allen chad matthew
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Please allow 30 minutes for family conflict
The world is big, everyone has a different definition of family, the structure of family is: father, mother and children. This is a small family, and the extended family includes the parents of the previous generation. Generally speaking, the structure of a family is a combination of relatives. Some people say that my family is very happy, so the family from a small family slowly developed into a big family, some people say that my family is very unfortunate, always because of the family events and small things very unhappy, so the family broke up. For the first 30 minutes, when we are faced with a problem that has already arisen, stop talking, because this will only make the problem worse, continuing to talk about the problem will make the problem bigger, and emotions will lead to arguments, fights or cold wars. As we all know in life, if things aren't working out for the best, please stop talking and discussing the issue. Give yourself and others 30 minutes to calm down and manage your emotions. The second thirty minutes is to think about the cause and effect of this problem, how to do is the most beneficial and best solution, the affection is home, think about those happy people at home, do not because of a small thing and upset overturned all happiness. Love is an important factor in supporting a family. Love is beautiful and desirable. You shouldn't be spoiled for minor family conflicts. Since you love the person you love, your family should see more of their own mistakes, or not good enough, to understand your family, perhaps this issue is so small in the face of love and your happy past. If you haven't completely let go of the conflict, give the other person a third 30 minutes and you need to communicate so that the other person can better understand their thoughts and emotions and get to know each other better. There is no one in this world who knows what you are thinking when you don't say it, everything is like this, don't expect the tacit understanding in the dog drama, what is in the heart, the real world does not exist. Tell your partner what you think and feel. This will make your partner know you better and love you more. Listen carefully to what your partner is saying and love him. Of course, I learned it from the wife of one of my classmates. It happened to be their wedding day. I went to their wedding and the woman was two or three years older than my classmate. She seemed much more mature than he was, which was probably why she was able to support her family so well. It was a little far from where I was staying, so I stayed in their city on the wedding day. In the evening, I stayed with his sister, with whom I knew well and talked for a long time. I casually asked her how old was her sister-in-law older than her brother, mature enough not to make much of a difference when things happened? She said yes! But her sister-in-law gave her a hint: If you don't know what to say at the moment, don't talk. Because there are a lot of emotions, it just leads to arguments. When I came back later, I thought about her words, so I pigeonholed them for myself to better manage myself and my family. There is no 100% perfect life, no 100% perfect love, and no 100% perfect family. If you love your family, please be quiet. In fact, this is very simple truth, many people can not do. I hope these 3:30 minutes will help you with your family conflict. I also hope that if you can't calm down, understand and communicate in thirty minutes, please be patient and give more to each other and yourself. Understanding and communication work best when things are calm. Understand and communicate within 30 minutes, please be patient, give each other and yourself more time. Understanding and communication work best when things are calm. Understand and communicate within 30 minutes, please be patient, give each other and yourself more time. Understanding and communication work best when things are calm.
By allen chad matthew3 years ago in Families