Look At Me

When you visualize the cover of a book; what do you see? As he searches for a book, he is only interested in the actual story. Covers seem out of context or simply blane.

While grasping an understanding of the first chapter; which, resulted from pain and oppression decades ago. Although, he was unfamiliar with turmoil. For many years, everything was perfect, fairytale like. He lived in a sheltered environment surrounded by a supportive loving family.

Yet, there’s the real world. Although, in his world, he believed all were equally yoked, until he left the nest. It didn’t take long to discover, how hateful and deceiving some human beings can really be. In many instances, some will say, “ the unjust treatment you receive is simply misinterpreted.” So, if you’re at the park, doing your daily exercise routine, and someone of another race calls the police on you; what do you call that? Why are people so fearful of a person that has different features? What if, you took the time to introduce yourself. Ask questions to help you get an understanding of your fear. Some of your fears stem from how you treat other in your life. The issue isn’t always the person of color. Issues are usually rooted from misunderstanding or the unknown.

In a world, where your skintone can be pure gold or a curse. He realized this, once, he moved to a gated suburban area. Where others in the community roam freely with their families and pets, without a care in the world. They’re constantly observing your every move. As if, they’re afraid of something.

A suggestion would be to have a neighborhood meeting to get to know all of your neighbors. It’s only fair! He pays his taxes, mortgage,etc; as well. Or will you make them feel uncomfortable or incompetent because of their differences? This will only bring more social injustice to the community. It will cause tension and exclusion on both sides. As, a man having friends and colleagues of different races, can’t seem to grasp the unjust. This type of stereotyping made him extremely angry. Although, he remains calm; he’s furious within. He knows, one indecisive move could drastically change his life forever.

What if my actions were equivalent to yours? Perhaps, you were strolling through the park and I called the police on you? Could you justify the true reason or could you just talk your way out of it?

So, who should really be afraid? Certainly, the people who suffer, not the privileged. There have been many studies conducted on black male trauma survivors ages 18 and older. Black male trauma survivors were significantly less likely to utilize mental health services. Many are fearful and don’t trust the professionals, who don’t look like them. “They have been exposures through trauma, whether through witnessing or direct victimization, is often a daily reality for many black males.” The percentages are mind blowing! “Approximately, 56-74% of black males exposed to traumatic events , may have an unmet need for mental health services.” Who should really be terrified? Certainly, the men whom often suffer for neglect, not the privileged!

So, he marches on with his daily routine, while wondering, “ what’s the difference between us all?”Also, cautious of every step he walks on the pavement. The pavement can symbolize the hardships of people of color. Our paths appear much more difficult than others.Most people go through horrifying events may have difficulty adjusting band coping with life. Some symptoms may include, nightmares, flashbacks, severe anxiety, and uncontrollable thoughts. You may suffer from PSTD. It isn’t anything to be embarrassed about. I suggest that you see a therapist and a physician to get the assistance you need.

Sometimes, we want to make excuses for certain events. Events that occur can be horrific, resulting in a loss of life. So, he questions himself constantly; is it the skin I’m in? We are all one human race. Our purpose is to protect and provide for our families. So, look at me! Tell me what do you see.

Written by:

Devon Fisher