A 24 year old girl trying to share her story with the rest of the world!
I love to learn about new topics and new things!
We all love and strive for a new year to start for many different reasons. Some might want the new year for new beginnings and new challenges they want to bring to themselves. Others want the new year to come to be able to move on from whatever it is that they are wanting to forget in the past year. But many of us, want the new year to start for new challenges and new goals that we have for ourselves. After the year that we all have had, I’m sure that there are many of you that can agree with me that this year is a good year to start new challenges and set new goals for ourselves to have healthier decisions and a better lifestyle.
When people think of doing a good deed, people think of buying a cup of coffee for the person behind them in line, or buying someone lunch, or by simply giving them something that they can really use or something that they really need. Although those are really good deeds that I know will make a huge impact in someone's day, because I have had that done for me before, and trust me, it truly made me feel so warm and happy inside, that I never thought someone would ever do it for me. I believe that giving someone their beliefs back, or their happiness, or simply an act of true kindness, like a simple smile, can truly change someone's life and make a huge impact. I believe that a simple act of true kindness can be a good deed for someone in need of it.
When I was younger, I thought that the world was mine. I thought that every decision I decided to take, would not affect the future, every action I took, would not change my future, and even though with some of the decisions I made, it did not make a difference in my future, there are many actions and decisions that I took that I know my life would have been differently if I had known them or had someone to think wisely before taking those decisions. There are so many things that I wish I would have known when I was younger that I know would have helped me better myself for my future now. I know many of us young women go through similar struggles and situations that we would have wanted someone older to tell and warn us about, and I know that many young women go through it now. I want to be able to be that person for you and for whoever else needs it because I know that if I could go back in time and tell myself these 5 things, I would have been better prepared for life, relationships, and even learned how to be nicer to myself.
When we think about love, we think about a soul mate, a significant other, someone that we spend our time with, share memories and laughs. But there's also that type of love where it's about spending time alone, learning to accept all your flaws and love the way you are. This is the most important type of love. Here are some tips and ways that helped me learn to love myself the best that I can and still continue to do so.