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“Now I’ll have thirty years of my own”

Insight of a wise widow that values her freedom.

By Cordellia NovisPublished about a year ago 10 min read
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A woman is like a book for most of the society, Judged by the cover, regardless of how the story would be, women were and sometimes is still a bird locked in the cage. It must be emphasized that women were never meant to be working for others rather than working for themselves. We may think there aren’t many stories of women being powerful, but there really is. Let it be fictional or biographical, these stories make us confident to be sure of. During the 18s or 19s ladies were expected to be married at a tender age of 17 or even 16. With the society that prevailed during the time females were expected to stay silent, even though some didn’t stand this. They started to fight back in various ways, some wrote, some spoke.

“The widow’s might” is one such yet fictional story that have made a remarkable statue in Today’s literature.

Written by humanist as well as famous author Charlotte Perkins Gilman, who was famous for her short novel “The Yellow Newspaper”, her this tale consists of a family gathering towards the end of the usual event. The short story defines certain themes like Independence, Freedom of a woman. Often understood with the title it may seem clear that the piece leads to feminism. “The Widow’s might” simply puts effort into the subject that widows aren’t supposed to be pushed apart, simply because their man had died. In those years of the world widows were considered weaker than a married women. Perkins defies these through using a brave move by making a widow that main highlight of the story.

Charlotte Perkin's Gilman

The plot opens with the children of the McPherson family discussing about property after their father’s death, a normal scenario. The author presents that McPherson’s include three children namely James, Ellen and Adelaide. Within the first paragraph we can see that James isn’t really enthusiastic regarding about the family. Hints were given by the fact that James’s wife had not want to attend the Father’s funeral and neither did he persuade her to, she slid by Climatic differences saying that she never willed to travel to Denver in November for a funeral. Casting James aside the two daughters attended it as “Duty” alone without each others respective husbands. As per my opinion “Duty” clearly isn’t the word that suites this, they are not really sympathetic about their father’s demise. Ellen and Adelaide participated like employees at the CEO’s death, they were sad nor happy. Yet again it shows sarcasm, they love their father with the monetary value. Rather than attending the procession they are here to discuss about the property.

The next thing the siblings talk thorough is of who and how will they take care of the old aged mother, They go on with pushing her into each other’s responsibility, finally with the two sisters trying to push her into the brother’s duty. It’s justified that the kids didn’t show any gratitude to their mother who wasted her good life for them, “What are we going to do with Mother?” they treat her like an object, most probably like a vase that lost it’s flowers. “Things cost awfully in these days” this quotation makes it feel that they aren’t willing to spend money on their old, fragile mother. “..That is often true, But it depends”, this scene is when the two girls calmly turn towards their brother and explains that a mother normally prefers son’s more than daughter’s, But James here gives a peek at a dependency, once again it’s often about his wife. Perkins’s explicit that by martial affairs certain conflicts can be aroused, here as well what we see is that tug of war among the mother and daughter-in-law, a common war that leads to divorce possibly. It’s funny to think that today’s society has a handful of many families like the McPherson’s. Maybe with today’s technology the relationship between members are wired, meaning they don’t interact much. But in my perspective Mrs.McPherson is actually disregarded by her kids through out the history of her life with them.

With the sensitive question of how to cope with ‘Mother’, the so called adults reveal that they never were indeed close. It’s when Ellen mesmerizes how she hated to live in there “How did I hate to live here”. It’s possible they weren’t happy at childhood, mainly with their father, whose death they aren’t mourning for. As on and on the discussion proceeds, they are interrupted by Mr. Frankland’s arrival there. Mr.Frankland is the lawyer of Mr.McPherson. His arrival with the will makes the children rise on adrenaline, they are excited not knowing how much they will see by the testimony. Happy with the lawyers coming, they call their mother to come for the will reading. And Yes, that’s where the protagonist steps in for a climax.

Their mother doesn’t show an decent interest with to the friendly lawyer’s attendance, therefore McPherson children, steps in and welcomes the lawyer to sit down, while taking regard of the own seats. The lawyer begins stating “the estate was left to be divided among the children in four equal portions, two for the son and one for each daughter…” as the will goes on to the end. James take it to the end by “There’s an end to all that now” not long enough after this is said “Mother” enters to say “…I didn’t come to hear that old will. It’s no good now.”. Astonished all of them turn their chairs to listen to her.

Well, behold the new will, the property owned by her husband had been transferred to his wife 3 years ago in a time of chaos. With this information the three humans try to lure their mother to a trap. “Well, mother this does complicate matters a little”. Of course it does, readers would think she is inconsiderate, not caring etc. Even though she did it with reasons that are understood at the end. The Children try to persuade Mrs.McPherson by using different elements. With no luck, they question her motive of doing it.

