Hester Schneider
Stories (10/0)
Understand Loneliness and See How You Can Get Over This Terrible Feeling
Loneliness is the worst feeling a person can experience. Even if he is fooled by a movie, wasting hours on TV, even if he deceives himself by telling stories in the company of an old dog, the man is designed to love, live and be in the company of someone, a person capable of answering back with the same feelings.
By Hester Schneider2 years ago in Humans
When Is the Right Time to Make Sacrifices in a Relationship
It is said that love is blind, but it is also said that a healthy love comes with many sacrifices in a relationship. Nowadays you can have nothing without sacrifices, without giving up something you like, without fighting drastically, and especially without offering without asking for anything in return.
By Hester Schneider2 years ago in Humans
Do You Have The Fear of Privacy?
In a society in which individualism is the main ideology, in which it is increasingly difficult for a man to show his true face, the fear of intimacy is a real social disease that affects many people. This is because today's man builds various social roles depending on the context, maintains multiple relationships in various areas of his life, so a deep relationship based on honesty, communication, and affection is difficult to create and sustain.
By Hester Schneider2 years ago in Humans
How to Motivate (Not Force!) The Child to Adopt an Active Lifestyle
From the first steps, the child feels the need to move. All you have to do is bring it to the playground to convince yourself of this - it will climb on the slide, it will squat, it will hang on a ladder or rope, and so on.
By Hester Schneider2 years ago in Humans
How to Learn to Say “No” Without Becoming Impassive
Each of us has been in a situation where you have to say "no" out loud, but it's so hard to do. It is complicated because from an early age we were taught to be "good", permissive, comfortable, not to be capricious. We thank the parents for this ability, due to which (to some extent) the complicated socialization process is easy.
By Hester Schneider2 years ago in Humans
Let's Talk About Love
Why is love so complicated and full of defiance? The answer can be explained by "MITH's conceptions of love." We get a lot of ideas about what love is and how it develops. The problem is that these paradigms destroy true love. Almost everything we are taught in this regard is not really about love. In reality, we are taught about need, fear, self-judgment, self-denial, victimization, and then we are taught to call these things "love."
By Hester Schneider2 years ago in Humans
The Curse of Loving Too Much
Theoretically, a relationship involves two people. It often happens that one carries the burden of love alone. You love him and you know he loved you once. You count how much you give and how little you receive. You think about all the compromises you have made out of the desire to maintain the relationship, you think about how much you have sacrificed yourself and you at least expect to have the gratitude and respect of the one next to you. He gets used to it, though. He gets used to everything ready and slowly comes to consider that everything is ready.
By Hester Schneider2 years ago in Humans