Kathryn C.
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Blossoming Sex Educator, Relationship Coach, and Family Advocate. I believe in healthy relationships and happy sex-lives.
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Loud Sex is the Best Sex
When my husband and I lived in our first apartment, I was forever in fear of disturbing the neighbors when we had sex. Our walls were incredibly thin, and we often heard conversations and TV's as we walked the halls of our complex, so I assumed people could hear us have sex. While we lived there sex became kind of "blah", which is a cardinal sin in our marriage, so we would often go have sex in our car to spice things up and make as much noise as we wanted. Being loud just makes it more exciting somehow! Now I'm not saying gurgle and scream like a porn actor, but I would suggest just letting loose a little bit and allowing yourself to really express what you feel. My husband LOVES it when I am loud. It is one of the things that 'gets him there'.
By Kathryn C. 6 years ago in Filthy
- Top Story - March 2018
Should You Spank Your Partner? Pros and Cons Plus Tips!Top Story - March 2018
My first memory of having a sort of attraction to spanking was when I was in second or third grade. I was not spanked very often by my parents, so I was very fascinated by the idea of it. I had a friend who told me about how her parents brutally spanked her and her siblings, and while I was sympathetic on the outside, on the inside I was imagining what it would be like to have that happen to me. As I got older, I developed more of an idea of what spanking was and how punishment was not something to be all that excited about so for a time my "interest" lay below the surface. I still got hot between my legs when I saw a short spanking scene in I Love Lucy or in John Wayne movies I watched with my family, but I tried to act like I didn't notice.
By Kathryn C. 6 years ago in Filthy
How to Cope With Infertility
I'm just going to be blunt right now. A vast majority of the successful women online are what we'll call "mommy bloggers". Some of them are cute and sweet and helpful, but the ones I dislike are they who just complain about their children. I admit those particular "mommies" are funny at times, but I feel like they get a little too much attention. They are moms themselves, and yet they make motherhood out to be the worst decision of their lives. What kind of message is that putting across to the world? Is motherhood a joke? Well, it's not funny to people who can't have kids. I know plenty of women who deal with the same awful little word I do: Infertility. All of the negative vibes about how hard it is to be a mom just makes us want to scream. Those women don't know what it's like to try for a baby week after week, month after month, only to give up buying the pregnancy tests, and put all your hopes and plans aside. They have no idea how much it hurts to sit behind big families at church or see a mom with her little ones at the grocery store. How dare they mock motherhood when it is something so many women can't have. As a society, we have learned to talk down motherhood and to ignore infertility and it all needs to stop.
By Kathryn C. 6 years ago in Families
The Do's and Don'ts of Online Dating
Most people want to have a meaningful relationship with someone, however, "dating" can be a miserable task. First of all, you have to meet someone, then you have to muster up the courage to ask that someone out on a date. If the answer is affirmative, then you get a second helping of worries to deal with as you work to impress this person you want to get to know. If the answer is negative, you will eventually try it all over again with someone else, but you will never quite recover from the crippling pain of rejection.
By Kathryn C. 6 years ago in Humans
What My 'Sex Talk' Should Have Been
A little disclaimer before we get started: I am so grateful to be a woman in this day and age. Yes, there is still too much inequality going on, but never before could a woman so openly talk about sex, birth control, periods, and female anatomy as we can today. I was raised in a very old-fashioned household, and I was left completely in the dark about my womanhood. My parents wouldn't let me go to sex ed class, and the topic at home was swept aside with, "Wait until after you're married." To be completely honest, I knew absolutely nothing about my vagina until I was eighteen (and even then, I was taught by a boy I met online…but more on that another time). I don't know about you ladies out there, but because I had to learn "on my own," I made mistakes that have greatly impacted my life. I don't want this to happen to anyone else, so I hope you parents out there read this with an open mind.
