Ayuska Bogati

Embracing Your Emotions Is Ok

Are days longer nowadays? Or do they tend to be shorter? Is it hard for you to get up? Or is it hard for you to sleep? Or do you just tend to lay back in your safe place and never wake up? Trust me when I say that you are not alone. Things are not going the way it was supposed to and life has been harsh for you. I understand. It's ok to lay back for a while. It's ok to treat yourself as a kid who needs a hug. It's ok to not be reactive in front of others and have a panic attack while you are alone. The world in itself has not been kinder to you the least we could do is be kind to ourselves right? I am not saying this as a person who has achieved anything in my life to be honest take me as a mere passing stranger who gave you a note in a park to keep you going to keep you fighting. You might be seeing this because someone who cares for you is looking over you and wanted to pass these words. In today's world, people might be ruder and more unbearable, and sometimes you might think of giving up on yourself. When people say don't think about it too much or let it go it's hard for people like us who feel too much, who get attached too easily, and who can't let go. Letting go hurts because there are things to which you gave your all, your efforts, your time, your care, and still you are empty-handed with nothing to hold on but still you are holding on it hurts right? When people try to make you suppress your feelings it feels irritating right? Well if you ask me it's ok it's completely ok to feel this way. Why jump a whole ocean for someone who can't even jump a puddle for you? Well, I say jump the whole ocean for them or for anything your heart desire, feel for them, care for them, do everything possible for them but never ever let getting anything in return take over your head be as selfless as possible and when I say selfless don't expect anything in return. The main thing about manifesting something is letting it go. Don't force it to stay if it was supposed to happen it will happen by any means. We don't own the right to force anything except ourselves and while it does sound unfair it is how everything works in today's world. It is ok to take a break and cherish yourself. You cared for something that badly see what much of a difference it would have been if you cared for yourself that much. What would have happened if you shifted that care and attention to yourself? It's not late. It's never late because this time the person to whom we have to say sorry is ourselves. You can forgive that small you, right? You can forgive that kid who needed a hug right? You can forgive that one and only person who is always going to be there for you right? You can forgive yourself, right? Because no matter how much back support you get at last it's always going to be you and yourself who are going to end up hugging each other when you cry yourself to sleep. We can do it. It's not late. It's ok. Let's keep fighting. We fought for soo many things now it's high time we fight for ourselves right? So let's feel for ourselves and give it a go. Let's feel for us. Let's embrace ourselves.