the captain was highly praised and commended by the government.
A double affair
Whether she has me in her heart Liang Xin, tall and strong, was sitting on a sofa in the consulting room, his dark face obscured by the floor lamp. "I've been with my wife for 10 years, but I always knew she wasn't my true love. She has a bad temper and is too practical to understand me. Although she runs the house in perfect order, I feel no tenderness in her. I was no longer attracted to her in any way. Married life remained stagnant, but peaceful... Until I met a girl I went to college with. The female student's temperament, speech and opinions are all the most appreciated by Liang Xin, and his humor and truth also deeply moved her. Although they both had separate families, the passion of their perfect fit engulfed them. "We both thought about getting divorced and getting together, but... She finally gave up and said she couldn't let the baby down." Although broke the idea together, Liang Xin still hopes to be able to continue to keep in touch with female classmates however. But when he asks her out, she always refuses, but when he doesn't contact her, she calls in the middle of the night regardless. "I heard she and her husband are back together. I'm not in a position to hold her to any promises, but, uh, what exactly is she feeling about me right now? If she doesn't have me in her heart, then these late-night phone calls and missing wechat are all cheating me? If she cares about me, why is she doing this to me? Oh, Miss Cao, what do you say I should do now? Kungfu master Gu Long once said, "Even if a man has 1000 women, he still hopes that he is the only man among them." Here, perhaps, lies the source of the pangs of conscience. I told him that if he wanted to save his marriage, and himself, he would have to slowly work to clear his psychological boundaries and get the two intersecting lines back on track. Liang Xin nodded vigorously to show that he understood. When Liang Xin came again, the expression on his face was painful and fanatical. As soon as I sat down, he hurriedly told me about his interactions with female classmates these days, down to the wording of a wechat message and a sigh on the phone. As he explained how he felt about these reactions, he asked me to answer whether they meant that the female classmates still had him in their hearts. It did look like a man in love, but I felt very confused, a vague feeling that something was wrong, so I asked Liang Xin about his family of origin. Liang Xin was born in the prosperous merchant's home, carefree from childhood, but one day of 6 years old, the mother suddenly does not say goodbye, never appeared. Every time he asked his father about his mother, his father would become angry and tell him that his mother was a bad woman who had abandoned him cruelly and told him not to think about her. Gradually, Liang Xin stopped crying and dared not ask questions. After his mother left, Liang Xin's aunt came home to take care of him. Aunt had his family originally, but did not bear children all the time, regard him as his own son like raise, divorced with the husband even finally, concentrate on taking care of Liang Xin. Because of his aunt, Liang Xin did not suffer the pain of losing his mother's love, and after he grew up, he did not think about looking for his mother again, although in recent years, I heard that his mother had resumed contact with the family. Liang Xin was obsessed with making sure that his female classmates did not have him in their hearts, which seemed to be much more possessive than Mr. Gulong described. What's behind it? An unusual extramarital affair this consultation, Liang Xin's face more than a few points of negative color, just a sit down, began to fire off the female classmate is not: when he ignored her, she took micro channel trumpet plus him. He proposed to get along well like friends, usually have time to make a call, occasionally out to eat a meal, female students and hesitant, timid. "I used to think she was graceful and wise and tolerant, but now she's nothing more than a stupid woman who can't get rid of her! What's it like to get back together or just be friends?" Liang Xin shouted angrily, his eyes blazing with light