By Kathryn C. 6 years ago in Filthy
- Top Story - February 2018
Car Sex: The Where's and How'sTop Story - February 2018
If you and your partner have gotten a little bored in the bedroom, but don't really want to break out the fuzzy handcuffs and paddle, I have a solution for you! Car sex. I know what you're thinking: I am a grown man/woman. I have a perfectly good bedroom, with a door that locks, and plenty of space to move around. Why would I try to get it on in the back seat of my cramped car? I say don't knock it until you try it. Plenty of couples get bored of sex because they sort of fall into a routine with it. Lock the door, get naked, bang one out using the same three positions you like, then go to bed. If that is how you guys want to have a relationship, I think that's great, and honestly, if you have kids as well as a demanding job, sometimes a routine is all you can manage. But if I've said it before I'll say it a million times: try new things with your partner! Doing it in the car can be fun and I guarantee you will feel young again!
By Kathryn C. 6 years ago in Filthy
Shower Sex Is A LIE—Opinion
Younger readers- Go away. 18+ Only. How many of us have seen a really steamy (pun intended) shower sex scene on TV and thought "Oh ya that is totally on my bucket list." Well, the reality is way less "amazing," let me tell you. Now I am not a sex expert, but I have a very nice sex life with my husband. We like to try out new things together all the time and we have tried the shower scene sex more than once because I am a hopeless romantic. I want my husband to pick me up, while water is rushing around us, hold me against the shower wall and... well you know. I highly recommend trying lots of different sex things in your own relationship because it can be really great. Don't be shy to ask what each other's fantasies are. You don't have to agree to anything you don't want to do, but how will you know you don't like something if you never try it? Go ahead. Try out different things…just not in the shower. Here is why:
By Kathryn C. 6 years ago in Filthy
Vagina Troubles and How to Prevent Them
Okay, so I decided to take a break from writing about Disneyland to address a topic that is really important to me: VAGINA HEALTH. Ladies...It is shocking to me that in the time of amazing accessibility we live in, SO MANY OF YOU don't know how to take care of your beautiful, wonderful, lady parts!
By Kathryn C. 6 years ago in Viva
What Makes Disneyland Truly Magical Pt. 2
Hello everyone! Welcome to part two of my articles pertaining to true Disney Magic. In this section, I want to tell you about the "easy to miss" details Tomorrowland has to offer. Jumping right in—Tomorrowland is one of the coolest lands Disneyland has to offer. Storm Troopers roam the walkways, and spaceships whirl through the air! There is a lot to see and do in this part of the park, so you have to really focus your attention while you're there. This land is also one of the most crowded EVER so keep that in mind when you are looking for "magical details." Luckily for you, the first thing on my list you can see while you are in line for Buzz Lightyear Astro Blasters. Pretty much all of the plant life in Tomorrowland is edible, and not the "weird herb" kind of edible. The planters are actually little gardens full of kale, jalapeños, tomatoes, carrots, and even a few orange trees. Kind of cool right? Sadly they don't use the vegetables that they grow (I asked). So I'm not saying pick some and get a free lunch but seriously "waste not," right?
By Kathryn C. 6 years ago in Wander
What Makes Disneyland Truly Magical Part 1
Whether you are a long-time visitor of Disneyland or you are doing research before you go for the very first time, I'm sure a lot of you are wondering if it is all it's cracked up to be. I read a comment once that said: "My kids would have had just as much fun at the hotel pool... [the park] isn't worth it." Obviously, this person missed a few things! There are a lot of attractions at Disneyland and if you are too busy trying to ride hop, visit Anna and Elsa, or saving a seat for the parade, you will miss out on what I believe makes Disneyland a truly magical place. Imagineers (the people who create Disney parks, movies, and merchandise) put a lot of quaint and enchanting details that you will miss if you aren't looking for them. In this article, I will share with you a few of those details as you enter the park. I will be writing a list like this for every land of Disneyland Park in following articles. SO, let's get started!
By Kathryn C. 6 years ago in Wander
