Ailish is a single mother, freelance writer, and past life regression therapist, which means she gets to time travel on a daily basis.
Best Female Masturbation Techniques
As Cyndi Lauper once said, "Girls just wanna have fun." And while it is fun to have a playmate, it's also fun to do our own thing. No offense, guys or girls—sometimes it's nice to shut the curtains (or not), lie back (or not), and indulge in oneself. There are two types of women in this world: those who masturbate and those who lie. We all do it. Go on, admit it! Nobody’s going to point the finger at you (not before they’ve washed it, anyway).
How to Tell if Your Relationship Is Working
Carrie Bradshaw (probably) once asked in Sex and the City—How do you tell if your relationship is working, if it’s too much work? Of course we all need to work at our relationships, but what happens when the work feels more like hard labor? Feeling like we should be wearing orange jumpsuits and working in a chain gang is not most people’s ideal relationship. Each couple is different of course—some thrive on conflict; After all, making up after breaking up is always hot. But there are some pointers which, if you identify them, should make you look more closely at whether it’s working for you. So… IS there a cut and dried way of how to tell if your relationship is working?
Most Difficult Sex Positions
Have you ever glanced through the Kama Sutra and wondered how in hell they can contort themselves into the most difficult sex positions you have ever seen? If you think sex should be more a game of Chess than a round of Twister, you may find this a bit eye-opening (not to mention eye-watering).
Worst Sex Advice
We’re constantly inundated with ways to have a fantastic sex life, but what about the worst sex advice you’ve ever heard? I mean, whatever the situation, for every good example there are ten bad ones. Except when it comes to bedroom action. Pick up any glossy women’s magazine and there will be articles on ways to give a good blow job. Tips on how to make it last. Advice on finding the G-spot, female ejaculation, and how to enjoy being rear-ended. But nowhere will you find anyone giving you the worst sex advice.
What Her Shoes Say About Her Sex Life
You can tell a lot about a woman by the shoes she wears. Just as a man’s car can hint at the kind of man he is—(big car, small penis?) a woman’s choice of footwear can give you more than a vague idea of the kind of ride you are in for.
How to Choose a Movie to Have Sex To
It’s date night. Whether that means you have shipped the kids off to Grandma’s for the night or you really are still at the dating stage (aww), date night doesn’t have to involve going out. Let’s face it—when the clock comes at a premium and you want uninterrupted sexy time, going out just isn't worth it.
Public Sex Guide
Sex can get boring. It’s ok, you can admit it. Even with the most skillful of lovers, rolling in the sheets can get, well, a bit stale. I mean, there are only so many variations on a theme, right? Him on top, her on top, him behind, on your side, standing up, lying down…yaaaawn… oops, sorry, I dozed off for a sec there. But you can see my point.
Best Mattresses for Sex
Have you ever wondered why you perform better sexually in one bed than another? If you are on fire in one, but a damp squid in another, the problem may well be the mattress. Yes, we know that they say a bad workman always blames his tools, but in the case of mattresses and sex, it’s definitely true. As innocuous as it looks, that squidgy rectangle of love-making heaven could make all the difference between hitting the dizzy heights of ecstasy, or the miserable depths of bedroom hell.
Why We Have Sex with an Ex
Why do we keep going back to our exes? You’d think we’d know better. We’ve been there, done that, and kept his t-shirt (and possibly sleep in it too). We know it ended for a reason, but as time passes we seem to forget the bad stuff and only see the relationship through rosé tinted wine glasses. Why is that?