Your name is like honey on my lips.
Don't get me wrong: getting back with an ex is never an issue. You may have unfinished business and things to say between the both of you. But is it worth it? Perhaps it is, perhaps it isn't. There are so many different ways and reasons as to why we want to get back with ex flames. Especially now that we're in the Mercury retrograde, in that we have other different planets that are in retrograde. I feel like it's just something that supposed to hit you with a hammer in order to get you on the right path or on the right terms. Sometimes we have to be faced with reality. Even though it's really nice to live in Wonderland but at the same time what are you really going to do with your life? There's so many different ideas about getting back with an ex. Sometimes it's the midnight booty calls. Sometimes the booty calls lead to exciting sexual play. And then there are the random phone calls of somebody missing the other individual or for the sake of not being alone. Sometimes I feel like those are the phone calls that are the worst. Because you never know if the person was genuine in the first place to want to rehash the past.. or even fix what was broken.
Do you remember the first time you had sex with your lover and actually communicated on the things you wanted in the bedroom that turn you on the most? Do you feel that sometimes you were shy and that you really can't express yourself, especially being a woman, and you find yourself locked inside your own head with self-doubt that perhaps your lover doesn't see you the same way and the connection between the both of you has gone stagnant? These are the questions I normally ask because there are times that I feel that I have lost the spark in my own relationship and I feel that sometimes communication can be at a standstill because both parties have such strong opinions. So when you find yourself in a slump, you want to bring the spark back into the relationship that you love and adore, you have to find different ways to be spontaneous. You have to find different ways to rekindle the connection that you had sexually with your lover and you have to be open and honest with that person to let them know that you love them deeply, but you have certain ideas or certain demands that you require. It is never wrong to tell your lover that you might want something new in the bedroom to spice up the relationship and to bring both of you together in a more deeper and loving manner. I find it hard to believe that people actually go through the situation that I have been in several different times. Communication is so important because so many wires get crossed and everybody wants to have a fucking titty-fit. So here are some things that can bring the spice back into your relationship. It something that I tried myself and it actually worked. Besides communication, here are some factors that may give you what you truly desire to bring the spark back into your relationship and bring the beast and freak out of both of you.
“How you love your precious guilt...” - Lestat de Lioncourt.