Thinking back on my own encounter with a narcissist actually makes me laugh a little. How he tried to destroy me with the lies and insults and doing whatever he felt doing but the moment I “stepped outta line” the outrage began.
In life we always are trying to be bigger and better than the next person due to society telling us how that's how it's supposed to be.
When we think of narcissist personality disorder, we understand that the discard is part of the spectrum of this mental illness. The soul sucking vampire is always awaiting their next victim. Praying upon empaths. We know that once they get their intended victim entangled in the nightmare of this self sabotaging, the discard is inevitable but the illusion of this is something that not a lot of people speak on. You’re never really discarded. The inevitability is that they’ll be back.
There is a quote that I've read many times that says that someone can only perceive you at their level of perception. How true is this.
There are two things in this world that you should never have to question. The air that you breathe and the person who tells you they love you.
If you’ve been in a relationship with a person who suffers from narcissist personality disorder then more likely than not you’ve experienced the discard stage of the relationship. If you’ve not quite hit that point, please know that this is part of the disorder. They discard because their mentality is always that the grass is always greener on the other side.