Whatever is in You... You are projecting it on others outside.
If you ever feel unloved, it can cause you to project that feeling onto others. Have you experienced this before? Take a moment to reflect on your own experiences, setting aside philosophical ideas. Simply observe your own attitudes and tendencies. In the past, spiritual masters would even avoid meeting people who carried negativity. If someone was gloomy and negative, they would say, "This is your karma. Finish it, and then come to me." They didn't engage with them. The same practice was followed by our ancestors and past Gurus. If someone had a negative heart and mind, they were not allowed near the Guru. They were told to suffer and complete their karma. If the person started crying or lamenting, the Gurus would ignore them. The goal was for the person to finish their lamenting and suffering and then, when good karma came, they could approach the Guru. The Gurus would pray, "May my ears only hear good and positive words." This sentiment is echoed in the Veda mantras, which say, "May my ears hear only good words. May my eyes see only good things. May my tongue speak only good speech." Anything negative is to be kept at a distance.