Woman marries far away for 16 years and has two sons

Sixteen years ago, the woman married far away for love and gave birth to two children with her husband. Over the years, her husband went out to work and the woman lived with her in-laws. During the day, three aunts returned to her mother's house from time to time to help with everything. One day, the father-in-law angrily said, "You hurry up and get out, my son no longer wants you."

It is said that behind every successful man there is a virtuous woman, husband Xuejun's career steadily rose, salary from the final few thousand dollars rose to more than 20,000 yuan.

Over the years, Dan Dan has lived with her in-laws. During the day, there are often stumbles between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but basically, there are no major conflicts. Although Dandan is quick-tempered, she is also a reasonable person.

Dandan has three aunts, the in-laws listen most to the eldest aunt, after all, she is the eldest daughter. Her husband, Xuejun, also listens to her three sisters, and whenever there is an important matter, Xuejun will seek their advice. Dan Dan thinks this is also good, the family must discuss it among themselves.

The best friends around often tell Dan Dan that it is not good for couples to live apart all the time. Dan Dan also does not want to be separated from her husband for years, but the children are still young and she needs to grow up with them, and her husband also needs to earn money to support the family. Dan Dan believes that as long as the couple is working together, the days will get better and better.

A year ago, Dan Dan and her husband finally bought a house in the county. My father-in-law also planned to build a villa, and Dan Dan gave all the money he had saved up during the week to his father-in-law to build the house.

But when Dan Dan imagined that her beautiful life was about to begin, she found in her husband's cell phone the rental information of his cohabitation with a female subordinate, and the record of his money transfer to the female subordinate.

Dan Dan was struck by thunder, crying and questioning her husband. The husband, Xuejun, admitted to cheating, and also admitted his mistake, promising not to betray Dandan again in the future. Dan Dan's heart was soft at that time, for the sake of the children, she was willing to give her husband a chance to change his ways.

Subsequently, the husband destroyed the phone.

But what Dan Dan never expected was that not long after, her husband asked her for a divorce. She was not allowed to participate in the construction of the house by her in-laws and three aunts. Dandan suddenly felt abandoned by the family, and she was cold-hearted.

Naturally, Dandan was not willing to divorce just like that, and in a fit of rage, she accused her husband of betraying her in her circle of friends and on various websites.

However, Dandan's behavior aroused the extreme discontent of her in-laws, who united to kick Dandan and the children out of the house. Dan Dan has nowhere to go but to temporarily take the children to live in a neighbor's old house.

Her husband, Xuejun, was hiding at the office and did not come home, and even blacked out all of his wife's contact information.

The more Dan Dan thought about it, the angrier she became, and the more she thought about it, the more unhappy she felt that she had defied her parents' opposition to marrying far away, but now she had gotten such a result. She got angry and went to her in-laws to argue. But the three sisters-in-law were not easy to deal with, and they slapped Dandan.

Dan Dan was outnumbered, but she didn't want to be outdone, so she picked up a brick and smashed the door and windows of the villa she had just built.

The father-in-law said angrily, "Get lost, my son doesn't want you anymore."

Dan Dan was so aggrieved that she continued to smash with tears. The elder aunt called the police, who then came.

A few days later, Xuejun called the TV station for help. He told the mediator that his short-tempered wife had not only smashed his father's new villa but also slandered him everywhere, causing him to lose his job. Xuejun wanted the mediator to help convince his wife to stop going to his parent's house and agree to a divorce.

Xuejun tells the mediator the whole story, but he and his family make his wife Dan Dan out to be nothing

The mediator finds that Jejunum's three sisters are even more critical of Dan Dan as a younger sibling, describing her as full of flaws.

So is Dan Dan as bad as the in-laws say?

As the saying goes, no one is perfect, no one is perfect at all. To find out the truth of the matter, the mediator approached Dandy.

Dandy cried and said, "My husband cheated on me, but I have no evidence, the evidence was destroyed by him. The whole family is working together against me to get me out of the house. I gave 16 years of my youth, and I regret it too much. I didn't listen to the old man's advice, but I've suffered before my eyes! I shouldn't have married far away in the first place, let alone trust him."

Dandy voluntarily admitted that she smashed her in-laws' villa, but she said she was forced to do so by her in-laws. Dandy said she had endured humiliation for so many years, and now she could not bear it anymore.

The company's husband, Xuejun, really betrayed her?

He explained that his wife Dan Dan slandered him, he did not cheat, he lives and eats in the company every day, and colleagues can testify for him. And his wife has been making rumors everywhere, smearing him, causing him to lose his job and become destitute after years of hard work. He said he would not forgive his wife, and he has sued for divorce.

The three aunts also argued that they did not hit their brother-in-law, but that she was unreasonable and looking for trouble everywhere.

Then, the mediator interviewed the nearby neighbors.

Neighbor A said: "Dan Dan married far from easy, there is no credit to the family also have hard work. But the three aunts are too nosy, always stirring up trouble. We saw with our own eyes Jejunum's elder sister slapping Dandy, so it's not right."

Neighbors have said, "People in the village say that Jejune and the company clerk are good, but whether the truth is true, we do not know. But he did not give Dan Dan food expenses for more than a year, Dan Dan is and we borrow money to live."

Neighbor C said, "The elders of this family do not care about things, all to the daughter's control, so the conflict is so much. Married daughters have to put themselves in the right position, otherwise, there will be no peace in the family."

Dan Dan said her husband has no feelings for her and has also sued for divorce, then she agreed to divorce, but the county did not renovate the house and the children have to return to her, well get-together and a good break up.

But Jejune was not in favor of such a scheme, he insisted on the legal process.

After the mediator's persuasion, Jejune agreed to take money to rent a room for Dandy and the children to live, everything, and wait for the court decision.

Marriage is like drinking water, cold and warm. But the men and women in marriage must be loyal to each other, and responsible for the children. Since there are no feelings between the couple, it is good to get together, after all, a day husband and wife a hundred days grace.

Between husband and wife, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, aunt and sister-in-law get along with each other to respect, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, the better the day.