Andrea B Wainer
Expert in psychopathic abuse. Navigator of judicial process when one person is on the narcissistic spectrum. Believer in the human spirit and that your inner light can be dimmed but never extinguished.
The Pain of Leaving a Narcissist is Horrific and Temporary.
At first it is catastrophic, out of focus, indecisive, zombie-like, verge of tears or crying. Fragile, skittish anxiety meets lethargic lack luster existence, hyper vigilant paranoia and self doubt, constant bombardment of self defeating thoughts, inability to experience enjoyment, shaking in terror. Obsessively rehashing past conversations seeking understanding, bottomless grief. This is what we experience in the wake of narcissistic abuse. It eventually leaves our lives if we give ourselves adequate space and time to heal. In order to heal we need to dive right into the pain. We cannot get through it without first getting into it.
Covid CHAOS-The Games Narcissists Play.
COVID-19 is a haven for narcissists and psychopaths to amp up the abuse at home. It is an opportunity for them to be menacing, abusive and to sabotage the career of the target, whilst disrupting the children and family and subjecting them to persistent chaos.
The Narcissistic Storm Cycle
So many of us share this story. We met the man of our dreams. He was everything we had always hoped for and more then we had ever imagined. In just a few short weeks we felt as though we knew him forever, he was our soulmate, what was life without him?