As the Mother she explains when thoroughly inquired by the lawyer, “I have considered Mr. McPherson’s wishes for thirty years…Now I’ll consider my own, I have done my duty since the day I married him.”. Simple but deep, her vow is plenty for today’s woman, she took her freedom, she did her “Duty”. The writer explains through out from this that she wasn’t clearly happy within the marriage. She lists her duties, that references to women’s work load. Then Mr.Frankland questions about her ‘children’ for which she answers with a gist of revenge. “I have no children. I have two daughters and a son…I did my duty by then and they did their duty be me…and would yet, no doubt”. She had done her part, She had finished her duty as a mother. It’s now her chance for escape.

Startling out of the heck for listeners,she continues with her struggle of how she felt caged, whereas none of the children cared to look. She reasons that she too needs a life, having nothing in the first twenty, than spending the rest thirty for the family, she now has thirty more to live. Mrs.McPherson’s idea come out very clear in this way “I’m a stronger women to-day than I was ever in my life”. Her excitement swiftly explains how she is going to plan out the remaining for herself. At the final end she highlights,

“…But it doesn’t matter any more. Thirty years I’ve given you-and your father. Now I’ll have thirty years of my own.”

When genuinely asked by the son where she is going to, Mother replies with locations all over the world, pointing out the desire of travelling around the world. Finished with the settlement “They separated that night-three going East, one West”.

Charlotte’s story amplifies a lot more than to be know, in today’s world we see working women financially independent. However, in those days it wasn’t. They were responsible for everything, the household and taking care of members etc. Many mothers are expected to take care of the children even after their marriages, nonetheless Mrs.McPherson was varied. She did her ‘duty’ with no crumbs left, she demanded her freedom, or else earned it by herself. Mother planned it all out, you would think how indecent or incompatible she is, anyways it doesn’t matter she did it good. Reasons she isn’t wrong is because, she was never treated right, but she treated them all great. As a lady, her ought to give everything for her husband and family is indescribable, yet her not receiving anything back doubts around gratitude. Herself wasn’t given a slightest respect even, she was just an object, a robot fulfilling the wishes.

Mrs.McPherson is a huge example to today’s culture by bringing the theme of freedom into the story. Her throwing her black veil symbolizes her stepping into a new world of independence. Perkins also takes advantage of white, with using it as her outfit colour, once again resembling her free nature. Nevertheless the using of “Duty” whole over the tale demands how much they care less of their faithful human being ‘Mother’. As a boomerang Mrs.McPherson uses it back to show that they too were her duty, giving them a taste of their own medicine.

Something that makes the reader a bit more suspicious about is the relation of Mr and Mrs McPherson. As before mentioned it is possibly a arranged marriage, where neither enjoyed. The Father can be recalled by the children as a cold person to whom none of them showed liking much. The wife’s lack of emotion to the husband is well evident in the “Widow’s might”. She was a rebellious women, intelligent, took the chance of his death to escape everything. Crystal it is that she didn’t merely enjoy her life with him. So by this she wasn’t actually who made the bed sleeping in it, it was himself as seen.

The writer also takes into the fact by giving off small details, for example, the son getting more share than the two daughters, show how much they were cared less in the society. It’s gives to point the fact that Male chauvinism was prevailed in the time of writing.

“The Widow’s Might” surely emphasizes itself deep and all over the topic of female freedom and independence, which are the primary themes of this short story. Based on it’s plot, techniques used the story is a best stance in today’s literature.

Charlotte being a best novelist of the time, as well as a feminist has tried to point out that women were never dared to wear black for lifetime after the death of her man, they were more largely granted freedom to sir down and consider themselves rather than mourn over someone else. This story remarkably has placed in a module of how women are to be shaped into. Therefore, making a mark of women. It has also become a unforgettable short story for me which has captured me in all ears.

In this tale the mother was a zombie or a machine working constantly according to orders. It gives an advice to many youths to treat the person that gave them life, with respect unlike these children.

The advice of this story will never cease a person no matter what happens. Women were meant to be free not like caged animals at circuses that are commanded, and if they are you would never know when the lion will start to roar. The story isn’t only for women, but for anyone without gender specifications, it teaches to live for yourself. It also teaches that “Freedom is being you without others permission”.

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  • Darkos7 months ago

    Yes we need to be Free otherwise another closed heart wont heal and only make us into more of a low drill We need to Heal and be free in love ! Love our hearts and all around ! Heal and forgive to be free ! Love Your article and truth wisdom so happy to encounter You in here ! WE need to free ourselves from the chains of the world that do not serves ! Great article! Much love to You in light and freedom of Heart in each day of Your life !

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